How to enjoy bottoming?

  • lo_ok_me

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    Nov 13, 2013 7:08 AM GMT
    Hi guys, recently I've been trying to bottom a lil bit. However, how can I get over the feeling that I'm gonna shit and truly enjoy the ride?icon_twisted.gif
  • disasterpiece

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    Nov 13, 2013 7:19 AM GMT
    Make sure to eat light that day, take a shower and clean yourself up in depth (you can also buy a douche to make it easier), use a lot of a good quality lube, as well as good quality top that knows how to prepare a beginner-bottom.

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    Good fuck ! I mean, luck... Or do I?
  • Paperless_Pen

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    Nov 13, 2013 9:03 AM GMT
    Yeah its gonna feel like taking a dump but keep practising. Its psychological too. You want to get fucked and you will like it. Relax your hole and invite that cock. Take it slow and control those muscles. Once you get passed that initial feeling your cock becomes hard you want that cock in your ass forever. Yeah vary your position so the cock touches all of your rectum. Use lots of lube.
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    Nov 13, 2013 2:34 PM GMT
    I just grab a lot covers, stuff them into my mouth, insert and scream. After initial shock; I'm like a rhinestone cowboy. Forget poppers, pillz or booze. Au Natural bottoming is the way to go! icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 13, 2013 2:36 PM GMT
    Just remember the most important thing for a bottom is to please the top.
  • krsraven

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    Nov 13, 2013 2:36 PM GMT
    Its a matter of practice and don't overthink when the dick is inside..
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    Nov 13, 2013 2:44 PM GMT
    all of the above. also a lot of foreplay (if you have the time) makes it much easier to relax.
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    Nov 13, 2013 2:55 PM GMT
    dont let him go in all in one time,take it slow.
  • ohioguy12

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    Nov 13, 2013 3:22 PM GMT
    kentstrongtommy said
    http://jessejackman.xxx/2013/10/18/keeping-it-clean/


    This is funny because I know "Mr.Jackman" but only recently found out he is a porn star
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    Nov 13, 2013 4:04 PM GMT
    JonnyMIA said
    David3000 saidJust remember the most important thing for a bottom is to please the top.


    Damn right!icon_evil.gif

    There might still be hope for you
  • onefinefoo

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    Nov 13, 2013 4:16 PM GMT
    Play with yourself with your fingers a bit to get ready for the dick!
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    Nov 13, 2013 7:26 PM GMT
    Before trying it again with another guy, practice a lot yourself with a sex toy - dildo.
  • Paperless_Pen

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    Nov 13, 2013 9:57 PM GMT
    Puppenjunge saidBefore trying it again with another guy, practice a lot yourself with a sex toy - dildo.


    For some reason I don't get off with toys. I tried a big dildo with girth and it has little effect.
  • rique692002

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    Nov 19, 2013 4:21 AM GMT
    hope for an experienced top the first few times, don't think to much, know you will love it and so will your top, learn to relax slow deep breaths to start
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    Nov 19, 2013 4:33 AM GMT
    You've got to let the beat get under your skin, you've got to open up and let it all in
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    Nov 19, 2013 4:31 PM GMT
    Take some ibuprofen. Breathe. Douche. Its gonna feel like your going to shit everywhere really no matter what. But thats just your prostate fucking with your mind. Just relax and think of it going in and out and breath and think of then situation and youll be fine. And take it easy at first
  • rnch

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    Nov 19, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    Shower & douche before he arrives.

    Get LOTS of kissing, stroking, fingering & rimming from him BEFORE he tries to enter you.

    About 10 seconds before insertion, take a healthy snort from a fresh bottle of poppers.

    He will slliidddddeeeeeeee right in.



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    Nov 24, 2013 10:36 PM GMT
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    Nov 24, 2013 11:30 PM GMT
    Disasterpiece saidMake sure to eat light that day, take a shower and clean yourself up in depth (you can also buy a douche to make it easier), use a lot of a good quality lube, as well as good quality top that knows how to prepare a beginner-bottom.

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    Good fuck ! I mean, luck... Or do I?



    Exactly.
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    Nov 25, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
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    Love this lol
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    Jul 18, 2014 5:09 AM GMT
    David3000 saidJust remember the most important thing for a bottom is to please the top.
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    A lot of Guys who are regular bottoms, seem to be able to switch off the need for physical pleasure although they would get some, most is psychological. Unlike them more irregular bottoms will find that difficult or possibly pointless and want to end it ASAP if they end up continuing on with it which is not really much fun for either.

    Regular Bottoming guys have attuned themselves to get off on their partner getting off which in a sense is a kinda passivity that makes guys feel that they have been feminised by the guy during sex.

    And you see this is the kinda thinking that leads many inexperienced bottoms to have difficulty In relaxing If your just concentrating on his pleasure and your own is secondary, many guys would just say it ain't worth it. If your going let someone screw your arse it's gotta be about your pleasure and letting him have pleasure too but not at the expense of yours.

    Some side effects are inevitable some of the posts on here are really useful tips. You can get over them and will experience the pleasure sides (assuming he knows what he is doing).