"Dude you don't like anal? how the hell are you gay?!"

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    Nov 26, 2013 9:57 PM GMT
    Hey Gentlemen!

    I hope everyone is good! I want to talk about something that's maybe a little perplexing amongst some of you guys. The only sexual things I have in my fantasies are kissing, cuddling, spooning and lots of whispering. I have only done this these with 2 guys who seemed to have been very disappointed with me the the following mornings. My 1st guy was this handsome blonde Russian guy, we were both 20 at the time and he lives in my university dorms. I don't live in the dorms, so last year at a Halloween party he invited me to stay at his place so that I could get drunk and have fun (My parents are Muslims so they wouldn't be happy if they found out i was drinking hence why he said I can stay at his place. After the party, I surprisingly didn't get drunk because I had beer for the first time and didn't like the taste of beer...he was also pretty sober but we had such fun at the party. He had a double bed and said we can share rather than me sleeping in my sleeping bad. we ended up getting topless and and cuddling and kissing, but when he put his fingers down my pants and literally found i ticklish and told him to stop. He said have I ever tried anal, I said no because at the time and still today I am a virgin purely because I don't get horny or turned on when I watch porn of guys fucking each other. He then asked whether he could suck my dick, I said ok, but I found it soo uncomfortable, didn't get any pleasure out of it as it just tickled. so we carried on kissing and cuddling which made my cock really hard, and literally ejaculated in my pants when he licked in ears in and out. A simialair thing happened between me and a Guy i met in Poland when I was there for a short intership. The next day my friend was like am I sure I'm Gay? I am gay 100% I only find men attractive lool.

    So do all gay men have to have sexual desires for anal or oral? Anyone else similair to me on RJ? Are guys like me common who are only into vanilla things?
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    Nov 26, 2013 10:08 PM GMT

    "So do all gay men have to have sexual desires for anal or oral?"

    Absolutely NOT.
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    Nov 27, 2013 5:46 AM GMT
    I'm into hugging, caressing, cuddling, hand job, and frotting. No anal sex for me. Have received b/j a few times but I'm not really into it. Never give b/j or rimming.

    So I think I'm similar to you.
  • Apparition

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    Nov 30, 2013 2:56 PM GMT
    Please please tell other guys this before you date them. 99% of guys are NOT like you. its okay to like what you like, but if a guy likes sex you are never going to be compatible. People really need to discuss compatability before dating, it only ends badly if you dont. Tops with bottoms, vers with vers, girls with girls.