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    Nov 28, 2013 5:35 AM GMT
    I work at a restaurant. Today this handsome, tall gorgeous male arrived for dinner with his girlfriend. I am usually shy about making eye contact but he was so hot that I had no other choice. So he sat down facing the restaurant and she sat facing him and turned her back to me.
    So I looked at him hoping that he eventually would meet my glaze and so it happens. When it happened I thought about looking away, but I couldn't be shy this one time. So I continued staring at him and he did the same for about 3 secs, that's when he looked away. I would catch him looking at me and then looking away when I met his glaze. We kept making eye contact here and there throughout the night.
    One of the possibilites could that he was wondering who was the weirdo staring at him or maybe he was somewhat interested. Has this ever happened to you guys? what do you guys think?

    Thanks.
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    Nov 28, 2013 4:02 PM GMT
    What part of GIRLFRIEND didn't you understand?..

    Why put all that energy into a man that is attached?
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    Nov 28, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    Were you also attracted to the GF? If so, could you possibly have a triple with them?
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    Nov 28, 2013 5:12 PM GMT
    This has happened to me a few times , just let it go..I gave in once and it was a weird situation ..married to a girl but wtf...he left the # on the credit card
  • Koaa2

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    Nov 28, 2013 10:42 PM GMT
    If he is interested he may come back on his own. My only adivce would be to not jeopardize your job over it. Never play while working or with coworkers, it rarely turns out good.
  • Trauts

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    Nov 29, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    I think it also depends on how both of you guys were staring at each other. Was he doing it in a flirty way?

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    Nov 29, 2013 3:13 AM GMT
    Trauts saidI think it also depends on how both of you guys were staring at each other. Was he doing it in a flirty way?

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    LOL silly.

    It happens to me all the time in the subway, and the back and forth staring makes me feel like "oh damn it, he caught me and now he thinks i'm a weirdo".