Meeting a guy from RealJock for the first time..

  • SomeguyNY

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    Dec 03, 2008 9:06 PM GMT
    Still relatively new to RealJock and wondering what most guys do for their first time meeting someone off here... coffee? drinks? dinner? other....? Feel free to elaborate...
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    Dec 03, 2008 11:30 PM GMT
    good ole bondage session...you consider yourself happy if you come out alive!
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    Dec 03, 2008 11:37 PM GMT
    Ask me out and I'll let you know!

    For every internet date I've ever had I've always met in a public place for coffee or a drink. It is so relaxing and you can get a nice chat out of it. I have found most people seem to be interested but then fade. I've also been in situation on other venues (not RJ) where guys want to meet for sex right your place or theirs. No talking on the phones just based on an exchange of pictures. I don't know how anybody can do this. First it seems rather risky to invite a complete stranger to one's house. Second it would be so ackward to say no thanks your not my type.

    If both of you can keep expectations reasonable you should have a good time.
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    Dec 04, 2008 2:24 AM GMT
    If I had ever met a guy from Real Jock yet I'd let you know. As it is, if I were in NYC, a cup of coffee and a stroll through Central Park with you wouldn't be a bad way to spend an evening. Going to see live music wouldn't be a bad option either.
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    Dec 04, 2008 2:26 AM GMT
    Meet for coffee or dinner at a casual restaurant. Do so during the day, not the evening. Do not go to his place afterward or invite him back to yours.
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    Dec 04, 2008 2:39 AM GMT
    C'mon, who doesn't love a gym date???

    You can check um out in their gym shorts and see um sweat... that's half way to a one night stand right? icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 04, 2008 2:45 AM GMT
    I have seen two members at my gym, but never met up with them nor talked with them. I am not much into talking while working out, just a golden rule that I have so I can get through my workout.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Dec 04, 2008 4:57 AM GMT
    wear a condom-don't date anyone from online!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Unless you have totally exhausted all other ways........
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    Dec 04, 2008 4:58 AM GMT
    Spent a week hanging out on the beach. Had a blast.
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    Dec 04, 2008 5:00 AM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidwear a condom-don't date anyone from online!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Unless you have totally exhausted all other ways........


    exactly.... if you are really interested after talking on the phone or on cam,a day time meet is best, lunch or coffee after work both set zero expectation for anything other than confirming there's chemistry.
  • ASH557

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    Dec 04, 2008 5:04 AM GMT
    Yeah lots and lots of bondage.

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    Dec 04, 2008 5:10 AM GMT
    crownroyal117 saidC'mon, who doesn't love a gym date???

    You can check um out in their gym shorts and see um sweat... that's half way to a one night stand right? icon_lol.gif


    Yay for gym dates
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    Dec 04, 2008 5:15 AM GMT
    Bike ride, trail-run, coffee date.... anything brief but fun. An opportunity to say hi but not spend too much time if you decide you don't like each other that much!
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    Dec 04, 2008 5:29 AM GMT
    Let's see...met COjock1974 when he came out for Folsom. Lawson and Chizzad were "workin" the RJ Booth at Folsom Street. Met Kozmeka at Love Fest. Fitdude62 and Lokusdor23 came out to SF recently and I met them for sushi. I'm hoping to get outdoorathlete on the bike trails soon! I've known Brady527 since college back in 2002 and I've known a1972guy for three years now.
  • bigtallguy

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    Dec 04, 2008 5:29 AM GMT
    definitely a trail run.

    It's RJ so why don't you do something active. You can go to a bar with the guys meet on the other sites.

    So yes. My vote goes for trail run.
    And after the run you can take them back to your place for that bondage session you keep talking about.
  • MotorBrett

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    Dec 04, 2008 7:50 AM GMT
    I just had a gym date with a guy I met on a4a of all sites... We went back to my place for protein shakes... No, not those kind!!

    I've yet to have a date with a RJ member, but I'd like to!! *Sigh....*

    Am I just a hopeless romantic, lol?

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    Dec 04, 2008 7:56 AM GMT
    MotorBrett saidI just had a gym date with a guy I met on a4a of all sites... We went back to my place for protein shakes... No, not those kind!!

    I've yet to have a date with a RJ member, but I'd like to!! *Sigh....*

    Am I just a hopeless romantic, lol?

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    It doesn't count as a date but I bumped into Brett over Brunch one day, then again around campus icon_lol.gif

    As I recall actually we were going to go for coffee but he stood me up.....
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    Dec 04, 2008 8:03 AM GMT
    I've met a lot of guys from here, for some reason I'm the go to guy in denver when they come visit.

    When they realize I'm not this bar/club hopping gay scene guy we end up working out together or to a movie. Nothing sexual of course even though some have tried to get me to go back to their hotel lol.

    I have two really cool guys that I'm planning on meeting soon, one I really really like and have been trying to meet him for over a year.
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    Dec 06, 2008 3:04 AM GMT
    i met for dinner
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    Dec 22, 2008 3:37 AM GMT
    I have met several young men from this site at bookstores such as Borders. Not only can you sit down and have a coffee together, but you can get a feel for the person as to what books or magazines he likes or what music he listens to, and they can find out the same from my tastes as well.
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    Dec 22, 2008 5:55 AM GMT
    Once met a guy for a Sunday morning bike ride and breakfast. It worked out pretty well.
    That way, if there's an exothermic reaction, you can hang out for the rest of the day. If it's endothermic, you can head your separate ways.
  • Delivis

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    Dec 22, 2008 6:42 AM GMT
    a drink, a restaurant, a hike, a jog, a swim, a sport, all good. I have met several guys on here.
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    Dec 23, 2008 5:57 AM GMT
    GobB saidi met for dinner


    ... Yeah but did yo get laid? Informational priorities here pal...
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    Dec 23, 2008 5:59 AM GMT
    mindgarden said If it's endothermic, you can head your separate ways.


    Simple fix for that! We need to recalibrate the engines to run on endothermic propulsion, and then we can go get a new Beryllium sphere and.. oh wait..
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    Dec 23, 2008 6:03 AM GMT
    well, when he sits down in the stall next to you, tap your foot...

    in all seriousness, what would you do with any friend? coffee? a drink? a short hike? something involving a leather riding crop and a sling? it's really up to you both.

    just don't worry! RJers are all awesome guys! I haven't met one I don't like yet...