Quick Ways To Get Over a Guy In No More Than a Week

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    Dec 03, 2008 7:47 AM GMT
    I need some advice here. I saw someone I hooked up 3 months ago last weekend and it stirred feelings for him that I thought were gone. After our previous meeting, I deemed him to be geographically undesirable then set out to get rid off any feelings I had for him, which I succeeded after a month. Now, I am afraid it's going take one more month to work him out of my system which will affect my enjoyment of the holiday season. Hence, I need to know ways to get over him as quickly as possible, preferably no more than a week. Suggestions? Thanks.
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    Dec 03, 2008 7:52 AM GMT
    Been there, believe me! I got over it by making myself busy as possible. Last time it happened, I started a big house project with my dad, offered to fill in extra shifts at work, and joined this site. Also jerked off more often. :>)
  • GQjock

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    Dec 03, 2008 12:07 PM GMT
    Sweetheart ...

    If you're going to moon over every little hook up ... getting over this one
    is going to be the least of your problems
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    Dec 03, 2008 3:22 PM GMT
    espada saidI need some advice here. I saw someone I hooked up 3 months ago last weekend and it stirred feelings for him that I thought were gone. After our previous meeting, I deemed him to be geographically undesirable then set out to get rid off any feelings I had for him, which I succeeded after a month. Now, I am afraid it's going take one more month to work him out of my system which will affect my enjoyment of the holiday season. Hence, I need to know ways to get over him as quickly as possible, preferably no more than a week. Suggestions? Thanks.


    Geographically undesirable? My first partner & I originally lived over 1500 miles apart, before we made a home together.

    What else makes this guy undesirable? Are you waiting for the right guy who happens to live on your block?
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    Dec 03, 2008 3:26 PM GMT
    you 'deemed him to be geographically undesirable'? what does that mean? he lives in a poor area or two streets away which is just too far to walk? icon_lol.gif

    this is the best laugh i've had all afternoon. ain't life a bitch? to think a man might actually ruin your holiday season! shocking! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Dec 03, 2008 3:38 PM GMT
    GQjock saidSweetheart ...

    If you're going to moon over every little hook up ... getting over this one
    is going to be the least of your problems


    Amen.

    If they stick their penis in your mouth, that isn't necessarily love. Normally I would suggest you fuck the shit out of some other stud, but if your heart is all aflutter over some trick then there are issues way beyond the scope of this question.
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    Dec 03, 2008 3:49 PM GMT


    Love has geographical limits?
  • styrgan

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    Dec 03, 2008 3:52 PM GMT
    MunchingZombie said
    GQjock saidSweetheart ...

    If you're going to moon over every little hook up ... getting over this one
    is going to be the least of your problems


    Amen.

    If they stick their penis in your mouth, that isn't necessarily love. Normally I would suggest you fuck the shit out of some other stud, but if your heart is all aflutter over some trick then there are issues way beyond the scope of this question.


    MZ,

    I could never have matched that eloquence!
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    Dec 03, 2008 3:57 PM GMT
    Wait, you hooked up with him and you're not over it?!?!?!? Um, can we say stalker tendencies?!?!?!?!? Dude, it's not like you were in a relationship with him, you said it yourself, you hooked up with him and if you did it more than once, then cool, however that still is not a "relationship"! I would say, hook up with someone else and get attached to that guy!
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    Dec 03, 2008 6:52 PM GMT
    Go skydiving. Works every time.
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    Dec 03, 2008 6:58 PM GMT
    Good luck in getting over this deep deep LTR.
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    Dec 03, 2008 7:02 PM GMT
    That is the most fucked up hilarious thing I have ever read.

    What feelings did it stir?

    I sure hope that feelings for a geographically undesirable hookup don't end up tanking your perfectly laid plans for Christmas.

    Your coming off like a cross between Hannibal Lecture and Mary Tyler Moore.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVlkZVAw8Gc

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    If you insist on suggestions, I suggest you have about 6 manhattans and a bag of cashews.






    espada saidI need some advice here. I saw someone I hooked up 3 months ago last weekend and it stirred feelings for him that I thought were gone. After our previous meeting, I deemed him to be geographically undesirable then set out to get rid off any feelings I had for him, which I succeeded after a month. Now, I am afraid it's going take one more month to work him out of my system which will affect my enjoyment of the holiday season. Hence, I need to know ways to get over him as quickly as possible, preferably no more than a week. Suggestions? Thanks.
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    Dec 03, 2008 7:03 PM GMT
    Ooooooohhhhhhhh mmmmi ii ii iister gr a a a a nt!
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    Dec 04, 2008 2:41 AM GMT
    Relax, go within, and connect with the part of yourself that knows it wouldn't have worked and that someone more practical is on the way.

    Also, I have found that most things go away in decreasing waves.
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    Dec 04, 2008 3:20 AM GMT
    dieseljockNYC saidGo skydiving. Works every time.


    Wow, I think that's actually a very good idea! I imagine that feeling of, "OH my God, I'm alive?!" would help.

    I certainly cant answer with a definite program of recovery for you, but I believe that stuff like this and anything else to keep you busy will do it.

    I've been trying to get over someone for almost two months now. Usually my breakdown is quick, but I've been out of work for a month and it ended up coming last night while I was on here chatting with him. I just had to race off of IM or I would've ended up saying something stupid. I still love that man like crazy and no matter what I do I still go to bed hoping he'll grow up and be the man I thought he was originally. I know I'm wasting my time, but my heart hasn't got it yet. Just keep yourself busy and you'll move past it fast. Good Luck!
  • claycub

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    Mar 30, 2009 10:42 PM GMT
    Lookn....BROTHER YOU SPOKE THE TRUTH on that!


    mine..loved me..sweet on me..was in the next city..then..it just changed...he WASN"T man enough to realize he was over and he just didn't have it for me anymore..

    So I had to break it off..and damn..this sucks/hurts..2 mos later..at a mutual friends bday party..he has a date..that he kissed at the party..they arrived separately..and that friend of his..is someone I know..yeah.i'm happy..but damn..stilllllllll flipping hurts..

    I say this..with 3 guys i am actively talking too..(all know that I am JUST dating)..and 3 more..out of state actively WANTING to talk to me..(one in S. Africa?!?)...wow..i'm lucky..

    and still damn hung up on that fricking jerk..who..in the end..'homosexuality is a choice."...HUH!?!?. fucking TURNED OFF..and THEN..he's gay..for acceptance..

    how much MORE do I need??!!..grrr...

    Calgon..take me away..

    hugs to all who read...and to all the wisdom of those who spoke up.

    Love you all,
    Clay
  • Sk8Tex

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    Mar 30, 2009 10:50 PM GMT
    Maybe its just me but perhaps you should take a second look at the relationship if you were the one ending it, and having issues letting go. Sounds like YOU have unresolved feelings towards him, ignoring them and pushing a bunch of tasks into the open spot he left behind may sound good in theory but what happens when your done with those...? icon_confused.gif
  • Sk8Tex

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    Mar 30, 2009 10:50 PM GMT
    eh or perhaps your grasping at straws hoping someone will confirm in writing what you yourself already know...? *grin*
  • docbailey2005

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    Mar 30, 2009 10:55 PM GMT
    It all depends. Were you truly in love or was it just lust? If it was just lust get over it and move on. if it was love it will take time if you truly cared for him. I agree with sandiegonewbi, keeping buys isn't going to do it. It's ok to still care for him but if you know you don't want him back just move on.
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    Mar 30, 2009 11:07 PM GMT

    just do it.
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    Apr 11, 2009 4:47 AM GMT
    This headline sounds lie the same insensitive person who said The Epilady would never hurt.
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    Apr 11, 2009 5:30 AM GMT
    GQjock saidSweetheart ...

    If you're going to moon over every little hook up ... getting over this one
    is going to be the least of your problems


    Yeah, if you can't get better at having meaningless sex with guys, you'll NEVER make it in this world. I mean, what kind of guy sleeps with someone they actually LIKE anymore? (Sarcasm)


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    What's so wrong with still caring about him?
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    Apr 21, 2009 4:27 AM GMT
    don't mean to sound cold, but ...NEXT....
    focus your energy on someone more geographically desireable, right now, before you get hit by a bus :0) and smile :-)
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    Apr 21, 2009 4:32 AM GMT
    Just go and fuck ur brains out with someone more geographically desirable icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 21, 2009 4:37 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]ursamajor said[/cite]

    If you insist on suggestions, I suggest you have about 6 manhattans and a bag of cashews.


    LOL - that is hilarious - best advice yet - only problem 6 manhattans and even the geographically undesirable start to look appealing icon_wink.gif