Do guys ever Cam just to meet each other?

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    Dec 08, 2008 2:07 AM GMT
    Suppose you were thinking of meeting someone online. Why not cam to see if you have something in common and to familiarize yourself which each other a bit. If you go to any cam site all you will find are guys who want to beat off. I have nothing against that but it's not my thing. You may find this strange but I'd rather beat off in person. Seriously though, suppose you just wanted to make friends via the net and have a more personal G-rated or even R-rated cam session. Does anyone know how you could meet people in this way?
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    Dec 08, 2008 2:45 AM GMT
    you know its good to cam so you can see someones emotion when you say something.

    As far as beating off, I dont have a cam so they beat of on cam while I talk to them on the phone.

    ha-haha im so gonna get in trouble for this
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    Dec 08, 2008 4:05 AM GMT
    I made friends with a guy and we used our cams to talk. It was easier then typing, and it lets you know the other person is just that... another person.
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    Dec 08, 2008 4:53 AM GMT
    I'd imagine you could let the other guy know you intend on doing it for that reason. But he'd probably "have to go to work" or one of those other reasons even though just a sec ago he was down to cam.
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    Dec 08, 2008 5:04 AM GMT
    right, I agree, it's nice to cam and see the other person on a friend on friend type situation instead of a sexual one right off the bat. I'm not into sexual online caming at all and I usually tend to live chat with online friends once I get to know them better. Plus I think live chatting via a cam really makes me trust the guy on the other end as well, cuz they are willing to show themselves and not hide behind the wall of the internet.

    I have a few online friends that I have done this with and we have become good friends, and I wouldn't feel creeped out to have them stay over sometime or me visit them cuz seeing them move and talk makes me less paranoid cuz like GwgTrunks said i know they are real.

    I'm not sure if people are up for caming the first time they chat with someone, I dont' know if I would really, but I do think it is a good idea if you are planning on meeting them or becoming good friends to help you relax and not feel nervous when that time comes, it's helped me out alot. So yeah, it's a good idea I would say.
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    Dec 08, 2008 5:56 AM GMT
    me and my boyfriend do it to talk, and JUST talk, all the time.
    i moved away for college and i miss him alot. its just nice to see his face
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    Dec 08, 2008 6:24 AM GMT
    Half the time when I'm on-line I'm not ready for the world. Maybe I just woke up and am checking email, or maybe it's late at night and I'm just doing some work (really!) before going to bed. Like now, and worse yet I didn't even shave this morning. I'm not that big on chat to begin with, but to turn on my cam and let them see me in such a state? (My desktop doesn't have a cam, my notebook does but I've never used it.)

    I suppose if I wasn't in a relationsihp (which essentially predates the internet) I'd give it a spin this way (after taking a shower, guess I don't need any mouthwash). It's a good way to use the technology. Especially long distance. But normally I'd rather meet in person. Call me old fashioned....

  • fryblock

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    Dec 08, 2008 12:54 PM GMT
    I sometimes cam with a friend in Florida I met online and it hasn't been sexual yet. It's nice to see people's faces and expressions every now and then.
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    Dec 08, 2008 1:14 PM GMT
    Yep.

    No camsex or anything at all. Even if they offered I'd decline. I can't get on cam myself though. For tons of reasons: slow innet, the fact that me buying a cam for my pc is pretty much the same thing as outing myself, that i'm too sexy for a cam, that my coffee is cold, that i'm really sleepy, that I have a massive inferiority complex being expressed as paradoxical megalomania... etc.

    But the real reason is obviously that I'm actually not human and will be invading Earth in a few years.

    But seriously, met a lot of great guys here that way. At least I know they're REAL. icon_razz.gif As long as you both know it's strictly friendly and no one decides to camrape you, you should be fine.

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    Dec 08, 2008 1:26 PM GMT
    I cannot have a cam. I would be bad.
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