can a guy be too "short" for you?

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    Nov 15, 2013 11:30 PM GMT
    I figure if the guy can bring it...no limits! Dude on right is 4'11":
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    Then there's this adorable cutie who could probably kick my ass bringing 'tude whether he's flexing or lifting mightily in his daisy dukes, who's 4'3":


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    Nov 16, 2013 12:06 AM GMT
    I'm more interested in a guy when he's laying down so height isn't an issue. Height/weight proportion is more of an issue for me. Not really into Walmart fat.
  • Huskul

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    Nov 16, 2013 12:12 AM GMT
    Someone less than 5'5" would be a stretch for me. I like shorter but I don't need someone with a complex.
  • twigster

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    Nov 16, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    actually... this topic HAS been addressed here before, nearly as much as the "too tall" question. icon_smile.gif

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/1566223
  • ThatSwimmerGu...

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    Nov 16, 2013 12:33 AM GMT
    Im 5'6... according to last doctor visit im 5'5 now. So guys dont come to much shorter
  • TBird

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    Nov 16, 2013 12:33 AM GMT
    I like guys around my height or a touch taller. I'm not into short guys, just my taste. Sort of like I'm not into tall guys. When I have to get on a ladder to make out that's an issue.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Nov 16, 2013 12:35 AM GMT
    I generally prefer around the same height, a little shorter but not much is ok, taller is cool
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    Nov 16, 2013 12:45 AM GMT
    oh look, another thread about height...
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    Nov 16, 2013 12:46 AM GMT
    AardvarkPetter saidI prefer a guy be around my height or taller, I already think im kind of shorter as is, I'm 5'10
    r u pooping on me
    5'10 is average
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    Nov 16, 2013 1:49 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidI am only 5'4". You guys make me feel bad. icon_cry.gif

    Don't feel bad. I'm hot as hell for very short men.
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    Nov 16, 2013 1:52 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidI am only 5'4". You guys make me feel bad. icon_cry.gif


    yea but being short can be pretty fun, guys can pick us up way easier and that can be way hot icon_smile.gif
  • rnch

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    Nov 16, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
    As Always: it depends on the other guy.

    Height (or lack of) is a rather surface, superficial reason for immediately rejecting an otherwise Good Guy, IMO !
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    Nov 16, 2013 2:26 AM GMT
    My paradoxical dating advice to the very short and very tall, based on the ups and downs of my dating experience as 6'2" guy:

    Average height guys are the most likely to prefer guys around their own height. Because average height guys are the most common, excluding guys outside their average range does not damage their dating pool. On the other hand, guys who are outside this average range -- the short and the tall -- have limited power to exclude guys outside their own height range because they are less common. Unlike average height guys, they consistently see most people being shorter or taller than themselves. This, coupled with the fact that they are more often rejected because of their height than average height guys, makes short and tall guys less likely to reject because of height.

    I have had more dates and I was more appreciated by 5'5" guys than by 5'9"-5'10" guys. Average height guys are the ones who reject me the most in spite of being the most common.

    TL;DR: If you are very tall or very short, guys outside the average range are less likely to reject you because of your height than average height guys.
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    Nov 16, 2013 2:34 AM GMT
    Pocket-Size Gays! icon_cool.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 16, 2013 3:50 AM GMT
    Yeah, I try to keep it above 5'10
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    Nov 16, 2013 3:53 AM GMT
    i volunteer at an old age home..and i once heard this man that i tend to say.."height doesn't matter when youre doing the horizontal mambo".
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    Nov 16, 2013 4:09 AM GMT
    I don't care too much. It's odd how many guys say they're 5'6", yet they're shorter than I am.
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    Nov 16, 2013 4:10 AM GMT
    tereseus1 saidi volunteer at an old age home..and i once heard this man that i tend to say.."height doesn't matter when youre doing the horizontal mambo".


    Haha awesome.
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    Nov 16, 2013 4:36 AM GMT
    Actually this is the one thing that keeps me from being truly attracted to my man. Sure he's gorgeous, sure he's built, sure he's hung like a donkey; all of that doesn't do shit for me though since it's all on such a short frame.

    He's right for me in just about every other way, so I've learned to live with it, but damn I long to hug and kiss someone without bending over to do it. icon_neutral.gif
  • FireDoor211

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    Nov 16, 2013 4:38 AM GMT
    I don't think so, I like em kinda small.

    Also, I was just wondering if there was a such thing as gay midget porn?
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    Nov 16, 2013 4:40 AM GMT
    turbofan said
    He's right for me in just about every other way, so I've learned to live with it, but damn I long to hug and kiss someone without bending over to do it. icon_neutral.gif



    thats pretty harsh, i feel bad for your man
  • Slickdog21

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    Nov 16, 2013 4:42 AM GMT
    I strongly prefer taller but shorties between 5'4-5'7 I also find attractive, especially when they're built/athletic icon_biggrin.gif
  • Webster666

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    Nov 16, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    Ckfeezy saidoh look, another thread about height...
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    I love this ^^^

    I don't care how tall or short a guy is.
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    Nov 16, 2013 5:07 AM GMT
    Most of the guys I've been with were shorter than me (I'm 6ft). I don't mind, and I am most attracted to stocky built guys anyway. I admit that a friend of mine who is under 5 ft. made a pass at me and I was not really into it. That was more about him being a friend than his height, but I will say that it played a role in my decision to forego sex with him.

    The only thing I don't like about being with my big beefy guy-o-the-moment is that I can't really budge him. I like being able to flip a guy over when we're making out or having sex. I guess I had better hit the gym a little harder.
  • Addtocart

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    Nov 16, 2013 5:08 AM GMT
    No way man. Short is so fucking HOT!