Sometimes I feel like I would like to have one, yet this feeling hits me, kids are not for me or I am not ready to have one. Part of what makes it worst, you see all your former high school friends around you having children and you are starting to become the odd one out. The other day, this guy I had a crush on, had his first and was posting pictures of his child all over FB, so you get a jealous feeling.
I do well with kids in a boring way I guess. If you want them to fall asleep, just give them to me. My colleague at work brought hers to work and I had to baby sit throughout the day and the minute he came into my arms he just fell asleep.
Women at work who saw me said they need to bring their babies to me because I seem to have some effect. Some started with 'you need to get one' comments. (If they only knew)
I would like to have yes, maybe out of curiosity, just see what my off spring would look like and to in someway continue my lineage. Then again, this requires inserting a hard penis into a vagina and thrusting to the point where you have an orgasm. Last time I checked, I am not into that kind of thing and I don't know any women who would be interested in doing a Ricky Martin style kinda thing either.
Yes, the child needs to be biological in my case, nothing wrong with adopting.
Then again, do I even want children - not really. I like that freedom that comes with being single and/or gay. Children are a responsibility, you can't just put them in a closet when you don't want to raise them anymore and you don't want to end up raising a psycho, twisted, dysfunctional child either or be an absent father. The minute you have one, a lot of your priorities take a back seat. Its all about them, even when they become grown adults.
What I want is a guy I can spend the rest of my life with so we can take care of each other. Let me work on that.