Have you ever had a Cuddle buddy? No sex

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    Dec 03, 2013 6:54 PM GMT
    Have you ever had a cuddle buddy exclusively for cuddling with no sex involved? How dressed were you when cuddling? And did it ever lead to more eventually?

    Can guys ever be cuddle buddies without going further?
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    Dec 03, 2013 6:58 PM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews saidhad i ever had a cuddle buddy before? no

    can guys be cuddle buddies without going further? yes


    Well from my experience most guys want to go further and use cuddling as a cover up.

    I only had one guy ever who respected the boundaries of cuddling.
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    Dec 03, 2013 7:00 PM GMT
    Jaggal saidI did! It didn't last long, but it was great!
    We did have a jackoff session once just because things got heated, but no sex at all (oral, anal, etc).



    Why it didn't last long? Was it ended by the jo session? icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 03, 2013 7:15 PM GMT
    Jaggal said
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    Jaggal saidI did! It didn't last long, but it was great!
    We did have a jackoff session once just because things got heated, but no sex at all (oral, anal, etc).



    Why it didn't last long? Was it ended by the jo session? icon_lol.gif


    No, he had his priorities in the wrong place. I wanted something serious (we're both arabs) and he didn't. We had great chemistry, which makes it sad.


    Aww his loss. Someone better will come along icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 03, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    Yea I had just come out and he had lots of issues so he would sleep over at my plac no sex ever just watched movie and cuddled
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 03, 2013 7:25 PM GMT
    Yes, but I wouldn't label it like that because cuddling wasn't the point of the friendship.
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    Dec 04, 2013 12:13 AM GMT
    My best friend and I used to cuddle whenever I went to see him. We'd start sitting on the couch, sipping tea, talking and would slide lower and lower....

    It never went any further.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Dec 04, 2013 12:39 AM GMT
    No cuddling was always part of other "activities" and not sure if guys can strictly cuddle 'cause they're horn dogs
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    Dec 04, 2013 12:44 AM GMT
    What's the point? Oh wait, there isn't one!
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    Dec 04, 2013 1:09 AM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidNo cuddling was always part of other "activities" and not sure if guys can strictly cuddle 'cause they're horn dogs


    Haha I don't think cuddling on its own is sexual. I enjoy the psychological reward of it. It relaxes me a lot and boosts my mood and self confidence.

    Sexually I don't get much out of it tbh. I don't even jo.
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    Dec 04, 2013 1:46 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidNever. I want sex period.


    Yikes the type of man I would never date.. Lol no offense ;)
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    Dec 04, 2013 1:52 AM GMT
    Off topic but I want to say that the OP, Solomono has been offering my favorite forum topics. Glad you're here!

    I've had a couple of straight buddies who cuddled without going further. Wine and weed were contributing factors at the time.
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    Dec 04, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    Naaaahhhhh

    I recently met this Romanian dude online, MEt up, told him NO SEX, he said ok... let me show you around my place.... ok now lets lay down naked no sex... Ok now...

    Lol needless to say he get sex from me :/

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    It's like he read a straight mans guide to fooling woman and used it on me an it worked

    We cuddled before and After sex which was nice, my first time cuddling and doing it in a bed lol..
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    Dec 04, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    I had a sexy buddy downgraded into a cuddle buddy.
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    Dec 04, 2013 2:34 AM GMT
    Lifter4ever saidOff topic but I want to say that the OP, Solomono has been offering my favorite forum topics. Glad you're here!

    I've had a couple of straight buddies who cuddled without going further. Wine and weed were contributing factors at the time.


    Aww thank you sir I'm flattered <3

    Who knew straight guys were into cuddling? May be I should be looking for some of those coz then we would definitely not be going further icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 04, 2013 4:11 AM GMT
    I'd totally love to find a cuddle buddy. I love bearhugs and cuddling. Perhaps mutual j/o. No penetrative sex.
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    Dec 04, 2013 4:18 AM GMT
    One of my good friends in high school teased me a lot (in a friendly way) for being gay. We used to hang out and cuddle all the time. He claimed to be bisexual but whatevs.

    Post-college, I had a cuddle buddy for a moment but that quickly escalated to f*ck buddy status.
  • MikeW

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    Dec 04, 2013 4:25 AM GMT
    polfsky saidI'd totally love to find a cuddle buddy. I love bearhugs and cuddling. Perhaps mutual j/o. No penetrative sex.

    At my age I'd be quite happy with that. I love sex but what I miss most in not having a relationship is someone to cuddle with as I fall asleep. I disagree that there is no point to it. I feel it is very comforting and nourishing.
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    Dec 04, 2013 4:28 AM GMT
    I would feel weird cuddling with someone who isn't my man.
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    Dec 04, 2013 4:35 AM GMT
    I tend to giggle when I'm cuddling, it kinda feels like flying to me.

    When the guy asks why I'm giggling I don't know what to say, It feels too good to even say anything lol
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    Dec 04, 2013 6:21 PM GMT
    I love cuddling ,you can get so comfortably lost in the act , unfortunately , very few blokes see it as i do , a strong bond between mates and also a stress reliever
    So I cuddle with my 4 legged mate , he is totally cool with it and love to have his belly rubbed icon_biggrin.gif
  • hanzo83

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    Dec 04, 2013 10:26 PM GMT
    I never had the pleasure of cuddling with anybody before so it would be very special for me if I could with an attractive guy. I suppose a weird straight guy would be down for cuddling and nothing further lol.
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    Dec 05, 2013 12:55 AM GMT
    Last time I started a similar thread like this one, I was called a creep. icon_sad.gificon_redface.gificon_cry.gif