efemophobia in the gay community

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    Nov 06, 2013 2:56 AM GMT
    so i'm sure we all have seen on ppl's online profiles the constant rejection of femme dudes. my question to u is wat is ur take on wat they are calling "efemophobia"? do u like femmes or would u never ever do anything with one or be associated with one? discuss icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 06, 2013 2:58 AM GMT
    Friends.

    Relationship wise, I prefer my Men Masculine.
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    Nov 06, 2013 2:58 AM GMT
    Oh wow, that's a very original topic icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 06, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    likeachampion49 saidso i'm sure we all have seen on ppl's online profiles the constant rejection of femme dudes. my question to u is wat is ur take on wat they are calling "efemophobia"? do u like femmes or would u never ever do anything with one or be associated with one? discuss icon_smile.gif


    I consider what they call "efemnofobia" in some cases the guys who exhibit this are a bit limited and rigid if you ask me. As far as me " liking " femmes ....
    Sure femmes can be cool guys too, i can be friends with a femme, I can even date one if he's hot looking. Im not particularly attracted to the whole acting like a gurl thing but I have seen femme guys who had a natural femme personality but were still good looking guys who didnt try to " look " like a woman.

    In my case i have always felt inbetween, I have soft features and get typecast as a femme because of how i come across in my pics .... but i dont talk like a girl or cross dress or anything.

    But on the other hand i have learned to embrace my soft-face as an asset, i dont want to " rough " it up, i like being unique and that one of the reasons why i chose the theme for my halloween costume.
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    Nov 06, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    i could be and have been attracted to femmes. it just so happens that everyone i have ever dated or had sex with has been masculine. it didnt happen that way on purpose but thats just the way it went
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    Nov 06, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
    Here are some fem looking/sounding guys that i have liked in the past

    The Vampire Armand from Queen of the Damned

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    Rico from " catfish "

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    And Connor Jon from youtube ... he deleted most of his videos but he was very much femme but still hot and really funny

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