Is This A Good Thing?

  • Joeyphx444

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    Dec 09, 2013 11:15 PM GMT
    I feel like it is starting to become easier for me to shake off when a guy stands me up and to realize it's not meant to be. It's also getting harder to trust what men say and do. It's easier to call out someone when they are in the wrong and easier to speak my mind when I see something I think is BS or wrong. I guess this is all a good thing? I just don't wanna turn out to be one of those "dying alone" people, I don't think I ever have thought like that.

    One side of me believes I can find a good man and it will come eventually and another side believes that I may not be wanted anymore.

    I think I am starting to build a defense that was not there before and I guess it really might be a good thing in the long run. I don't when you started feeling like this or aren't you guys? I think I am still very conflicted within myself.
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    Dec 09, 2013 11:29 PM GMT
    I find it hard to believe that there are not guys interested in you. Maybe there are guys who want you that you're just not interested in ...
  • jo2hotbod

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    Dec 10, 2013 12:20 AM GMT
    It's hard not to feel that at some point
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    Dec 10, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    Why would someone standing you up be a reflection on you? It is a reflection on them.

    In general, caring less about what irrelevant people think about you is a great feeling.
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    Dec 10, 2013 1:15 AM GMT
    I think it is a good thing that you are getting stronger at coping with guys who stand you up and I also understand your doubts about being able to trust guys who say one thing but do another. Sometimes though it is hard to know whether someone is going to be genuine and honest until it is too late and you discover that he wasn't honest or trustworthy...but there are some of us out there who are trustworthy and are honest and are there for the people who need us when they need us....just not always so easy to ascertain that on a forum like this! icon_smile.gif