Are you LTR or hookup guy

  • Apparition

    Posts: 3521

    Dec 10, 2013 6:56 AM GMT
    OKAY, everyone is whining about one or the other. This is just a simple poll, to prove things once and for all.


    1. your age. (#)

    2. Given a guy in your league is available and willing and things work out, the sex is good, the schedule matches, the geography works, you are compatible. Are you looking for a LTR (or in one), or are you just looking for good hookups and dont want to commit right now. (LTR/hookup)

    3. Are you going to (did you) make the first move to capture him or does/did he. (hunter/prey)

    4. Are you top bottom or verse.

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    answer format:

    1. ##
    2. LTR/Hookup
    3. hunter/prey
    4. top/bottom/verse


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    me

    1. 43
    2. LTR
    3. Hunter
    4. Top

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    Let's see how many people are sitting back wishing they had a boyfriend, and who just wants to fuck around


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    Dec 10, 2013 3:37 PM GMT
    1. 27
    2. LTR
    3. Prey
    4. Top
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    Dec 11, 2013 12:29 AM GMT
    25
    LTR
    Prey
    Bottom
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    Dec 11, 2013 5:32 AM GMT
    31(looks like 27 though)
    LTR
    hunter/prey
    verse
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    Dec 11, 2013 9:55 AM GMT
    32
    LTR
    hunter/prey (depends on my mood)
    Vers / depends on the guy

  • KepaArg

    Posts: 1721

    Dec 11, 2013 10:13 AM GMT
    28
    In a LTR
    Prefer to be preyed upon, lol.
    Bottom
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    Dec 11, 2013 10:45 AM GMT
    1. 47
    2. LTR
    3. Hunter
    4. Top
  • majin223

    Posts: 11

    Dec 12, 2013 6:55 AM GMT
    1. 25
    2. LTR
    3. Prey
    4. Bottom

  • Dec 15, 2013 7:10 PM GMT
    1. 46
    2. LTR
    3. Hunter
    4. Vers
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    Dec 15, 2013 7:32 PM GMT

    1. 29
    2. LTR
    3. prey
    4. verse

    Despite my answers above, I'd have to say honestly I'm probably a hookup guy. In your question 2, you stated a lot of conditions that must be met first. Finding a guy with good sex life, close location, the guy is available, the guy also wants one and is willing ot work on it, and good emotional compatibility.

    Sure, if I could find all that, of course I'd want it. But it's really hard to find all that in a guy. It's so much easeir to find a guy somewhere to hookup with once, but to find a guy you feel mutual chemistry with, who also wants a relationship with you, and is also willing to work for it... I've become convinced that is like winning the lottery. It exists but is not too likely.

    So while I'd much rather have a LTR, I'm not sure there is a good mutual match and so I will say I'm a hookup guy.

    As for number 3, I chose prey because I used to spend a lot of time and energy chasing guys, and eventually learned you shouldn't have to chase anyone. I wouldn't say I sit back and do nothing either (cause that would leave me waiting for a very long time), I would talk to a guy i'm interested in, but I think it should be more neutral than predator/prey. (Though it sure would be nice to get hunted by a hot guy LOL)
  • BlackZR1

    Posts: 21

    Dec 17, 2013 4:56 AM GMT
    1.20

    2.LTR

    3.Prey

    4.Bottom
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    Sep 16, 2014 11:40 PM GMT
    19
    LTR
    Prey
    bttm

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    Sep 17, 2014 2:32 AM GMT
    53

    LTR (but I'm open to having sex on the first date. --- which is indeed how both of my long-term relationships started)

    Willing to be the "hunter" initially but it has got to become a reciprocal hunt (or, better, a reciprocal dance) pretty soon or I back off.

    Versatile.
  • Abe13

    Posts: 155

    Sep 17, 2014 2:59 AM GMT
    1. 32
    2. LTR
    3. Prey for the most part
    4. Verse.
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    Sep 17, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
    1. 21
    2. LTR
    3. hunter/prey?
    4. top/bottom/verse? Still not sure icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 17, 2014 4:04 AM GMT
    Why is age even a question in this poll?
  • KittenpasteCo...

    Posts: 245

    Sep 21, 2014 1:42 PM GMT
    1. 28

    2. LTR

    3. I'm the prey but I always end up having to play the hunter... and getting hurt because of it.

    4. Bottom (Versatile but mostly bottom)
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    Sep 21, 2014 2:34 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidWhy is age even a question in this poll?

    I think he is trying to make an inference based on age. Something like, may be younger guys would be more interested in hook-up, and older guys wanting to settle down.
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:32 AM GMT
    morphic said
    Erik101 saidWhy is age even a question in this poll?

    I think he is trying to make an inference based on age. Something like, may be younger guys would be more interested in hook-up, and older guys wanting to settle down.


    Then in that case, some of these guys are liars. Everyone stated they're interested in an LTR. Yeah, right!! I bet ya if a hard dick or tight ass swung in front of them, they wouldn't turn it down.
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    Sep 22, 2014 3:38 AM GMT
    When I was dating, late 40s to 50s:

    My ultimate goal was LTR.

    But part of my plan was hook ups.

    I had fun, and "sampled" lot of guys.

    Worked great. I found 2 LTRs that way, and 2 partners (one who tragically died prematurely). I remain married today.

    And in between, I had a helluva good time. icon_biggrin.gif