He Broke Up With Me Via TXT

  • Joeyphx444

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    Nov 19, 2013 6:13 AM GMT
    icon_sad.gif not even a full month into the relationship and he sent me a txt today basically breaking up with me. He was vague so I can't even really say why it was

    He erased me and blocked me from Facebook and not sure if he blocked my number or not. He said, to make it the least painful he was gonna take himself out my life and so far he has but in a small way really

    Today was his bday too

    I don't even know, I am just a mess, I know it was short but he was my first serious bf and it was very sudden
  • Import

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    Nov 19, 2013 6:19 AM GMT
    awww, you'll be ok.
    He sounds like a dick. Good thing it was only a month, boo.
    Don't worry-- you will feel better.
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    Nov 19, 2013 6:27 AM GMT
    What a cunt. Just move on. If he doesn't have the balls to tell you why and tell you in person, then he wasn't worth being with.
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    Nov 19, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    Want us to beat him up!!!!! icon_mad.gificon_mad.gificon_mad.gif
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    Nov 19, 2013 2:49 PM GMT
    Ok so you began talking in the spring/summer and established a relationship around fall/october right ? BAAAAADDD. November is break up month, hardly anyone brakes up during october because october/halloween is the " fun " month. November is when things get more serious because the holidays are right around the corner and people realize weather or not they are really taking they're relationships seriously. I've seen soooooo many people braking up during november every single year
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    Nov 19, 2013 2:54 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidOk so you began talking in the spring/summer and established a relationship around fall/october right ? BAAAAADDD. November is break up month, hardly anyone brakes up during october because october/halloween is the " fun " month. November is when things get more serious because the holidays are right around the corner and people realize weather or not they are really taking they're relationships seriously. I've seen soooooo many people braking up during november every single year


    Not to mention, the prospect of buying a present (and inadvertently meeting family as they will be around more) makes them question how serious the relationship is...
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    Nov 19, 2013 3:17 PM GMT
    "Not even a full month into the relationship..." So three weeks into dating he texts you that he's not into it. So?
    I know it hurts, but so would a face to face meeting, so would a note, so would a voice mail, so would anything. Breaking up hurts and he took a pussy way out, but it's a way out. Move on, get over it and figure that this one ex took a pussy way out. Maybe someday you too will break up via text and you will say, yeah but it was easier than facing someone you were just not into.
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    Nov 19, 2013 3:24 PM GMT
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  • Paperless_Pen

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    Nov 19, 2013 3:37 PM GMT
    Its annoying when they say nothing and break up. I would want to know why. Even if its made up. But he is cowardly for not saying anything. He is not willing to communicate and work on it. Not even willing to give it a try. Men! If he can't explain it, move on.

    But what if he wants you back in a months time?
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    Nov 19, 2013 3:46 PM GMT
    Ohno said
    CopperDevil saidOk so you began talking in the spring/summer and established a relationship around fall/october right ? BAAAAADDD. November is break up month, hardly anyone brakes up during october because october/halloween is the " fun " month. November is when things get more serious because the holidays are right around the corner and people realize weather or not they are really taking they're relationships seriously. I've seen soooooo many people braking up during november every single year


    Not to mention, the prospect of buying a present (and inadvertently meeting family as they will be around more) makes them question how serious the relationship is...


    Exactly !
  • rnch

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    Nov 19, 2013 5:38 PM GMT
    My ex broke up with me, several times, by email and text mssgs.

    But we always made up in person.


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  • rnch

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    Nov 19, 2013 5:39 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidAt least it wasn't on a Post-It.




    From "sex & the city"?
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    Nov 19, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    Maybe you guys are not officially together (a month is still new) and he wants to date the field, Anyway, move on buddy! Hugs !! icon_biggrin.gif
  • Import

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    Nov 19, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    text him u have AIDS and scare him. just for fun/
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    Nov 19, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    Can you hug someone to death?

    Please
    Please
    Please, tell us you did not get him a great Birthday present?
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    Nov 19, 2013 6:40 PM GMT
    Import saidtext him u have AIDS and scare him. just for fun/


    Hahaha do NOT do this. But if you do, please tell us everything that happens, thank you.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 19, 2013 6:44 PM GMT
    Ohno said
    Import saidtext him u have AIDS and scare him. just for fun/


    Hahaha do NOT do this. But if you do, please tell us everything that happens, thank you.

    You guys, that's pretty insensitive to the OP, to say the least.icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 19, 2013 7:12 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Ohno said
    Import saidtext him u have AIDS and scare him. just for fun/


    Hahaha do NOT do this. But if you do, please tell us everything that happens, thank you.

    You guys, that's pretty insensitive to the OP, to say the least.icon_confused.gif


    I did tell him not to do it...

    When it comes to relationships (especially gay ones) there is a "danger zone" in between when you first see each other naked and when you meet his friends or family. If possible, try not to get too attached before you are out of the danger zone.

    Regarding being blocked, in the long run you might prefer that to being put in a position where you say something you might regret later so it is not necessarily so bad (although it is cowardly of course).

    Regarding the reason why he broke up with you, he might not be ready for the idea of officially being in a relationship with a man, or being in a relationship at all, especially if he is young. None of those would be any reflection on you at all.

    I hope that is a better answer icon_biggrin.gif
  • Import

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    Nov 19, 2013 7:20 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Ohno said
    Import saidtext him u have AIDS and scare him. just for fun/


    Hahaha do NOT do this. But if you do, please tell us everything that happens, thank you.

    You guys, that's pretty insensitive to the OP, to say the least.icon_confused.gif

    dude, it was a joke. Obvs in poor taste, but what do u expect from me? get over it.
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 19, 2013 7:25 PM GMT
    OK, well considering he put poz on his profile, I imagine his ex already knew.
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    Nov 19, 2013 7:33 PM GMT
    Modern times and methods. That's progress I guess!
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    Nov 19, 2013 7:37 PM GMT
    MisterWhatsIt saidModern times and methods. That's progress I guess!


    What about Phil Collins in the 80s with his divorce by fax icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 19, 2013 9:33 PM GMT
    The guy didn't have the guts or enough style to do it across the table - - as in a last dinner or lunch, or even over a 'good-bye' drink? Fine. Just say, "Good riddance" and realize he did you a favor. There are some things you'll retain from the relationship, some good memories maybe. But now you're free and ready for someone much better. Sometimes one door has to close before another can open for us. Good luck!
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    Nov 19, 2013 9:55 PM GMT
    Sorry to hear of your pain. Take care of yourself, Exercise, keep busy, don't think about him, and he will fade. In the long run, it is probably better that he broke off all contact with you. That will help you get over him faster. Move on - he has. He was your first BF ? - Well, know that there will be others. Your future is longer than your past.
  • Webster666

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    Nov 20, 2013 1:24 AM GMT
    CONGRATULATIONS !
    Now, you can go out and find someone who deserves you.

    Yes, I know it hurts.
    That will pass.
    You'll be okay; better than okay.
    Okay ?