Are you an active or passive dater?

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    Nov 20, 2013 5:05 AM GMT
    Do you go after guys you like or do you let guys that like you come on to you? Or a bit of both?

    Which is of the 2 is better in your opinion?
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:08 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidBoth but it depends what going after guys means. It might be a simple hello.


    Going after guys = making the first move, which could start with a simple hello icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:12 AM GMT
    It's like a good game of ball. It's really fun when everybody gets to pitch and catch.
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:15 AM GMT
    Passive. I never know when a guy is into me. So I rarely make the first move. icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:18 AM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews saidpassive. EXTREMELY passive. so passive that i don't do shit nor do i jump on the opportunity to do shit if it arises. unfazed by it though.


    I like passive dating but doesn't it result in less dating?
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:22 AM GMT
    it depends on my mood and the guy! The last couple guys i went out with, they chased me but I wasn't that interested in them! I don't do the chasing unless I really like the guy !!
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:22 AM GMT
    Dating? What's that? But I tend to be a passive dater cause that way I know the guy's into me.
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:29 AM GMT
    Well sometimes you can test the waters by making a subtle first move, then see his reaction and go from there.

    I think sometimes guys unintentionally don't notice you until you make yourself noticed.
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:39 AM GMT
    Ravensong saidDating? What's that? But I tend to be a passive dater cause that way I know the guy's into me.



    **Insert __Bottom jokes here! Pun-intended !(JK), you're cool RS. icon_lol.gificon_redface.gificon_eek.gif
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    Nov 20, 2013 5:38 PM GMT
    Both.

    One person can't put all the logs into the fire the whole time.