your stories, of finding the next one

  • aldss

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    Nov 25, 2013 11:18 PM GMT
    Hi guys, i just wanted to hear some nice stories if any exist of moving on from being broken hearted, have you found love again and are you happy now ??
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    Nov 26, 2013 12:02 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidNo one ever finds love twice. You get one chance, and if you blow it, well, #foreveralone


    oh no, why u say so? i don't want to believe you icon_cry.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 26, 2013 2:17 AM GMT
    Aristoshark saidNo one ever finds love twice. You get one chance, and if you blow it, well, #foreveralone


    Stop making trouble. You'll scare the children!

    Yup. Got dumped by a guy I was beginning to think long term about. Boo hoo'd for a couple of months, set up a sex date with an inappropriately young guy. We met and have been together very much in love for six years.
  • hebrewman

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    Nov 26, 2013 2:33 AM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    Aristoshark saidNo one ever finds love twice. You get one chance, and if you blow it, well, #foreveralone


    Stop making trouble. You'll scare the children!



    LAUGHED OUT LOUD AT THAT QUOTE!!!!

    i SERIOUSLY doubt that there will ever be a 'next one'.
    cancer 'treatment' took way too much away from me.
    i just want to find someone to pal around on the boat and maybe lend a hand or two with casting off and heading out for the day. maybe some assistance with giving her a wash down from time to time.
    oh hell, who am i kidding. i'll just set up a glory hole in my next house and post an advert on craigslist.
    or maybe here.
    but the boat offer still stands.
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
    HEBREWMAN saidi just want to find someone to pal around on the boat and maybe lend a hand or two with casting off and heading out for the day. maybe some assistance with giving her a wash down from time to time.

    Oh honey, good luck with that. There's a reason my dad's been boating solo the past 30 years. Boating sounds great to people until they realize it keeps them from the mall, or they might have to do actual work. Too much commitment!
  • aldss

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    Nov 26, 2013 9:33 AM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    Aristoshark saidNo one ever finds love twice. You get one chance, and if you blow it, well, #foreveralone


    Stop making trouble. You'll scare the children!

    Yup. Got dumped by a guy I was beginning to think long term about. Boo hoo'd for a couple of months, set up a sex date with an inappropriately young guy. We met and have been together very much in love for six years.


    LOVE IT, THANK YOU FOR SHARING MATE.
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    Nov 26, 2013 9:36 AM GMT
    I've given Love so many times, but I always end up getting heartbroken.
    NEVER AGAIN.
  • hebrewman

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    Nov 26, 2013 9:44 AM GMT
    eagermuscle said
    HEBREWMAN saidi just want to find someone to pal around on the boat and maybe lend a hand or two with casting off and heading out for the day. maybe some assistance with giving her a wash down from time to time.

    Oh honey, good luck with that. There's a reason my dad's been boating solo the past 30 years. Boating sounds great to people until they realize it keeps them from the mall, or they might have to do actual work. Too much commitment!


    yeah i know. but, they are out there. i marvel at 'boating couples' that share not only the joy, but the upkeep. there are two women on my pier that are equal to their male counterparts. cathy is mikes second mate and she can not only handle BOTH sets of bow and spring lines, but she can navigate using PAPER charts and can handle an orbital buffer like no bodies business. same for stacy who's husband mark will not lift a polishing cloth. but by god, stacy will compound and wax that silverton 39 like it was factory new. if, however, i must go it alone boat wise, then i guess i will have to downsize to my ultimate fantasy boat.... a mid 1980's GRAND BANKS 32. perfect for me AND the dog.
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    Nov 26, 2013 10:22 AM GMT
    i still love my ex...i have a bf and he is an amazing man full of perspectives in life and very beautiful but i cant get over my ex because he made me feel so happy, so full of life that when he left me for a other man he broke my heart so bad that i couldnt find happiness in anybody...i still hope that things will come around and he will come back to me...but i fear this is a loosing game im in ...for he is happy and i am not icon_sad.gif
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    Nov 26, 2013 10:28 AM GMT
    MedgenC saidi still love my ex...i have a bf and he is an amazing man full of perspectives in life and very beautiful but i cant get over my ex because he made me feel so happy, so full of life that when he left me for a other man he broke my heart so bad that i couldnt find happiness in anybody...i still hope that things will come around and he will come back to me...but i fear this is a loosing game im in ...for he is happy and i am not icon_sad.gif


    Ahh, I know/remember that feel, bro.

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    Nov 26, 2013 10:41 AM GMT
    I've been with 2 serious guys in my life. Well, the first guy was all right! The second guy, we were together for a while but to make a long story short, we broke up, more like on my end, I was unhappy! It took me about a year to fully recover and be myself again! Now thinking about that relationship, I do have a spot for him in my heart but it was the right decision. I learned a lot from my past mistakes! My taste in men changed a little bit too, I usually like similar/younger guys now, boy next door type! (like musicians gay dudes a lot).

    Since then though, I've been dating on and off, hooking up with a couple of cute guys! Honestly, I think my problem is I'm a little picky and I just don't want to settle down yet! What's the term, serial dater? lol, The last 2 guys I hung out with, they came on too strong and text me way too much and I didn't feel any romantic vibes with them. Lol, this is not a happy ending story! I'm keeping my eyes and option open. I am optimistic about finding love in the end though, I'm a Libra.
  • ja89

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    Nov 26, 2013 10:46 AM GMT
    I was recently broken-hearted during Halloween. He wanted to have sex with the masses from his contact list, I wan ted to cuddle up with him. We couldn't make it back to the area we both had lived (separate places), so he hit up many of his friends. Most to all turned us down to stay there for the night due to seeing a pic of me and not approving, the final guy accepted and this is where my heart lays broken. I felt like I could make it passed my usual 1 month infatuation stage. While I was in the room, they started to have sex. I don't play the sharing game, nor am I ok with you having sex with others while I'm dating you. Worst pain I've felt in a while and I will not put myself through that again. Best part of this is he acted like nothing happened at all and tried to text me with smiley faces and shit.

    So no I haven't found another since then, it's only been a month. I was single my whole life before that, in fear of something like this would happen. I'm back to being single and I'm not going to date anytime soon. I prefer being alone than dealing with dysfunction.
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    Nov 27, 2013 5:07 AM GMT
    i'm afraid to love again! My past memories won't let me to play next
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    Nov 27, 2013 5:47 AM GMT
    aldss saidHi guys, i just wanted to hear some nice stories if any exist of moving on from being broken hearted, have you found love again and are you happy now ??


    Yeah, well I was in those shoes about a dozen times before I met Bill. When watever partner at the time had issues with our relationship, and drifted away I came to understand that it was about him, not me. HIM. And you know, that's allowed, as hurty as it is.
    Don't let past others steal your thunder. Save it for the better guy coming up, because if you're social, guys are like buses; if you miss one just hang around and another will come along.

    *hug*

    warmly,
    -Doug