Some of these responses are a little iffy. I'll give you some magic advice.
This is how I drive a bottom completely wild. This has never not worked for me and not had a bottom not moaning for more:
When you start making out in bed, have the bottom lay on his back and you propped up next to him. You want to constantly emphasize positions that make your chest and shoulders and manly traits prominent. put your arm under the small of his back and grab his face and kiss him very deeply. Kiss his neck for a while. Then part his legs and crawl on top of him, in between his legs. Remember to consistently have your chest elevated over him, and then dry hump him with you in between his legs. let him put his hands on your shoulders and chest, you want him to be somewhat crushed under you, but admiring your strong body. Don't put your hands on his chest like you're bracing yourself on him, and don't grip his shoulders while you're on top of him. You also want to stay between his legs, because if you sit on his stomach it starts to get bottomy for you.
After a while, start stripping him. The more clothes you can take off for the both of you the more you exert control. In between taking things off, bend down and kiss him here and there. remember, you always want him in a passive, compromising position, even when taking off clothes. So once you're completely naked, sit up and have him suck you a little, don't be too forceful, but stay up and elevated and have him lower, sucking your dick. While he's sucking your dick, reach down and play with his ass. Don't forget to moan while you're getting sucked. It feels good and you want him to hear it.
After he's sucked you for a while, put him on his back. Don't suck him. A lot of bottoms really don't want to get sucked if this is going to be a fuck session. put your condom on, lube up and then finger his asshole for a while, still hovering over him, while he lays on his back and moans. Then you push his legs up and slide your dick in. Fuck him in missionary position for a while, and if you can, hold his wrists above his head intermittently. Crush him with your body. and put your chest right in his face. After you've fucked in missionary a while, tell him "I want you to sit on it". YOu lay on your back and have him do cowboy, where he sits on your dick but is facing you. Don't let him bounce up and down too long, you want to maintain control, so spred your legs wide while he's sitting on you, pull him very close to you and then fuck him hard so you can feel and hear your balls slapping against ass.
WHen you've done this awhile, you can move into doggy if you want, but always cum on his stomach.