tops dating tops

  • Darwin1122

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    Dec 05, 2013 5:58 AM GMT
    Or bottoms dating bottoms I guess as well. You ever try it? Did it work? Or thoughts in general.
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    Dec 05, 2013 5:59 AM GMT
    Tried it once..never again...very sexless
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    Dec 05, 2013 6:00 AM GMT
    NEVER!icon_mad.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Dec 05, 2013 6:09 AM GMT
    Doesn't make sense
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    Dec 05, 2013 6:13 AM GMT
    You need a nut and a bolt. NUT AND BOLT!!!!!!!icon_mad.gificon_mad.gificon_mad.gificon_mad.gif
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    Dec 05, 2013 7:15 AM GMT
    it get weird lol
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    Dec 05, 2013 7:19 AM GMT
    Is this about us since you're from Pittsburgh?
    Damn boo, I said I was vers. Get over my top tendencies.
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    Dec 05, 2013 1:18 PM GMT
    bf and I have been together for a little over 4 years now. and we both consider ourselves tops. as time grows on (and continues to grow) we really are more vers than anything (we bottom for each other). it's not all the time. and it's not a constant every single time. we dont' switch off or keep tally on who has done what. we just do whatever feels right more at the moment. we both still prefer to top over bottom, but we do it for each other.
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    Dec 05, 2013 1:21 PM GMT
    Wont work unless they consider becoming more vers.
  • Trauts

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    Dec 05, 2013 3:27 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidIt would work if both are tops not bottoms.


    Are you saying that btms can't go vers...
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    Dec 05, 2013 3:29 PM GMT
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    willular saidbf and I have been together for a little over 4 years now. and we both consider ourselves tops. as time grows on (and continues to grow) we really are more vers than anything (we bottom for each other). it's not all the time. and it's not a constant every single time. we dont' switch off or keep tally on who has done what. we just do whatever feels right more at the moment. we both still prefer to top over bottom, but we do it for each other.


    My thoughts exactly, if you really like the other guy and you both see something in each other, you will make it work. The way I see it, sex is like any other issue you compromise on.


    it's really not that hard, honestly...if it's a good relationship that is.
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    Dec 05, 2013 3:29 PM GMT
    Trauts said
    woodsmen saidIt would work if both are tops not bottoms.


    Are you saying that btms can't go vers...

    interesting idea....are bottoms more resistant to being a top than a top being resistant to being a bottom?

    100% bottoms totally confuse me....you've got a dick, but you don't want to stick it in to anything? really?
  • Fable

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    Dec 05, 2013 3:30 PM GMT
    Versatility is so mode right now
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    Dec 05, 2013 3:31 PM GMT
    Trauts said
    woodsmen saidIt would work if both are tops not bottoms.


    Are you saying that btms can't go vers...


    In the past I dated a guy who wasnt able to get a bonner topping so yes that kinda limits your options
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    Dec 05, 2013 3:32 PM GMT
    charlitos said
    In the past I dated a guy who wasnt able to get a bonner topping so yes that kinda limits your options


    that's just so....sad
  • rnch

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    Dec 05, 2013 3:40 PM GMT
    When I first met my still best friend/ex bf/partner-in-current-higher-acts-of-stupidity we both considered ourselves "Total Tops".

    After a couple of steamy, erotic make out/jerk off sessions, it was obvious to us that we both wanted anal and that one of us had to "give in".

    We both tried bttming for the other. He wasn't totally inept as a bttm, but not great at it. Clearly he preferred topping.

    Much to our mutual surprise and erotic enjoyment, it became apparent that, in terms of our relationsthip, once he gently, skillfully & tenderly "broke me in", it turned out that I was the "Better Bttm" of the two of us!

    SO...to sum up my long winded reply: Compromise is needed and can be had for two "Total Tops" to enjoy a long term relationship.
  • Fable

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    Dec 05, 2013 4:26 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidTrue bottoms, the sort that make tops really happy, can't be versatile. Bottoms that say they are versatile are likely faking it to make someone happy for a while. Not a long lasting recipe for life happiness.

    Trauts said
    woodsmen saidIt would work if both are tops not bottoms.


    Are you saying that btms can't go vers...





    Bullllshiiiit.
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    Dec 05, 2013 4:37 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidTrue bottoms, the sort that make tops really happy, can't be versatile. Bottoms that say they are versatile are likely faking it to make someone happy for a while. Not a long lasting recipe for life happiness.

    Trauts said
    woodsmen saidIt would work if both are tops not bottoms.


    Are you saying that btms can't go vers...


    Because making someone "life happy" is only limited to your position preference in bed icon_rolleyes.gif
  • athlete220

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    Dec 05, 2013 4:59 PM GMT
    I think it can work if you both want to be together. It gets tricky if individual needs or preferences aren't being met. If your needs aren't being satisfied, that's when partners look else ware.
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    Dec 05, 2013 7:35 PM GMT
    Why not just stick to brojobs?
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    Dec 05, 2013 7:35 PM GMT
    What a silly idea. I wouldn't even know what to do with another out of control, power hungry, self loving, rough and brutal jerk in bed.
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    Dec 05, 2013 7:43 PM GMT
    If you're a bottom and have never topped, then you don't know what you're missing. icon_surprised.gif
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    Dec 05, 2013 7:49 PM GMT
    I think if both guys can be verse it could work but work but in my last top/top relationship it just didn't work meh
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    Dec 05, 2013 7:58 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidI think some of us do not appreciate the psychological important of sexual gratification. Tops want to fuck. Bottoms want to receive. This must be satisfied and not cuddling or will lead to unhappiness.


    The world is not black and white lol

    Generally speaking I think guys need to compromise if they really click otherwise.
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    Dec 05, 2013 9:34 PM GMT
    woodsmen saidThen I wish you happiness in your grey world. But I see you are still single so I hope you find your guy. I am in my forties with many relationships under my belt and am in my 19th year of a long term relationship. Don't make sex complicated if you want to be happy. It is binary: top or bottom. Know who you are.

    Solomono said
    woodsmen saidI think some of us do not appreciate the psychological important of sexual gratification. Tops want to fuck. Bottoms want to receive. This must be satisfied and not cuddling or will lead to unhappiness.


    The world is not black and white lol

    Generally speaking I think guys need to compromise if they really click otherwise.


    Oh lol good for you but I don't see how me being single relates to the topic of discussion and I never had problems finding guys with my sexual preferences.

    And no sexuality is fluid and not binary, that's why there are versatiles, versatile tops and versatile bottoms all in between icon_smile.gif