What must I do to get a white man?

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    Oct 31, 2013 12:22 AM GMT
    Now that I've tricked you with a title that implies another meaningless, frustrating discussion about race, consider the following question.

    I know you're like "Oh no! discussing the structural elements of preference formation. I just wanted to fight with people who disagree with me on the internet!"

    But bear with me.


    Discussions about race and attraction here always devolve into discussions of individual preference.

    "well different people have different preferences."

    "It's just a preference"

    "Some people like white men and some people like other kinds of men."

    It's time to stop planting this discussion in the generalities of what some people prefer and start planting it in the specifics of what most people prefer-White men.


    It is not your individual preference that is under attack when question like this are raised. What people want to understand is the system behind it.

    Frankly, the obsession with white men in the gay community is not natural at all. If it were a few individuals stating that they preferred white men, it would be normal healthy variation. But the promotion of the universality of white male attractiveness at the expense of all other races needs to be questioned over and over and over, until someone comes up with a solution. Because the worshiping of the white male that takes place in our community borders on mental illness.

    If you put twenty dogs in a room 1/2 male and 1/2 female, they don't all try to fuck the same 1 breed of dog. Obsessive pursuit of white men to the exclusion of everyone else has no basis in biology or human evolutionary history. This leads us to the assumption that it is a cultural construct erected and maintained in a post colonial world where power is not equally distributed. It is this constructed notion of beauty and sexuality that is being questioned.

    To the extent that we don't discuss the structural drivers that have brought us to this place, the issue will never go away.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:29 AM GMT
    I wish there would be more discussions about why so many men of African descent ( i.e african americans, mulattoes, afro-carribeans and afro-latinos ) do not want to date their own race. All i ever here is " why dont white guys like me ". But then i stop and i think about it .... Most of those same men wouldnt want anything to do with their own race approaching them either. I tend to think that Self hate must play into this because when their only response is " Oh i donno i just dont find other black guys attractive ", then wouldnt that mean they dont find themselves attractive ?

    Basically If you cant find beauty in your own race then why on earth would you expect someone outside of your race to see it ?

    Good documentary below that explains this more in depth



  • Paperless_Pen

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    Oct 31, 2013 12:33 AM GMT
    I thought this thread was about engineering.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:58 AM GMT
    I actually have a question for you Deki, you seem to make these threads alot but rarely reply to comments or continue to comment in the threads you've made. Why ?
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    Oct 31, 2013 1:08 AM GMT
    The standard of what is handsome and/or sexy is heavily skewed toward white men. Culture and media helps form preferences and a lot of guys like what culture has deemed to be attractive. Preference is preference, but there can be a road to what forms said preference. This is why you see a lot of non-white men say they prefer only white men, but just about zero white men say they prefer only men of color.

    Non-white men for a long time were marginalized as sexless beings. In a way, it's only been in recent years that non-white men have even been elevated to attractive/sexy status in the mainstream.
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    Oct 31, 2013 1:23 AM GMT
    Mr_Kyle_Barker saidThe standard of what is handsome and/or sexy is heavily skewed toward white men. Culture and media helps form preferences and a lot of guys like what culture has deemed to be attractive. Preference is preference, but there can be a road to what forms said preference. This is why you see a lot of non-white men say they prefer only white men, but just about zero white men say they prefer only men of color.

    Non-white men for a long time were marginalized as sexless beings. In a way, it's only been in recent years that non-white men have even been elevated to attractive/sexy status in the mainstream.


    Yea but I think at this day in age we all know the history of " why " this happens. There is so much information about history nowadays that there is really no excuse to be ignorant. It just kinda seems like they have no self respect for themselves .. like you just say the words " white man " and they start salivating like dogs after a bone.
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    Oct 31, 2013 1:33 AM GMT
    CopperDevil said I actually have a question for you Deki, you seem to make these threads alot but rarely reply to comments or continue to comment in the threads you've made. Why ?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inoculation_theory
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    Oct 31, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    LOL at the title change
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    Oct 31, 2013 2:54 AM GMT
    JonnyMIA saidI've never had a hard time getting white dick. > shrug <icon_neutral.gif


    Neither have I, but I like my men with color. So I kindly tell them no. icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:01 AM GMT
    DarkLight said
    JonnyMIA saidI've never had a hard time getting white dick. > shrug <icon_neutral.gif


    Yeah, I'm sure you haven't especially as you were sucking off most of the captains and sergeants during your "military training" fucking cunt slut cum guzzling piece of shit.


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    Oct 31, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    ViciousRumor said
    Mesmer said
    JonnyMIA saidI've never had a hard time getting white dick. > shrug <icon_neutral.gif


    Neither have I, but I like my men with color. So I kindly tell them no. icon_smile.gif


    I thought your boyfriend was white
    I wish I could get more white guys into me.


    No, my boyfriend is Hispanic. Though his skin maybe "white" you can tell off the bat that he isn't white.
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    Mesmer said
    JonnyMIA saidI've never had a hard time getting white dick. > shrug <icon_neutral.gif


    Neither have I, but I like my men with color. So I kindly tell them no. icon_smile.gif


    Me too. Its ironic that all these whiny white worshipping ethni-gays cant find white guys.... The majority of attractive men that have pursued me have been white men and men outside of my race. I almost never get any hot men of my race talking to me, hence my above first comment... honestly if i let it be up to guys of my race to go on dates I'd be single for a loooooonnnnngggggg time
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:05 AM GMT
    TL/DR any of it. Answer: HAVE MONEY!!!!
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    What is it about white men that everyone craves? What is it about asians that people dislike? What is it about blacks or latinos that people fuck as a fetish? Let's answer these..
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:17 AM GMT
    Jaggal saidReading about this race thing is H.I.L.A.R.I.O.U.S. What does "white" even mean? Are Italians white? What about blue eyed arabs, or generally light skinned arabs? What about dark skinned greeks? Or is it anglo saxons? Are Iranians white (Iran means land of the aryans BTW). Russians?

    I think maybe it is about self-loathing ... I never get these ... let people like who that like and everyone else mind their own business ... how long did it take for people to come to terms with that to begin with .... and yet they are still obsessing over it after all these years
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:25 AM GMT
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    Jaggal saidReading about this race thing is H.I.L.A.R.I.O.U.S. What does "white" even mean? Are Italians white? What about blue eyed arabs, or generally light skinned arabs? What about dark skinned greeks? Or is it anglo saxons? Are Iranians white (Iran means land of the aryans BTW). Russians?

    I think maybe it is about self-loathing ... I never get these ... let people like who that like and everyone else mind their own business ... how long did it take for people to come to terms with that to begin with .... and yet they are still obsessing over it after all these years


    I'm sure that's how straight people feel when they hear gay people whining about being gay
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:27 AM GMT
    Basically its all annoying, white is the absence of color, and black is a shade, the people you refer as white aren't the same color as a piece of copy paper and the people who are called black aren't actually the color black, more brownish, anyways..people should be attracted to intelligence, kindness, ambition, strength, love, things to aspire and inspire, not colors.
    Come on guys, you are all acting too purple.
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    CopperDevil saidLOL at the title change


    But the sad thing is people came once I changed it. People bitch about these threads but never involve themselves in the ones that are actually conducive to real substantive discussion.
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    Jaggal said
    TruthSeeker saidBasically its all annoying, white is the absence of color, and black is a shade, the people you refer as white aren't the same color as a piece of copy paper and the people who are called black aren't actually the color black, more brownish, anyways..people should be attracted to intelligence, kindness, ambition, strength, love, things to aspire and inspire, not colors.
    Come on guys, you are all acting too purple.


    Agreed, though I have to point out that according to Newtons' theory of light, white is all the colors and black is none (no wavelength of light is reflected back).

    Thanks for correcting me I forgot about that...anyways you knew what I was saying.
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:39 AM GMT
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    CopperDevil saidLOL at the title change


    But the sad thing is people came once I changed it. People bitch about these threads but never involve themselves in the ones that are actually conducive to real substantive discussion.


    Dont worry I'm not criticizing you. I understand why you did that. Its very hypocritical for them to come here and bitch about how they " hate race threads ". but yet they come here and comment anyway bumping it up to the top.

    There are threads and topics that i have no interest in and guess what ... I dont comment in them, i dont even READ them ... Why ? because i have no interest ... so why come to the thread to bitch about it .... just leads me to my bitch culture of gay men thread icon_smile.gifhttp://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3473249

    They sure do love to bitch !

    FOr instance my " Sexy Gay Halloween costume " thread. I got people on that thread bitchy about why it had to be gay and sexy instead of just regular Halloween ...

    But guess what ?

    A couple of days before i made the " sexy hot gay halloween costume " thread i made a regular halloween thread and it got hardly any comment, never went past 1 page.http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3449146

    So when i switched up the wording to sexy and gay i got hundreds of comment in a couple of days and it was bumped to the front page within the first day

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3455822.... Such hypocrites
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    Oct 31, 2013 3:52 AM GMT
    Mr_Kyle_Barker saidThe standard of what is handsome and/or sexy is heavily skewed toward white men. Culture and media helps form preferences and a lot of guys like what culture has deemed to be attractive. Preference is preference, but there can be a road to what forms said preference. This is why you see a lot of non-white men say they prefer only white men, but just about zero white men say they prefer only men of color.

    Non-white men for a long time were marginalized as sexless beings. In a way, it's only been in recent years that non-white men have even been elevated to attractive/sexy status in the mainstream.


    ummm... in the context of general media I would say this is a load of bullshit. In the context of gay media there is a more noticeable leaning towards men with Caucasian features.

    A good example: take a look at the andrew christian site. There are VERY few if any black guys in those videos if I recall correctly, but at the same time, someone could argue this is more of a branding approach.
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    Oct 31, 2013 4:00 AM GMT
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    CopperDevil saidLOL at the title change


    But the sad thing is people came once I changed it. People bitch about these threads but never involve themselves in the ones that are actually conducive to real substantive discussion.


    Dont worry I'm not criticizing you. I understand why you did that. Its very hypocritical for them to come here and bitch about how they " hate race threads ". but yet they come here and comment anyway bumping it up to the top.

    There are threads and topics that i have no interest in and guess what ... I dont comment in them, i dont even READ them ... Why ? because i have no interest ... so why come to the thread to bitch about it .... just leads me to my bitch culture of gay men thread icon_smile.gifhttp://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3473249

    They sure do love to bitch !

    FOr instance my " Sexy Gay Halloween costume " thread. I got people on that thread bitchy about why it had to be gay and sexy instead of just regular Halloween ...

    But guess what ?

    A couple of days before i made the " sexy hot gay halloween costume " thread i made a regular halloween thread and it got hardly any comment, never went past 1 page.http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3449146

    So when i switched up the wording to sexy and gay i got hundreds of comment in a couple of days and it was bumped to the front page within the first day

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3455822.... Such hypocrites



    Wow, that's pretty smart. I guess a single words makes a difference in popular threads or not.
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    Oct 31, 2013 4:34 AM GMT
    People's standards are clearly dropping. Used to be white wasn't enough, they had to be blonde...
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    Oct 31, 2013 4:42 AM GMT
    Not this again.. I still personally don't know why this is a huge deal..seems the only one obsessed over white guys are the black guys that don't seem to attract what they want or the white guys who get mad cause the guy they like is dating a black or a asian..get over it
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    Oct 31, 2013 5:08 AM GMT
    Behemothboi saidNot this again.. I still personally don't know why this is a huge deal..seems the only one obsessed over white guys are the black guys that don't seem to attract what they want or the white guys who get mad cause the guy they like is dating a black or a asian..get over it


    Free speech brah, so shut the fuck up