how big is too big?

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    Nov 10, 2013 10:41 PM GMT
    i think we can pretty much all agree that size DOES matter. i mean, nobody wants to take a 2 inch dick. so if we know how small is too small, how big is too big in ur opinion?
  • Philip101

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    Nov 10, 2013 11:30 PM GMT
    In my opinion, a long length isn't a problem. It is girth which is where you can get into the "too big" territory.

    I would say that on a scale of S, M, L, XL and XXL, only the XXL girth is something that I would worry about (actually I wouldn't worry about it - I would just need to take extra precautions to avoid any pain, namely:
    1. Make sure that I am feeling relaxed and horny. Sorry I would not perform pity sex in this case because horniness is essential;
    2. Poppers to relax the sphincter;
    3. Ask the top to go slowly.
    4. Plenty of lube;
    5. Start in a position where you as a bottom have more control, such as the 'saddle' position (if this is what it is called - the one where you sit down on the top).

    With these 5 steps, even a tight person can take an XXL without any difficulties.

    Regarding what is too small, I don't know. Small guys don't tend to want to be tops (in my experience), so I wouldn't know. I am guessing 3.5' and under is too small.
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    Nov 10, 2013 11:49 PM GMT
    xxl? that is not going inside of me lol. in my opinion length and girth are both things to worry about. length cuz if the dick is too long, and tops always seem to wanna stick the whole damn thing in, ur gonna fuck something up internally. like ur intestines will not work properly and u'll break the barrier. girth cuz if the dick is too thick, not only will it hurt but u'll fuck up urwalls and not be able to hold ur shit for nothing! lol there's alot more to worry about than just the pain. u have to keep in mind that this is ur body and u need to keep it working properly
  • rnch

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    Nov 11, 2013 12:09 AM GMT
    I've never understood the size queens and their fascination for big 'ums.

    My ex of 5 1/2 year was big enough to fill me up when went the anal route; but small enough for me to easily swallow him whole for the awesome blow jobs he enjoyed so much.





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    Nov 11, 2013 1:12 AM GMT
    likeachampion49 saidxxl? that is not going inside of me lol. in my opinion length and girth are both things to worry about. length cuz if the dick is too long, and tops always seem to wanna stick the whole damn thing in, ur gonna fuck something up internally. like ur intestines will not work properly and u'll break the barrier. girth cuz if the dick is too thick, not only will it hurt but u'll fuck up urwalls and not be able to hold ur shit for nothing! lol there's alot more to worry about than just the pain. u have to keep in mind that this is ur body and u need to keep it working properly


    you shouldnt worry about that, if you are with a man who knows what hes doing.
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    Nov 11, 2013 1:23 AM GMT
    David3000 said
    likeachampion49 saidxxl? that is not going inside of me lol. in my opinion length and girth are both things to worry about. length cuz if the dick is too long, and tops always seem to wanna stick the whole damn thing in, ur gonna fuck something up internally. like ur intestines will not work properly and u'll break the barrier. girth cuz if the dick is too thick, not only will it hurt but u'll fuck up urwalls and not be able to hold ur shit for nothing! lol there's alot more to worry about than just the pain. u have to keep in mind that this is ur body and u need to keep it working properly


    you shouldnt worry about that, if you are with a man who knows what hes doing.


    ehh, maybe. but i dont trust that. like if its bigger than mine (i'm 9") i dont fuck with it. some like the big footlongs lol and thats alright for them. just not for me
  • Philip101

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    Nov 11, 2013 1:24 AM GMT
    I agree with the comment above that, for the purpose of oral sex, oversized dicks which are too large to fit in the mouth are less enjoyable than those that have a perfect fit.
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    Nov 11, 2013 4:07 AM GMT
    likeachampion49 said
    David3000 said.


    ehh, maybe. but i dont trust that. like if its bigger than mine (i'm 9") i dont fuck with it. some like the big footlongs lol and thats alright for them. just not for me


    bigger than 9" and i want a dna check....


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  • JohnWoodHill

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    Nov 11, 2013 7:57 AM GMT
    Too big?! What lies are these. Then again if it is so big that the guy passes out from lack of blood that would be problematic
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    Nov 11, 2013 7:06 PM GMT
    JohnWoodHill saidToo big?! What lies are these. Then again if it is so big that the guy passes out from lack of blood that would be problematic

    Lol; agreed. If it makes you bleed then it could be too big. Or maybe he didn't use enough lube.
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    Nov 11, 2013 7:11 PM GMT
    Philip101 saidTonight I was with a 10"-11" African American dude (sorry I didn't get out a tape measure, I only know it was very long in terms of length, and average girth.

    As I was getting pounded in the arse, I was thinking "Oh I gotta update my post on 'likeachampion's' thread. Because there was one position which I did find uncomfortable/mildly painful because of the huge size of this guy (which ironically was the the saddle position which I previously recommended.).

    Every other position was fine, as expected. I repeat again, length is not a problem for anal sex - it is girth which can be a problem for anal sex if the bottom is not relaxed and prepared enough.

    A huge length is only a problem for oral sex (both for the giver and receiver) unless your partner is really good at deepthroating.
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    Nov 11, 2013 10:14 PM GMT
    personally i like the fight to get bigger! as they say the bigger the better. although what it really comes down to is how hard they aim for your bellybutton and fuck you till you walk funny the next day icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 12, 2013 5:42 AM GMT
    Philip101 saidI repeat again, length is not a problem for anal sex - it is girth which can be a problem for anal sex if the bottom is not relaxed and prepared enough.

    A huge length is only a problem for oral sex (both for the giver and receiver) unless your partner is really good at deepthroating.


    i still think length CAN be an issue cuz u dont want it to reach ur intestines and fuck shit up medically. we have to remember that the way our bodies work they are actually not designed to take dicks in our asses. but this is wat we do and it feels so good lol...we just gotta be careful to keep everything working properly
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    Nov 12, 2013 6:38 AM GMT
    anything over 8" length= too big
    anything over 6" around= too big

    that would put me @ 7 x 5.5 perfect, although im in a 'large' condom, I don't consider myself huge by porn standard icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 12, 2013 5:02 PM GMT
    I have very thick and i have problem to put it in
    must be plenty of lubricate and very slowly
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    Nov 15, 2013 1:48 AM GMT
    if i can't suck it or fuck it, its too big icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 15, 2013 6:55 AM GMT
    1-4 inches too small
    4.5-7.5 inches great fun size
    7.6, 8, 9 inches too big !! lol I can't handle it! Lol

    I dumped guys who were too small and too big before ! yeah !!icon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
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    Dec 22, 2013 12:19 AM GMT
    Anything over 8" is too big. Anything under 5" is too small. My boyfriend is just right at 6.25".
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    Dec 23, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    In my opinion, nothing is too big. There's no real penis that I'd consider too big to let the guy fuck me. Blow jobs are a different story, but I don't think I'd ever say no to getting fucked by a dick because it was too big.
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    Dec 23, 2013 9:36 PM GMT
    BigAssLover saidIn my opinion, nothing is too big. There's no real penis that I'd consider too big to let the guy fuck me. Blow jobs are a different story, but I don't think I'd ever say no to getting fucked by a dick because it was too big.

    Until you take one that makes you bleed. icon_twisted.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Dec 28, 2013 11:22 PM GMT
    likeachampion49 saidi think we can pretty much all agree that size DOES matter. i mean, nobody wants to take a 2 inch dick. so if we know how small is too small, how big is too big in ur opinion?
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    Jan 28, 2014 10:39 AM GMT
    No such thing as too big or too small. If you think he's hot or you love him it doesn't matter...icon_wink.gif