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  • DBomb129

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    Oct 30, 2013 11:32 PM GMT
    Can someone explain how and why this happens?

    Any gay hook up site or app, there seems to be a plethora of married [straight] men. I'm becoming a bit... bothered, concerned, intrigued.

    I'm good friends with a guy who was married and had kids in his 20s, but ended up unhappy (he never cheated) and came out to her and all is well now. I've been with a couple of other guys who were formerly married and have kids as well.

    I understand that but men in their 40s, with wives and kids, messing around between work breaks or on trips, why?

    Are they gay and never came out or "can't" at this point in their lives.
    Bi and wanna have their straight cake while fucking ass, too?

    It's an interesting subject to me.

    If anyone can shed some light or share some stories, I'd appreciate it.
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    Oct 31, 2013 2:18 AM GMT
    Take it from someone who was there. Its the fear of being gay. Some men come to the realization late in life. As for those who have continual gay relations, they are hurting a lot of people in their lives. Its somewhat sad that they will never find happiness. Not that I have, but i'm a lot freer. IMOO..
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 31, 2013 2:29 AM GMT
    They don't feel that hooking up with a man is cheating because there are no feelings involved ... they have convinced themselves it is just like masturbating
  • Bunjamon

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    Oct 31, 2013 4:04 AM GMT
    Some guys who identify as straight just want a little dick sometimes, too. How do you think MTF pre-op prostitutes stay in business? ('cause it's not the gays who are paying them, I promise you that)
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:20 PM GMT
    DBomb129 saidCan someone explain how and why this happens?

    Any gay hook up site or app, there seems to be a plethora of married [straight] men. I'm becoming a bit... bothered, concerned, intrigued.

    I'm good friends with a guy who was married and had kids in his 20s, but ended up unhappy (he never cheated) and came out to her and all is well now. I've been with a couple of other guys who were formerly married and have kids as well.

    I understand that but men in their 40s, with wives and kids, messing around between work breaks or on trips, why?

    Are they gay and never came out or "can't" at this point in their lives.
    Bi and wanna have their straight cake while fucking ass, too?


    It's an interesting subject to me.

    If anyone can shed some light or share some stories, I'd appreciate it.


    Maybe this thread will answer some of your questions...

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3512972
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:25 PM GMT
    It's complicated. For some it's not having their cake and eating it too. Gays and straights lead lives of quiet desperation, remaining in unfulfilled relationships out of loyalty, familiarity, history, and a certain kind of love.
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:36 PM GMT
    Straight guys don't have sex with men, it's part of the definition of straight. Men who have sex with men must be some of those mysterious "bi" men, and if they are married to women and have sex with men, they might be part of that tribe of men who have realized that there are gay men who will put any penis in their mouth or ass no matter what it is attached to. These "straight" men find themselves no longer having sex with their "wives" for whatever reason and still able to get "erections" and stumble upon an app that allows them to hook up with these degenerate gay men with hoover mouths, a perfect match really.
    Except of course, for the unknowing women, attached to the sad little men who are engaging in sexual behavior with these overly sexualized suckmonsters and closeted "straight" men taking advantage of technology.
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:43 PM GMT
    ^
    Actually, it's the married straight guys with the hoover mouths.
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    eagermuscle said^
    Actually, it's the married straight guys with the hoover mouths.

    That's what I've always heard.
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    Oct 31, 2013 4:05 PM GMT
    Very much my experience as well.
    Before we moved and were still in a rural area, I'd have at least two or three e-mails a week, on this sight alone, from them; finally had to remove my location so it would stop.
    My man would get them on facebook.

    There may be a positive to this as these guy's meet that one man that forces them into acceptance; however I've witnessed straight guys collecting the pics in order to brag or make fun of all the guys that want their cock.
    -just two nights ago a very straight (man slut) coworker showed me a pic on his phone asking if I liked the ass shot this enabler sent him. I asked why he did it and he said it was fun.
    He and two other straight guys I work with have all the apps on their phone and laugh their ass's off all night.