Tops or bottoms

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    Nov 29, 2013 6:47 PM GMT
    Do you feel like you meet more tops or more bottoms?
    I've been with plenty if guys who always tell me they have hard time finding tops so I'm gonna assume majority of guys like to bottom more ?
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    Nov 29, 2013 6:57 PM GMT
    Idk if they're actually meeting online or what lol I never thought to ask
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:03 PM GMT
    Let's not make this a race thread icon_smile.gif enough of those around here already
    The question was if you personally meet more tops or bottoms
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:07 PM GMT
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3413831
  • The_Guruburu

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    Nov 29, 2013 7:10 PM GMT
    Apparently in my area, there are more bottoms (38%) than tops (26%) (the rest are vers). You can check out the Gay census infographic on "Where Are You Hot?" to see the breakdown where you are located (towards the bottom): http://studiomoh.com/fun/census/geography.php
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 29, 2013 7:20 PM GMT
    The polarization of tops and bottoms is new to me. I've never been in an LTR where it's just one or the other all the time. I think gay people used to be presumed versatile and for someone to be exclusively one or the other was seen as more of a novelty. It usually meant that a guy found bottoming to be too painful. I don't think people used to ignore their dicks as exclusive bottoms though, at least not like how it is now. Why would want your dick ignored? It seems like a psychological thing to me.
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:25 PM GMT
    I thought for sure this was going to be a pajama thread!
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:25 PM GMT
    The_Guruburu saidApparently in my area, there are more bottoms (38%) than tops (26%) (the rest are vers). You can check out the Gay census infographic on "Where Are You Hot?" to see the breakdown where you are located (towards the bottom): http://studiomoh.com/fun/census/geography.php


    Surprise, surprise...

    "I have data on race, but haven’t released it yet. Spoiler alert: it’s very controversial.

    I won’t be doing a racial preference analysis, because that’s been done several times and it’s pretty clear that white gay dudes are most desired. Being a gay man of color cuts your chance of being “desirable” by 75%."
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:34 PM GMT
    nerdjock said
    The_Guruburu saidApparently in my area, there are more bottoms (38%) than tops (26%) (the rest are vers). You can check out the Gay census infographic on "Where Are You Hot?" to see the breakdown where you are located (towards the bottom): http://studiomoh.com/fun/census/geography.php


    Surprise, surprise...

    "I have data on race, but haven’t released it yet. Spoiler alert: it’s very controversial.

    I won’t be doing a racial preference analysis, because that’s been done several times and it’s pretty clear that white gay dudes are most desired. Being a gay man of color cuts your chance of being “desirable” by 75%."
    hm I've never had any problems being desirable..
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 29, 2013 7:42 PM GMT
    Behemothboi said
    nerdjock said
    The_Guruburu saidApparently in my area, there are more bottoms (38%) than tops (26%) (the rest are vers). You can check out the Gay census infographic on "Where Are You Hot?" to see the breakdown where you are located (towards the bottom): http://studiomoh.com/fun/census/geography.php


    Surprise, surprise...

    "I have data on race, but haven’t released it yet. Spoiler alert: it’s very controversial.

    I won’t be doing a racial preference analysis, because that’s been done several times and it’s pretty clear that white gay dudes are most desired. Being a gay man of color cuts your chance of being “desirable” by 75%."
    hm I've never had any problems being desirable..

    And your confidence adds to your hotness.icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Behemothboi said
    nerdjock said
    The_Guruburu saidApparently in my area, there are more bottoms (38%) than tops (26%) (the rest are vers). You can check out the Gay census infographic on "Where Are You Hot?" to see the breakdown where you are located (towards the bottom): http://studiomoh.com/fun/census/geography.php


    Surprise, surprise...

    "I have data on race, but haven’t released it yet. Spoiler alert: it’s very controversial.

    I won’t be doing a racial preference analysis, because that’s been done several times and it’s pretty clear that white gay dudes are most desired. Being a gay man of color cuts your chance of being “desirable” by 75%."
    hm I've never had any problems being desirable..

    And your confidence adds to your hotness.icon_smile.gif


    Only if you're already desirable.
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    Behemothboi said
    nerdjock said
    The_Guruburu saidApparently in my area, there are more bottoms (38%) than tops (26%) (the rest are vers). You can check out the Gay census infographic on "Where Are You Hot?" to see the breakdown where you are located (towards the bottom): http://studiomoh.com/fun/census/geography.php


    Surprise, surprise...

    "I have data on race, but haven’t released it yet. Spoiler alert: it’s very controversial.

    I won’t be doing a racial preference analysis, because that’s been done several times and it’s pretty clear that white gay dudes are most desired. Being a gay man of color cuts your chance of being “desirable” by 75%."
    hm I've never had any problems being desirable..


    Sure you have, you just don't like to admit it to prevent being called a whiner.
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    Nov 29, 2013 7:59 PM GMT
    nerdjockSure you have, you just don't like to admit it to prevent being called a whiner.


    nerdjock, have you ever experienced it? share your experiences, no one will think you're a whiner...
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    Well i know one thing, i have had many crushes that were bottoms .... its frustrating. I WANT TO MAKE LOVE TO THEM !!!!!!!!
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:07 PM GMT
    Turnup123 said
    nerdjockSure you have, you just don't like to admit it to prevent being called a whiner.


    nerdjock, have you ever experienced it? share your experiences, no one will think you're a whiner...


    I don't face the problem as much, but I know that there have been times when an average looking white guy would get noticed over me. I consider myself above average. I think those who face the problem the most are Asian guys.
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:08 PM GMT
    I'm having a crazy thought..vicious rumor and nerd jock are the same person !! Dun Dun Dun!!!!!icon_evil.gif
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:15 PM GMT
    Behemothboi saidI'm having a crazy thought..vicious rumor and nerd jock are the same person !! Dun Dun Dun!!!!!icon_evil.gif


    I dont think so, he would have made a profile of a white guy
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:16 PM GMT
    Behemothboi saidI'm having a crazy thought..vicious rumor and nerd jock are the same person !! Dun Dun Dun!!!!!icon_evil.gif


    Vicious rumor, like i said before being nice or educated doesn't matter. If you're not white, you just need to have a great body or above average dick size. ^^^case and point^^^
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:18 PM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    Behemothboi saidI'm having a crazy thought..vicious rumor and nerd jock are the same person !! Dun Dun Dun!!!!!icon_evil.gif


    I dont think so, he would have made a profile of a white guy
    nah to obvious he needs someone to bitch with him as about race lol
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:28 PM GMT
    Was hoping for people's feedback but it has changed I guess
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    Nov 29, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    i get more tops ...most guys are top...and usually the vers i'v been with were very good at being tops, much better than the only top guys, the bottoms are very weird...
    I know just one really good top that i been with, right Josh? ;)icon_twisted.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Nov 29, 2013 8:45 PM GMT
    nerdjock said
    Turnup123 said
    nerdjockSure you have, you just don't like to admit it to prevent being called a whiner.


    nerdjock, have you ever experienced it? share your experiences, no one will think you're a whiner...


    I don't face the problem as much, but I know that there have been times when an average looking white guy would get noticed over me. I consider myself above average. I think those who face the problem the most are Asian guys.

    I also think you're above average, and so is the OP. If someone picks a below average white man over you, then they are racist, they don't appreciate male beauty, and you're better than that and better than them.
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    Nov 29, 2013 9:31 PM GMT
    As a vers, presumed top, I seem to be in high demand. This would make me assume I'm in a sea of bottoms. But I pay no mind to that considering I perform both roles well.

    So to me it doesn't even matter. Just as long as they're not oral/mutual jack off only.
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    Nov 30, 2013 2:59 AM GMT
    I think I meet an equal number of tops and bottoms.

    My best experiences in bed have been with versatiles, though.
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    Nov 30, 2013 7:06 AM GMT
    What I don't understand is why gays let their "role" define them. For example, on Grindr, you see a guy whose profile name is "Total Bottom". Do you have no other assets or qualities that set you apart from others other than being a bottom?