Is the ball now in my hand?

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    Nov 18, 2013 3:13 AM GMT
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    Nov 18, 2013 3:24 AM GMT
    I hope you'll at least have his email address so you can keep in touch. It sounds like he's shy and not a fast mover sexually so moving slowly might be a good idea.
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    Nov 18, 2013 3:49 AM GMT
    lay down naked and show him that ass and see what pops up.
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    Nov 18, 2013 3:55 AM GMT

    Dude, how many clues do you need? If it helps don't go with the whole shy guy kissing him routine - act all besmirched and inquire as to why you are being dated, cuddled on the beach, but not invited home? But please, stop obsessing over his looks, rack your brain as to what else you like about him. Really very good looking guys aren't flattered by some guy claiming they "must" have them. Guys just want regular guys unless they are in the market for something strange, which they make pretty clear. Hurry Up! I'm older than you and I've been here before and didn't kiss him and yes, received confirmation later that the kiss was expected and sorely missed. And with him about to be gone, you've got nothing to lose and great memories to gain.

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    Nov 18, 2013 4:14 AM GMT
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    Nov 18, 2013 5:00 AM GMT
    dude, u gotta just kiss him.
    U expect this man to just lean in and kiss u like you're some princess Jasmin on Aladdin or some shit? Take that shit. If u want a kiss, then fucking just do it. Just kiss him cuz u fucking want to, duh. be selfish.
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    Nov 18, 2013 12:21 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidI hope you'll at least have his email address so you can keep in touch. It sounds like he's shy and not a fast mover sexually so moving slowly might be a good idea.


    Yeah i have considered that possibility. I'm just doing my best to keep things natural and comfortable but still expressing myself.
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    Nov 18, 2013 12:22 PM GMT
    Apparition saidlay down naked and show him that ass and see what pops up.



    I can't do that. I would feel very awkward and I wouldn't know how to handle the rejection after showing my pretty bum.
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    Nov 18, 2013 1:02 PM GMT
    When you're together, do you touch lightly each other ? I mean, touch the knee, the leg, hold on to the leg, or take his hand for a few seconds, or run your fingers along the veins of his forearms while chatting?

    Sounds like after four dates, there would be some 'contact'. A back rub,, a neck rub, hands on your shoulders or vice versa.

    I guess the obvious question you did not mention is "Is he gay?" Does he know you are? Since you said he calls you buddy.

    I m not sure I would go in for a kiss, but I would definitely start with some body contact like touching, grab his finger playfully and rub it. Do you ever share a dessert? ie. same plate, own fork? I find that sweet and romantic.

    He could be shy with the lack of a hug at the end (a handshake, really? Even the gay friends I meet we give a hug, even for the first time!).



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    Nov 18, 2013 4:43 PM GMT
    Whatever happened to date rape?icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 18, 2013 5:13 PM GMT
    Is the ball in your hand?
    If that's a pun, it's funny but I think you mean "in my court."
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    Nov 19, 2013 7:20 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidWhatever happened to date rape?icon_confused.gif


    gone. only thing you get out of it is a black eye
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    Nov 19, 2013 7:22 AM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidIs the ball in your hand?
    If that's a pun, it's funny but I think you mean "in my court."


    maybe.. icon_redface.gif
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    Nov 19, 2013 12:00 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidWhatever happened to date rape?icon_confused.gif


    Date rape died out with Converse High Top sneakers and Condoleezza Rice.. icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 23, 2013 5:43 PM GMT
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    Nov 23, 2013 6:02 PM GMT
    Please, 6 months is like 25 years for a straight couple. Just snog him already.
  • kiwi_nomad

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    Nov 23, 2013 6:02 PM GMT
    is he taking you on all these dates or is it really just two friends hanging out? to me a movie isn't a date, especially if he doesn't show signs of being interested!

    maybe he just wants a friend and nothing more?
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    Nov 24, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    GuyFromNZ saidis he taking you on all these dates or is it really just two friends hanging out? to me a movie isn't a date, especially if he doesn't show signs of being interested!

    maybe he just wants a friend and nothing more?



    Yeah i'm afraid so. It is what it is. At least I can have a friend.
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    Nov 24, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    hashtagterence saidI guess I'm now mostly angry at myself for convicing myself there was something there. For allowing myself to think about him more than I should.

    Your feelings were normal. I hope you can keep the friendship. Who knows, something may develop down the road after he gets back. In any event he sounds like a nice guy and someone whose friendship you'll value.
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