would you date a post-op transgendered person?

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    Nov 20, 2013 6:22 PM GMT
    I ask this question because I randomly came across some videos featuring post-op females that changed into males. If you didn't know any better you would think they were born guys. My question is would you date one of these guys or a post-op male?




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    Nov 20, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    Whoa... they are pretty cute. I've seen hot post op guys before and i actually was good friends with one in highschool.

    I've always asked myself what i'd say if a guy like this asked me out ... I guess I'll never know until/unless it happens. Itd be conflicting because if he was cute like the guys in the video i'd have a hard time saying no ... but at the same time I'm a bottom so what would we do ? I guess this is were you decide if emotion or sex is more important.
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    Nov 20, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    If I were younger and of a dating age, sure, why not? But the more fundamental question is, are these guys gay? That's not something one can assume just because they're transgender.
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    Nov 20, 2013 7:34 PM GMT
    They both are very hot and seem like great guys to boot. Especially Noah; I would totally love to hang out with him as he seems so real and easy to talk to. But.....I couldn't date or have sex with them. I guess I'm narrow minded but it would just creep me out, as I have a total phobia about being intimate with a woman. icon_neutral.gif
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    Nov 20, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    _SAGE_ saidThey're both hot and pretty damn stealth (i'd have never guessed).

    It'd be interesting to explore the possibility. Potentially. You know, with a super hotty. Who knows.


    If neither of them said it or showed their scars you'd never know.

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    Nov 20, 2013 10:45 PM GMT
    Sure, especially if they'd thrown in some free carpentry.
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    Nov 20, 2013 10:53 PM GMT
    ok, I'm either stupid, old, or dumb..or all 3.. Did they used to be women?
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    Nov 20, 2013 11:13 PM GMT
    The guy in the first vid is very good looking and seems real nice. My only issue would be the sex. So I could enjoy a loving, intimate, long term relationship with a transperson as a primary relationship as long as I was getting some familiar man on man sex on the side, or in between, however that might work.
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    Nov 21, 2013 1:17 AM GMT
    I have no issues if I dated a trans person.Once you're a boy or a girl, you are exactly that gender.
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    Nov 21, 2013 1:25 AM GMT
    _SAGE_ saidThey're both hot and pretty damn stealth (i'd have never guessed).

    It'd be interesting to explore the possibility. Potentially. You know, with a super hotty. If the situation organically arose, who knows.




    You make a good point. I just don't think I could get pat it mentally.
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    Nov 21, 2013 4:42 AM GMT
    What's more disturbing about these "guys" is that they're more masculine than many actual gay men.