What happened to Slim?

  • HottJoe

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    Oct 31, 2013 9:56 PM GMT
    It seems like there are half as many RJers posting as there were about a year ago, if not fewer. Did everyone move up in the world, were they butthurt, or did they join an ex gay group???
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 31, 2013 10:05 PM GMT
    They all found love
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  • HottJoe

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    Oct 31, 2013 10:08 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidThey all found love
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    Oh, so, they'll be back?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 31, 2013 10:09 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    AMoonHawk saidThey all found love
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    Oh, so, they'll be back?

    lol ... if they were anything IRL like they were on here .... probably
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    Oct 31, 2013 10:33 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidProbably people are PMing more to get away from the publicity of the forums.


    Publicity? Try redundancy!
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 31, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    Erik101 said
    woodsmen saidProbably people are PMing more to get away from the publicity of the forums.


    Publicity? Try redundancy!

    That's probably part of it. I think we've beaten every dead horse there is.icon_confused.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 31, 2013 10:41 PM GMT
    venue35 saidThe forums aren't as fun as they used to be

    They used to be more fast paced, with more people posting.
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    Oct 31, 2013 10:47 PM GMT
    venue35 saidThe forums aren't as fun as they used to be


    Nope, because there are too many butthurt race queens and foreveralones
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    Oct 31, 2013 11:16 PM GMT
    Race threads are a killer, and no matter what the thread is about there are always some idiots that manage to turn everything into a race discussion. Still, this forum goes to a faster pace than one I used to visit in the past.
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    Oct 31, 2013 11:21 PM GMT
    Incendiary said
    venue35 saidThe forums aren't as fun as they used to be


    Nope, because there are too many butthurt race queens and foreveralones


    Yep I agree , there are so many nutters that have absolutely ruined RJ, by being Psychotic, racist, fake, fake, unreal and basically never been fit or healthy in their entire lives.
    Plus the fact that people keep pandering to these arseholes is just unbelievable. You can also see that by posting something positive, hardly any of these new prolific posters respond cause all they want is drama.
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    Nov 01, 2013 1:07 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    HottJoe said
    venue35 saidThe forums aren't as fun as they used to be

    They used to be more fast paced, with more people posting.

    I have 60 interesting, fun ex-RJers on my Facebook friends list. That's SIXTY guys who used to make the forums fun, fast-paced, and entertaining. There must be some reason they all left, and I think it's because RJ used to be (more or less) adult and now it's like the Breakfast Club. Too many kids whining about this and that, no real conversations of interest. Any time a thought-provoking subject does come up, it gets derailed into---yes---race or masc v fem, or some other damn tired, no-win subject. I imagine these exiles just got bored.


    Yes it gets boring after a while, I can see a break coming up for me soon too, found some other sites that are more relevant. Plus summer is coming and due to work I'll be all over the place, no time for masc/ fem balck/asian/ white for me.
    I would have thought in this age on enlightenment for gay people younger guys would be more open and up front. Seems to have happened here but not so much in the US, where did you old Yankee queens go wrong?
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    Nov 01, 2013 1:10 AM GMT
    boorangOz said
    Aristoshark said
    HottJoe said
    venue35 saidThe forums aren't as fun as they used to be

    They used to be more fast paced, with more people posting.

    I have 60 interesting, fun ex-RJers on my Facebook friends list. That's SIXTY guys who used to make the forums fun, fast-paced, and entertaining. There must be some reason they all left, and I think it's because RJ used to be (more or less) adult and now it's like the Breakfast Club. Too many kids whining about this and that, no real conversations of interest. Any time a thought-provoking subject does come up, it gets derailed into---yes---race or masc v fem, or some other damn tired, no-win subject. I imagine these exiles just got bored.


    Yes it gets boring after a while, I can see a break coming up for me soon too, found some other sites that are more relevant. Plus summer is coming and due to work I'll be all over the place, no time for masc/ fem balck/asian/ white for me.
    I would have thought in this age on enlightenment for gay people younger guys would be more open and up front. Seems to have happened here but not so much in the US, where did you old Yankee queens go wrong?

    The Alamo.
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    Nov 01, 2013 1:11 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    boorangOz said
    Aristoshark said
    HottJoe said
    venue35 saidThe forums aren't as fun as they used to be

    They used to be more fast paced, with more people posting.

    I have 60 interesting, fun ex-RJers on my Facebook friends list. That's SIXTY guys who used to make the forums fun, fast-paced, and entertaining. There must be some reason they all left, and I think it's because RJ used to be (more or less) adult and now it's like the Breakfast Club. Too many kids whining about this and that, no real conversations of interest. Any time a thought-provoking subject does come up, it gets derailed into---yes---race or masc v fem, or some other damn tired, no-win subject. I imagine these exiles just got bored.


    Yes it gets boring after a while, I can see a break coming up for me soon too, found some other sites that are more relevant. Plus summer is coming and due to work I'll be all over the place, no time for masc/ fem balck/asian/ white for me.
    I would have thought in this age on enlightenment for gay people younger guys would be more open and up front. Seems to have happened here but not so much in the US, where did you old Yankee queens go wrong?

    The Alamo.


    Was that a bar next to Stonewall?
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    Nov 01, 2013 1:21 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    I have 60 interesting, fun ex-RJers on my Facebook friends list. That's SIXTY guys who used to make the forums fun, fast-paced, and entertaining. There must be some reason they all left, and I think it's because RJ used to be (more or less) adult and now it's like the Breakfast Club. Too many kids whining about this and that, no real conversations of interest. Any time a thought-provoking subject does come up, it gets derailed into---yes---race or masc v fem, or some other damn tired, no-win subject. I imagine these exiles just got bored.


    Pretty much.

    Seams like all I do anymore is click "Ignore His Posts"
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 01, 2013 1:29 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said
    Aristoshark said
    I have 60 interesting, fun ex-RJers on my Facebook friends list. That's SIXTY guys who used to make the forums fun, fast-paced, and entertaining. There must be some reason they all left, and I think it's because RJ used to be (more or less) adult and now it's like the Breakfast Club. Too many kids whining about this and that, no real conversations of interest. Any time a thought-provoking subject does come up, it gets derailed into---yes---race or masc v fem, or some other damn tired, no-win subject. I imagine these exiles just got bored.


    Pretty much.

    Seams like all I do anymore is click "Ignore His Posts"

    I'd have more people posting on this thread if I wasn't on so many ignore lists.icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 01, 2013 2:17 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidThey all found love
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    +1
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    Nov 01, 2013 2:34 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    HottJoe said
    venue35 saidThe forums aren't as fun as they used to be

    They used to be more fast paced, with more people posting.

    I have 60 interesting, fun ex-RJers on my Facebook friends list. That's SIXTY guys who used to make the forums fun, fast-paced, and entertaining. There must be some reason they all left, and I think it's because RJ used to be (more or less) adult and now it's like the Breakfast Club. Too many kids whining about this and that, no real conversations of interest. Any time a thought-provoking subject does come up, it gets derailed into---yes---race or masc v fem, or some other damn tired, no-win subject. I imagine these exiles just got bored.


    I must say that I agree. When I first started posting on the forums, the thread subjects were very interesting to the point that I was well-entertained for hours. Now, I look at threads on "All Things Gay" and can maybe find 2 of 3 that are interesting. icon_neutral.gif
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    Nov 01, 2013 2:38 AM GMT
    Erik101 said
    I must say that I agree. When I first started posting on the forums, the thread subjects were very interesting to the point that I was well-entertained for hours. Now, I look at threads on "All Things Gay" and can maybe find 2 of 3 that are interesting. icon_neutral.gif


    It may be just a coincidence, but guy's used to post what was on the their mind by starting a thread?
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    Nov 01, 2013 2:53 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said
    Erik101 said
    I must say that I agree. When I first started posting on the forums, the thread subjects were very interesting to the point that I was well-entertained for hours. Now, I look at threads on "All Things Gay" and can maybe find 2 of 3 that are interesting. icon_neutral.gif


    It may be just a coincidence, but guy's used to post what was on the their mind by starting a thread?


    YN2K was good at starting threads that usually ended in heated discussions. But I liked his threads because you learn other guys' perspective. And now...it's crap. I just went through the "all things gay" thread titles:

    Eco taxes on vehicles in France....my reaction - I don't care.
    What does an atheist say when someone sneezes....again, I don't care.
    Does Race Really Matter....."Next thread please!!!"
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    Nov 01, 2013 3:18 AM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews said
    Erik101 said
    dustin_K_tx said
    Erik101 said
    I must say that I agree. When I first started posting on the forums, the thread subjects were very interesting to the point that I was well-entertained for hours. Now, I look at threads on "All Things Gay" and can maybe find 2 of 3 that are interesting. icon_neutral.gif


    It may be just a coincidence, but guy's used to post what was on the their mind by starting a thread?


    YN2K was good at starting threads that usually ended in heated discussions. But I liked his threads because you learn other guys' perspective. And now...it's crap. I just went through the "all things gay" thread titles:

    Eco taxes on vehicles in France....my reaction - I don't care.
    What does an atheist say when someone sneezes....again, I don't care.
    Does Race Really Matter....."Next thread please!!!"


    it sounds like you're expecting other people to do something that you could actually do yourself.

    why not just make threads that you think would be interesting yourself instead of hoping someone else keeps you interested?


    I'm trying to come up with a good one that doesn't end with a "YCYL" or "no1curr" response.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 01, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    ViciousRumor said
    HottJoe saidIt seems like there are half as many RJers posting as there were about a year ago, if not fewer. Did everyone move up in the world, were they butthurt, or did they join an ex gay group???


    Rion left. He and I still talk like every other day. He's good.

    That's good to hear. You should tell him to get his ass back here!icon_razz.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 01, 2013 3:42 AM GMT
    ViciousRumor said
    HottJoe said
    ViciousRumor said
    HottJoe saidIt seems like there are half as many RJers posting as there were about a year ago, if not fewer. Did everyone move up in the world, were they butthurt, or did they join an ex gay group???


    Rion left. He and I still talk like every other day. He's good.

    That's good to hear. You should tell him to get his ass back here!icon_razz.gif


    Lol I think he's done with the bitchiness. I can tell him you said hey though.

    Thanks!
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    Nov 07, 2013 10:11 PM GMT
    Do post about poop ruin RJ?
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Nov 07, 2013 10:44 PM GMT

    The forums were never fun, just like gay bars, Pride Parades, threesomes, group sex, and frottage are NOT fun.

    Drag shows, negative test results, ice cream binges after being dumped, sleeping with the frenemy, and Van Damme movie marathons are fun so welcome to being gay.