I don't get why some people exclude Asians

  • Nayro

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    Nov 14, 2013 2:21 PM GMT
    I'm sorry to bring this up again but there has been so many negative threads about Asians in my rj, life. I'm i'm Singapore now for a few days and it's the first time i'm in an Asian country. I just want to have said that I've seen lots of really handsome Asians here. So people who don't date Asians are really missing out, shame on them but on the other hand of this, means there are more hot guys on the market for the ones who look past race and other trivial characteristics!
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    Nov 14, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    Without pics, no one is going to believe you are surrounded by hot Asians, sorry.
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    Nov 14, 2013 2:42 PM GMT
    Daelin saidI'm sorry to bring this up again but there has been so many negative threads about Asians in my rj, life. I'm i'm Singapore now for a few days and it's the first time i'm in an Asian country. I just want to have said that I've seen lots of really handsome Asians here. So people who don't date Asians are really missing out, shame on them but on the other hand of this, means there are more hot guys on the market for the ones who look past race and other trivial characteristics!


    There are many Asians with good bodies, great personalities and bigger than average dicks. Just right.
  • Nayro

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    Nov 14, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidWithout pics, no one is going to believe you are surrounded by hot Asians, sorry.


    I saw this one hot guy today, I was tempted to do so. Amazing body and really handsome face.. I'm sure you would agree.
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    Nov 14, 2013 4:06 PM GMT
    to answer your question, people exclude whole ethnic/racial groups from intimate relationships, friendships, business relationships, etc. because they are close-minded.
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    Nov 14, 2013 4:57 PM GMT
    There's something out there for everyone kids!

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    I admit I find it frustrating that all the Asian guys I'm attracted to only want to date white guys! You can find beauty in every race. Now finding a guy with decent morals -- that is a whole other story.
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:06 PM GMT
    Birds of a feather flock together.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 14, 2013 5:07 PM GMT
    sean_zuri saidto answer your question, people exclude whole ethnic/racial groups from intimate relationships, friendships, business relationships, etc. because they are close-minded.

    They are also experiencing a delusion of mass hysteria, which makes it much harder for someone to become open minded. The concept can be applied to anything that's overvalued because it's trendy, but it is perhaps most hurtful and frustrating when it's applied to humans in the form of bigotry. Racism is a social construct but also a bubble that may well burst, at which point no one will understand what we (society) were thinking.

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraordinary_Popular_Delusions_and_the_Madness_of_Crowds
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:09 PM GMT
    xrichx saidBirds of a feather flock together.

    That doesn't apply to sexual preferences though.
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:19 PM GMT
    woodsmen said^I read it too quickly and thought he said he loves a black BMW.



    woodsmen said^I read it too quickly and thought he said he loves a black BMW.


    Haha, no he loves his Big Beautiful Woman, preferably in chocolate:

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    I love this movie haha. "Swing it you cocoa goddess." -Eugene Levy
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:21 PM GMT
    @J - Enjoy your new life "Down Under"!

    Do me a favor and get laid a LOT!
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:23 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    sean_zuri saidto answer your question, people exclude whole ethnic/racial groups from intimate relationships, friendships, business relationships, etc. because they are close-minded.

    They are also experiencing a delusion of mass hysteria, which makes it much harder for someone to become open minded. The concept can be applied to anything that's overvalued because it's trendy, but it is perhaps most hurtful and frustrating when it's applied to humans in the form of bigotry. Racism is a social construct but also a bubble that may well burst, at which point no one will understand what we (society) were thinking.

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraordinary_Popular_Delusions_and_the_Madness_of_Crowds


    Fixed
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:25 PM GMT
    Who's excluding Asians?
    Why are there no Asians on your hotlist?
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:29 PM GMT
    xrichx saidBirds of a feather flock together.


    Not true, I've been on dates with guys from all different ethnicities. I also believe, people that limit their friendships to only "like minded or similar individuals", lose out on experiencing this thing called life. With more Asians becoming Americanized, in 100 years from now, it won't be such an aversion. A lot of attractive females are into Asian guys. Don't get me wrong racism and biases will probably always exist (unfortunately), but it will decrease when cultures begin to blend and see similarities in one another.
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:30 PM GMT
    xrichx saidBirds of a feather flock together.


    so using your logic, humans of a certain ethnicity should only mate, befriend, work, etc. with humans of their own ethnicity? ok.icon_rolleyes.gif

    not to burst your bubble, but "birds of a feather" are all the same species; they rarely "flock" with birds of another species. yet, there is evidence that birds mate across species lines http://www.nytimes.com/2013/04/23/science/does-bird-mating-ever-cross-the-species-line.html?_r=0.

    unless you think there are multiple human species based on ethnicity, this idiom doesn't logically apply.
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:39 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    sean_zuri saidto answer your question, people exclude whole ethnic/racial groups from intimate relationships, friendships, business relationships, etc. because they are close-minded.

    They are also experiencing a delusion of mass hysteria, which makes it much harder for someone to become open minded. The concept can be applied to anything that's overvalued because it's trendy, but it is perhaps most hurtful and frustrating when it's applied to humans in the form of bigotry. Racism is a social construct but also a bubble that may well burst, at which point no one will understand what we (society) were thinking.

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraordinary_Popular_Delusions_and_the_Madness_of_Crowds


    i was thinking that i would add 'and delusional' to my above sentence, but thought i'd be nice. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 14, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    Because they don't like Asians.. there ya go mystery solved
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 14, 2013 5:46 PM GMT
    sean_zuri said
    HottJoe said
    sean_zuri saidto answer your question, people exclude whole ethnic/racial groups from intimate relationships, friendships, business relationships, etc. because they are close-minded.

    They are also experiencing a delusion of mass hysteria, which makes it much harder for someone to become open minded. The concept can be applied to anything that's overvalued because it's trendy, but it is perhaps most hurtful and frustrating when it's applied to humans in the form of bigotry. Racism is a social construct but also a bubble that may well burst, at which point no one will understand what we (society) were thinking.

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extraordinary_Popular_Delusions_and_the_Madness_of_Crowds


    i was thinking that i would add 'and delusional' to my above sentence, but thought i'd be nice. icon_smile.gif

    You're just too nice, Sean.icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 14, 2013 6:18 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidLook, I am not attracted to racists so they actually make it much easier in knowing who you are going to date, have sex with, be married to.


    Woodsmen you already have a guy that loves you for you icon_wink.gificon_biggrin.gifYAY! Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to date a blind guy. I saw this guy at the gym yesterday, he was like 4'11" and he had a handsome face (maybe in his late 20's/early 30's). Okay I officially sound crazy -- I just want real love (not just lust and passion), but a commitment. I'm glad a lot of gay guys don't like Asians sexually. I'd hate to see any human used purely for sex. Don't get me wrong that's an aspect of any intimate relationship, but that's the thing it is only ONE aspect.
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    Nov 14, 2013 6:29 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidWho's excluding Asians?
    Why are there no Asians on your hotlist?

    Word home fry

    One of my best friends growing up was black, and she'd teach me how to say thing like A'ight! ^_^ Sadly she always wanted to be white growing up, our school was primarily white. I didn't see another Asian guy till high school icon_eek.gif Love people not colors, and whatever color turns you on is your business icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 14, 2013 6:31 PM GMT
    OP: I haven't noticed the negative-on-asians threads here, but I probably would not read them anyway. Sexual attraction is what it is - there's no explaining it. You must have encountered a lot of asian immigrants in NL, just like you will in Oz. Have a great time there - you should do well.
    -And if you ever get to San Francisco, there are lots of asian gay guys here.
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    Nov 14, 2013 6:34 PM GMT
    asians makes the perfect twinks
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    Nov 14, 2013 6:39 PM GMT
    HikerSkier saidOP: I haven't noticed the negative-on-asians threads here, but I probably would not read them anyway. Sexual attraction is what it is - there's no explaining it. You must have encountered a lot of asian immigrants in NL, just like you will in Oz. Have a great time there - you should do well.


    Actually a lot of guys in Asia don't have the same obessession over race, that the U.S. gay community seems to have. They have their own celebrities and views on what they find attractive in bedroom.
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    Nov 14, 2013 6:40 PM GMT
    David3000 saidasians makes the perfect twinks


    You don't even like twinks or did you change your mind about Bieber?
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    Nov 14, 2013 6:43 PM GMT
    woodsmen said"I'm glad a lot of gay guys don't like Asians sexually. I'd hate to see any human used purely for sex."

    Young fool! A lot of them do like us sexually.


    Not in my pure mind. The gross guy at the gym staring at me in the shower was simply looking for new methods on how to wash his body.