What to do when you're obsessed with someone

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    Nov 11, 2013 8:24 PM GMT
    I am obsessed with my neighbor's mother-in-law. Help
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    Nov 11, 2013 9:05 PM GMT
    You already asked about this. We told you to get over it
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    Nov 11, 2013 9:33 PM GMT
    Obsession is not healthy because it normally turns into clinging, which is always disastrous. The harder you cling, the more he pushes you away. You could be dating Channing Tatum and if he got clingy with you, I guarantee it would get creepy and annoying.

    He clearly doesn't have the same feelings for you, and it sucks a lot. You need to fill your life with things besides him and get rid of what I call "triggers", things that make you think of him. Focus on school, pick up a new hobby and get really good at it. I don't know, whatever works for you.

    You said you don't want to burn bridges, but being friends is constantly re-opening the wound. You probably should stop all contact for quite a while, a month or more, to clear your head. He will probably respect you if you explain all of this to him...

    You're 19! Don't stress being single.
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    Nov 22, 2013 1:04 AM GMT
    This isn't the only thread where the OP has completely changed the contents of his first post. Seems he's a 21st-century prank caller. icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 22, 2013 1:15 AM GMT
    hide in the bushes outside their house with a gimp mask and a big tub of Vick's Vapo Rub
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    Nov 22, 2013 1:40 AM GMT
    Stacy's Dad is really kind'a rad.
    I know it might wrong but I want him so bad.
    I know it might be sad, but I'm in love with Stacy's Dad.
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    Nov 22, 2013 1:44 AM GMT
    tinabob saidI am obsessed with my neighbor's mother-in-law. Help

    Nothing. Just quoting you in case you change the first post again...