Is this...normal for a gay bar?

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    Nov 10, 2013 10:29 PM GMT
    So this weekend I saw a guy getting um...plowed by another bareback in the middle of a bar. I felt really disgusted (this was my first gay bar too)! Is this usually what the 'scene' is like? If so...it's kind of appalling...
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    Nov 10, 2013 10:37 PM GMT
    It was called the Ramrod, in Fort Lauderdale. I was like icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 10, 2013 10:38 PM GMT
    Nebraskakid467 saidSo this weekend I saw a guy getting um...plowed by another bareback in the middle of a bar. I felt really disgusted (this was my first gay bar too)! Is this usually what the 'scene' is like? If so...it's kind of appalling...

    Please name the Nebraska bar. In Omaha? I know most of them, never saw anything like that. In gay bars elsewhere, yes, but not in Nebraska.
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    Nov 10, 2013 10:45 PM GMT
    I personally thought it was disgusting and vile for some reason.
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    Nov 10, 2013 10:59 PM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews said
    he just said it was in florida.

    OK, so what bar in Florida? The Ramrod? That's a cheesy leather-bear bar. Not very typical. I presume in the back patio. It's about a mile from us. Caveat emptor.
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    Nov 10, 2013 11:02 PM GMT
    Bareback? Really?

    I figured most dudes were educated enough not to do that shit.
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    Nov 11, 2013 12:18 AM GMT
    hahaha! I went to a gay bar once and it was disgusting but I didn't see anything like that.
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    Nov 11, 2013 12:19 AM GMT
    BNVshark saidBareback? Really?

    I figured most dudes were educated enough not to do that shit.


    You're all shocked because they were barebacking? What about they fuckin in the middle of a public place in front of everyone?
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    Nov 11, 2013 5:55 AM GMT
    BNVshark saidBareback? Really?

    I figured most dudes were educated enough not to do that shit.


    You would be surprised.
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    Nov 11, 2013 6:14 AM GMT
    We have bar like that here but its a leather bar.there's always a chance u see people having sex in the bars though
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    Nov 11, 2013 6:32 AM GMT
    Why do first timers always pick the skankiest gay bar in their city? icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 11, 2013 7:13 AM GMT
    It was worse because I knew this kid who was getting this random screw going on in the club...he went into a room with 5 guys at the resort me and my bf were staying at. So yeah...says a lot about his scruples and morals...or lack thereof. He kept making googly eyes at me and I was like yeah NO.
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    Nov 11, 2013 7:16 AM GMT
    Nebraskakid467 saidIt was called the Ramrod, in Fort Lauderdale. I was like icon_eek.gif


    That place is a sleaze pit, there isn't no one attractive that ever goes there, and you can smell the aids in that place as soon as you enter.. But then again, in Wilton Manors the HIV population amongst gay men is like 50% or above, I think?
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    Nov 11, 2013 2:59 PM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews said
    Nebraskakid467 saidI personally thought it was disgusting and vile for some reason.


    dunno about disgusting and trashy but it certainly isn't classy though. just shows that some people don't know how to act in a public place.

    still envy you for seeing something crazy like that though. icon_sad.gif just means that you got a place to go to to see some craziness. it's not like that around here.


    You can go try a bathhouse. I'm sure there will be plenty of actions there. I've only been to a regular bathhouse (not a gay bathhouse but well-known among and frequented by gay men), and I witnessed circle jerks and b/j there. They hold themselves back for fear of getting caught, so it's probably much, much more actions at a gay bathhouse.
  • rnch

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    Nov 11, 2013 3:02 PM GMT
    Upstairs at The Phoenix here in New Orleans can be quite the eyeful (among other body orifices) on the weekends.




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    Nov 11, 2013 7:27 PM GMT
    Well geez. I'm just saying I never expected my first gay bar to involve freaking bareback sex right in front of the entrance, so I was definitely perturbed. Whatever turns you on though?
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    Nov 12, 2013 12:32 AM GMT
    Oh come on, who hasn't been sketched out on something or another and found themselves knee deep in bareback Asian ass in some bar or all you can eat buffet somewhere? Jesus, are you people for real?
    Just yesterday I was at a Stumptown Coffee having a latte and a bareback orgy with three methed out unemployed Asian gymnasts. What did you do on your Sunday afternoon?
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    Nov 12, 2013 1:34 AM GMT
    ART_DECO said
    thebearerofbadnews said
    he just said it was in florida.

    OK, so what bar in Florida? The Ramrod? That's a cheesy leather-bear bar. Not very typical. I presume in the back patio. It's about a mile from us. Caveat emptor.


    Haha prob the Ramrod. A LOT of freaky sh*t happens there!
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    Nov 13, 2013 7:37 PM GMT
    Sounds like what you might see in a lot of bars in europe - although usually in a backroom.
  • Hothouse

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    Nov 15, 2013 4:01 PM GMT
    It does happen in some bars, as the OP found out. But not in every gay bar, and I'd think it's the exception rather than the rule.
    I've seen stuff in my day, not so much out in the open though. Did see oral/anal at a bar in New Orleans. Mardi Gras - and it was a stop when I was on a gay cruise. One guy was getting fucked right out in the open, huge crowd around. Saw him the next morning on the ship at breakfast, and I was thinking "I know what you did last night..."
    OP - this does not occur at most gay bars, so you may never encounter it again.
  • onefinefoo

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    Nov 15, 2013 4:16 PM GMT
    Yeah, I have never seen action actually happen inside the bar, but have seen it in bathrooms at the bar.