Ex is trying to make me undateable w/ online profiles

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    Nov 07, 2013 6:30 AM GMT
    So I've been friends with my ex for a couple of years, but I've been learning that he never got over our breakup and couldn't stand how I don't see him as more than a friend anymore. We are no longer friends as of 6 months ago, as a result of a falling out that started when I accidentally insulted him while trying to get him to change his life around. He once warned me half-jokingly that since he's a scorpio, if someone gets on his bad side, he'd go out of his way to hurt them.

    I recently discovered dudesnude through a friend, and on this dull evening I decided to browse the locals to see if I know anyone on there. I saw a profile with my name and last initial, complete with skanky descriptions begging for sex, and torso/dick pics that aren't even mine. After some digging, I was mortified to find similar profiles on Grindr, adam4adam, and other hookup sites. But the face pictures are from my facebook, accessible to all my friends, so I can't definitely prove which one of them did this, but only my ex has motive. I've never hid my contempt for hookups and those involved, to which he took very personally, so this might be his way of turning the tables and making other guys "judge" me as undateable.

    Now I'm wondering if any of my friends or acquaintances or prospective dates have seen this stuff, and look at me differently as a result. At this point, I'm too stressed out to even worry about payback. What to do?!? icon_evil.gif

    edit: pls move thread to appropriate section
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    Nov 07, 2013 3:13 PM GMT
    Jaggal saidReport all the profiles, block your ex on facebook. He's a dirtbag, a little bitch, a vengeful 15 fucking year old girl who needs a broken nose.

    Yeah, isn't there a way to notify those sites of unauthorized use of his face pic? That's a violation on most sites, and should get the entire profile deleted. The other lying content isn't worth contesting, but the poached pics should do the trick.
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    Nov 07, 2013 9:24 PM GMT
    Wow, that's a lot of hatred AND work, isn't it just easier to let you go? That sucks!
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    Nov 07, 2013 10:47 PM GMT
    Hell hath no fury like a queen scorned
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    Nov 07, 2013 10:55 PM GMT
    If there is one thing I have learned it is this, when there is one side of a story being told, the other side is almost always as interesting.
    I would love to hear what the psycho ex is preaching.
    That said, most psycho exes just need to walk away.
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    Nov 07, 2013 11:07 PM GMT
    Jaggal saidReport all the profiles, block your ex on facebook. He's a dirtbag, a little bitch, a vengeful 15 fucking year old girl who needs a broken nose.


    ^^^^spot on^^^^^, also by the nut job a copy of the book He's Just Not That Into You.
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    Nov 07, 2013 11:10 PM GMT
    So you have contempt for hookups and the people who use sites for hooking up, but your ex is getting even with you by posting your Facebook pictures on hookup sites? How would this harm you? How could this harm you from future dates if you would have contempt from the guys who frequent hookup sites anyway? It's not like you would be there anyway looking for guys to hook up with. Nor would the upstanding men you would be dating.
    You kind of sound like you are kind of drama.
    Maybe you should get back together with your ex. Sounds like you two we kind of made for one another.
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    Nov 08, 2013 2:45 AM GMT
    ^^You're just making a personal attack because we disagreed on another thread. It's not uncommon for upstanding guys to browse hookup sites just out of curiosity. Heck they might even attempt to find something substantial there, and it does happen. Obviously they would be avoiding the profiles that state "3.5 inches, horny pig slut looking to be cum dump for daddy", etc
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    Nov 08, 2013 4:17 AM GMT
    brodyg said^^You're just making a personal attack because we disagreed on another thread. It's not uncommon for upstanding guys to browse hookup sites just out of curiosity. Heck they might even attempt to find something substantial there, and it does happen. Obviously they would be avoiding the profiles that state "3.5 inches, horny pig slut looking to be cum dump for daddy", etc



    lol there he isicon_lol.gif
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    Nov 11, 2013 2:42 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidWhy should anyone respond to you when you've gone into hiding?


    I've always been in hiding. Not exactly looking to date on RJ afterall...