Bottoming for first time

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    Nov 02, 2013 10:44 PM GMT
    Hey guys, I'm bottoming for the first time this week and was wondering if anybody had a few tips to make it the best experience possible? He's pretty big but patient.

    Also are there any alternatives to douches? Does anyone have some good cleaning tips for down there?

    Thanks guys!
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    Nov 02, 2013 11:27 PM GMT
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    Nov 03, 2013 4:26 AM GMT
    woodsmen said^Too much information--don't want to know anything connected with sex with parents.



    Oh good Lord. Are you Pentecostal? You made him delete his post. Parents have sex too ya know. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 03, 2013 7:07 AM GMT
    Don't do it on a full stomach,and just try to relax..also communicate if it hurts too bad tell him to go easy or stop.. hope u enjoy
  • uaeson

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    Nov 03, 2013 6:03 PM GMT
    Behemothboi saidDon't do it on a full stomach,and just try to relax..also communicate if it hurts too bad tell him to go easy or stop.. hope u enjoy



    and its gana hurt icon_eek.gif so don't panick
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    Nov 03, 2013 7:01 PM GMT
    Haha, thanks!
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    Nov 03, 2013 7:14 PM GMT
    Be aware that there is a nerve back there that can cause you quite a bit of pain and dizziness if it's hit by the penis. I learned that my first and only time bottoming (feels too much like using the bathroom for me).
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    Nov 04, 2013 3:37 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidYeah, a lot of guys want to bottom. But they shouldn't because they don't have the evolutionary physiology to enjoy it properly.


    I dont think it was in natures plan to make men 'evolve' to take cocks up their butts.
  • Apparition

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    Nov 04, 2013 6:23 AM GMT
    If you look at a lot of sphincters the bottoms that take it easily seem to close up more like a clam shell with a long line vertically, or a perfect star shape. If your but clenches shut more like a gear arrangement, it seems you have more trouble.

    would love to see THAT as an experiment here.

    "post your hole" and "i can take it easily or not" lol.

    someone should get a grant to do that.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 04, 2013 6:24 AM GMT
    Apparition saidIf you look at a lot of sphincters the bottoms that take it easily seem to close up more like a clam shell with a long line vertically, or a perfect star shape. If your but clenches shut more like a gear arrangement, it seems you have more trouble.

    would love to see THAT as an experiment here.

    "post your hole" and "i can take it easily or not" lol.

    someone should get a grant to do that.

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  • Apparition

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    Nov 04, 2013 8:38 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Apparition saidIf you look at a lot of sphincters the bottoms that take it easily seem to close up more like a clam shell with a long line vertically, or a perfect star shape. If your but clenches shut more like a gear arrangement, it seems you have more trouble.

    would love to see THAT as an experiment here.

    "post your hole" and "i can take it easily or not" lol.

    someone should get a grant to do that.

    icon_eek.gif


    joe can be shocked...that is funny.

    or does his hole have eyes, although my guess is that it's a little bigger than that emoticon...lol.

    to put it in pics, the wikipedia anus page sidebar shows a girl and a guy, the girl has an irregular shape that is probably not as stretchy, where the guy has the vertical clamshell closure i describe, he can probably bottom easier.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_anus
  • MikemikeMike

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    Nov 04, 2013 9:54 AM GMT
    use a condom!! lot of lube too!!
  • luconfu

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    Nov 04, 2013 4:15 PM GMT
    Take it slow, but make sure you give it a couple minutes... don't just let him go in a little bit and sit there. I would suggest he slowly goes all the way in and then waits for it to become comfortable. It will hurt right away but then feel amazing after a minute or two!
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    Nov 04, 2013 4:33 PM GMT
    I'd suggest you don't do it. It's like getting your drivers license, once you do, you never go back to riding a bike.
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    Nov 05, 2013 12:41 PM GMT
    lube lube lube
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 06, 2013 3:27 PM GMT
    Apparition said
    HottJoe said
    Apparition saidIf you look at a lot of sphincters the bottoms that take it easily seem to close up more like a clam shell with a long line vertically, or a perfect star shape. If your but clenches shut more like a gear arrangement, it seems you have more trouble.

    would love to see THAT as an experiment here.

    "post your hole" and "i can take it easily or not" lol.

    someone should get a grant to do that.

    icon_eek.gif


    joe can be shocked...that is funny.

    or does his hole have eyes, although my guess is that it's a little bigger than that emoticon...lol.

    to put it in pics, the wikipedia anus page sidebar shows a girl and a guy, the girl has an irregular shape that is probably not as stretchy, where the guy has the vertical clamshell closure i describe, he can probably bottom easier.

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_anus

    That's a very unappealing male anus. They must be like snowflakes. No two alike.
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    Nov 07, 2013 1:11 AM GMT
    Like others have said....take it slow, make sure you douche before and keep douching until the water is clear. Its very uncomfortable your very first time.
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    Nov 07, 2013 11:31 PM GMT
    There have been beaucoup posts on bottoming. Some with lots of helpful answers. Try the search function to find them.
  • Paperless_Pen

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    Nov 07, 2013 11:42 PM GMT
    Just learn to relax. You have to want it as well. It is psychological as well as physiological. Get to know your rectum. Get used to things in your ass.

  • Nov 09, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    hey how'd it go? i bottomed for the first time a few weeks ago and the guy was pretty huge. Definitely use a condom especially if its just a hookup. I've actually never douched before. The other guy was a little older but he was really gentle. He took it really slow which i appreciated. After the first few minutes though it was more pleasurable than painful. Kissing helped :p

    definitely feels like you're going to the bathroom though.
  • kun1993

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    Oct 13, 2014 5:43 PM GMT
    I recently loose my virginity and bottoming it hurt like helll i reqired alot of painkiller for pain relief and also i was feeling dizzy so playsafe
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    Oct 17, 2014 11:51 PM GMT
    Man, the secret is just to relax. If he's big, then just get the lube, relax and let the asshole accept.

    THEN IT'S YOUR TIME!

    Tommy