MrBlogger saidHi guys...I'm a 19 year old author and blogger from South Africa who's never been in a relationship and have resorted to Internet dating sites such as this one and this other one to help me find my first. I've exchanged pics with a few fellas and most of them have made very offensive remarks on my physical appearance. I have given up on my quest and what I wanted to know was why are gays so mean to each other? I mean we go through so much together and yet we attack each other. I'm not a very social person so I wouldn't know, I'd appreciate your input. No insults please. Enjoy your day guys!!
I never used gay dating sites. Most are meat stores, where guys feel free to be rude about turning down the merchandise they don't want, like they might in other kinds of stores.
Instead I've used gay social sites, and just for the online friendship. I'd never say or imply I was there to hook-up. Hence I could be judged on my opinions, experiences & accomplishments, rather than my looks, age, income, and dating potential.
BUT, in developing friendships over time, a pleasure in itself, some guy & me could begin to find a romantic interest, as well. And then eventually meet IRL. That's how I met both my late and current partners.
So you might want to stay active online. Just maybe not invest too much time in gay dating & hookup sites, and expect too much.
And be aware that gays can also be mean in person, it isn't confined to online. We didn't earn our time-honored reputation for being catty bitches for nothing!