If you're not your bf's "usual type"

  • christastic

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    Dec 08, 2013 6:07 AM GMT
    Say I'm relatively smooth and boyish, whereas the guy i'm chatting to admits that he usually goes for stocky hairy guys. Do you think that it's a lost cause and that he'll inevitably leave you for someone his type?
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    Dec 08, 2013 10:25 AM GMT
    you would be really surprised at how your tastes change as you gain experience--nice to have someone to teach you this.
  • jackooh

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    Dec 08, 2013 10:49 AM GMT
    yup types change but they dont change overnight, if you guys have a crazy good connection i wouldnt worry too much about it just go with the flow, if he's just casual with you then i wouldn't hope for much more
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    Dec 08, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    Just keep blowing his mind with the very best sex AND an amazing relationship and you'll be his "type" for good.

    We all have "types" (notice the plural form).

    No one person is going to perfectly fit all types.

    Over time you may find that you like more "types".

    Pretty soon, the lowest common denominator is "a pulse".
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    Dec 08, 2013 2:51 PM GMT
    From what I've seen and experienced, some people including me, end up being in love with someone who's not their type.
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    Dec 08, 2013 11:28 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidFrom what I've seen and experienced, some people including me, end up being in love with someone who's not their type.

    A lot of guys end up in relationships with someone who was not their "type."
  • Fabio

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    Dec 10, 2013 8:48 AM GMT
    If you're not your bf's "usual type",


    this is the hardest part ever... I dated someone who was into latinos, and happened to fall in love... but the person couldn't take the next step... coz I wasn't that usual type.
    so try, maybe he might be the exception of the rule. Good luck!
  • Philip101

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    Dec 10, 2013 6:56 PM GMT
    There is definitely a chance, but obviously it is lower than if you were his 'type'.

    For me, I don't contact people who state clearly in their profile what their type is when I know that I don't fit it. It maximises efficiencies this way icon_smile.gif

    Amd there no need to swim upstream when you can just as easily swim downstream.
  • christastic

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    Dec 10, 2013 11:37 PM GMT
    lol, so what if it was him taking all the initiative so far? His profile didn't indicate any preferences, and he says that he ignores his own rules when he meets someone he likes. Am I to believe that?
  • Suetonius

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    Dec 10, 2013 11:47 PM GMT
    This a bit of drama about someone you haven't even met yet. And your thread title refers to "BFs'. you're a long way from that stage now.
  • christastic

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    Dec 10, 2013 11:54 PM GMT
    I didn't want to complicate the title with "the guy i'm seeing", lol that's all. But actually we've already cuddled as of a couple days ago, but he didn't bring up his "type" again.