Tease at the gym :/

  • nomad4life

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    Nov 21, 2013 11:15 PM GMT
    So I was at the gym today, doing bicep curls etc., and this REALLY hot guy comes over to me completely out of nowhere. I mean I wasn't even looking at him or anything, in the zone. Anyway, he comments saying I'm lifting a surprisingly high amount of weight for my body type (I think because I'm thin he thought I couldn't lift a lot?). I politely said thank you. Then I thought, hey let's try and see if I can talk to him a bit more. So I said I was thinking of switching exercises, muscle confusion and all that. He offered to show me this weird ass bicep rep I've never seen before (something like twisting your torso while squatting and curling, anyone know that one?). It felt good actually, I'm gonna keep it. Anyway, there was a lot of contact, a lot of smiling, things were looking great, and this kind of shit never happens to me so I was elated. At one point he said he had to go and it was nice meeting me. I said the same. I paused for a minute trying to figure if I should pursue this somehow (I'm afraid of the YCYL rule). I'm glad I did because at the door I saw him meet up with this girl, bend down, and give her huge kiss. Damn...

    I realize he wasn't intentionally teasing, I just couldn't think of a different title.
  • Timbales

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    Nov 21, 2013 11:55 PM GMT
    Sometimes people are just friendly.
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    Nov 22, 2013 12:00 AM GMT
    Timbales saidSometimes people are just friendly.

    True this.
    AND sometimes they're on the DL and/or "curious."
    Next time you see the guy, keep things low-key. Just ask him what that curl variation he showed you is called. Then let the convo flow as it will. What's wrong with making a new friend? icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 22, 2013 12:50 AM GMT
    Seriously; Tricks are a dime a dozen.
    Now,
    A gym buddy--score!!!
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    Nov 22, 2013 1:10 AM GMT
    I think he was just being nice. I do the same for women in the gym all the time. I hope they don't think i'm a tease as wellicon_confused.gif

    or, he might be a closet case, next time you see him spark up a conversation, and watch the eyes, if he's attracted to you you'll know.
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    Nov 22, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    He was flirting with you, as many mostly straight guys do.
  • nomad4life

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    Nov 22, 2013 1:52 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidSeriously; Tricks are a dime a dozen.
    Now,
    A gym buddy--score!!!


    I never had a gym buddy before. Mostly I'm just in my own world with my music. Maybe I'll try this.

    And JohnSpotter, lol at your comment
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    Nov 22, 2013 3:08 PM GMT
    That moment when your at a store ( or any public place surrounded by large sums of straight people ) and see a hot gay guy eyeing you like a piece of candy and you want to say something .... but what ? straight people can just ask each other out and be normal, its not fair !
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    Nov 22, 2013 9:36 PM GMT
    What's the YCYL rule?

  • nomad4life

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    Nov 23, 2013 5:30 PM GMT
    Solomono saidWhat's the YCYL rule?



    It means You Cruise You Lose. My understanding was don't try and pick up dudes at the gym unless you want to risk not being welcomed at that gym anymore.