Why do gay guys gossip and judge?

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    Nov 26, 2013 2:43 AM GMT
    More so compared to my straight friends?

    UPDATE (11/26/13)
    I found validation from the other thread that RJ member xrichx linked.

    GordHunter saidIt's common, but not just between gay guys....although it seems, in some gay circles that there's a licence for cattiness...I've been in groups with straight men and they gossip as well, just not as bitchy or with as much venom.

    I avoid gossip, I refuse to take part in it and will remove myself when I begin to hear poison from another's mouth. I have no respect for gossips, I don't trust them and I have no interest in the dirt they're trying to spread.....it's the lowest form of communication.
    'nuff said.


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    xrichx saidhttp://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3088954
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    Nov 26, 2013 2:45 AM GMT
    AnOriginal saidMore so compared to my straight friends?


    ...Why do you gossip and judge more than your straight friends?
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    Nov 26, 2013 2:50 AM GMT
    JarIan said
    AnOriginal saidMore so compared to my straight friends?


    ...Why do you gossip and judge more than your straight friends?


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    Nov 26, 2013 2:54 AM GMT
    You know how the old saying goes, "If you have nothing good to say about anybody...










    ...you need to come sit right here next to me...














    ...or come onto the Hangout." icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Nov 26, 2013 2:58 AM GMT
    JarIan said
    AnOriginal saidMore so compared to my straight friends?


    ...Why do you gossip and judge more than your straight friends?


    Are you admitting to being one of them? There's even this older gay couple 50+ and they do cardio at a slow pace next to each other, and just gossip the whole time. Their heads turn when a cute guy walks past haha.
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    Nov 26, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    Gossip has a purpose in every culture. Women gossip. Gays gossip. Straight guys gossip.
    Gossip is usually delivered as a cautionary tale.
    Every sordid tale contains an obvious though usually unintentional warning.

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    Nov 26, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    I find that straight men gossip a great deal. I think it seems more commonplace with gays because we are a smaller community so when things happen, people talk and it gets around faster...just maybe.
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    Nov 26, 2013 3:07 AM GMT
    thatJackalguy saidI find that straight men gossip a great deal. I think it seems more commonplace with gays because we are a smaller community so when things happen, people talk and it gets around faster...just maybe.


    That's a great point.
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    Nov 26, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3088954
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    Nov 26, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    AnOriginal said
    JarIan said
    AnOriginal saidMore so compared to my straight friends?


    ...Why do you gossip and judge more than your straight friends?


    Are you admitting to being one of them? There's even this older gay couple 50+ and they do cardio at a slow pace next to each other, and just gossip the whole time. Their heads turn when a cute guy walks past haha.



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    Nov 26, 2013 3:21 AM GMT
    AnOriginal saidMore so compared to my straight friends?


    Because they're evil bitches!
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    Nov 26, 2013 3:45 AM GMT
    JarIan said
    AnOriginal said
    JarIan said
    AnOriginal saidMore so compared to my straight friends?


    ...Why do you gossip and judge more than your straight friends?


    Are you admitting to being one of them? There's even this older gay couple 50+ and they do cardio at a slow pace next to each other, and just gossip the whole time. Their heads turn when a cute guy walks past haha.



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    Nov 26, 2013 4:07 AM GMT
    AnOriginal saidMore so compared to my straight friends?


    your straight friends are more secure in themselves (body and mind (mostly mind)). Not all gays/queers gossip, but as a group we are known for it.
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:09 AM GMT
    Security issues maybe?
  • KepaArg

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    Nov 26, 2013 4:13 AM GMT
    Maybe your friends suck. Straight males gossip too
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:18 AM GMT
    It's human nature and most of them want to act like mean girls! icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:21 AM GMT
    Because we're human!
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:22 AM GMT
    so true and i can't stand them.
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:22 AM GMT
    Don't any of you actually work with straight guys? My goodness, they are the worst gossips of all, they may be more subtle about it, but they are the biggest gossips out of any societal group
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:23 AM GMT
    Maybe it's because the gay guys who don't gossip don't catch your attention because they're quiet.
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:24 AM GMT
    booroz saidDon't any of you actually work with straight guys? My goodness, they are the worst gossips of all, they may be more subtle about it, but they are the biggest gossips out of any societal group


    totally agree
    I work with straight guys and they gossip about everyone and everything
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:24 AM GMT
    Straight women are the worst! like in the workplace! Sometimes, when they're bored and have nothing to do. They just start talking about dudes, how big their dicks are and have they ever even had an orgasm! lol, watch that new show Drama Queen on E!!!
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:25 AM GMT
    booroz saidDon't any of you actually work with straight guys? My goodness, they are the worst gossips of all, they may be more subtle about it, but they are the biggest gossips out of any societal group


    This bogan is sadly right
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:26 AM GMT
    MRod said
    booroz saidDon't any of you actually work with straight guys? My goodness, they are the worst gossips of all, they may be more subtle about it, but they are the biggest gossips out of any societal group


    totally agree
    I work with straight guys and they gossip about everyone and everything


    They mask it well but so many careers and business deals are done in this world with gossip as the main fuel
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    Nov 26, 2013 4:40 AM GMT
    MRod said
    booroz saidDon't any of you actually work with straight guys? My goodness, they are the worst gossips of all, they may be more subtle about it, but they are the biggest gossips out of any societal group


    totally agree
    I work with straight guys and they gossip about everyone and everything


    Tell us! What do they say?