INDIAN GUYS DON'T FIND MANY TAKERS

  • orash

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    Dec 10, 2013 10:14 AM GMT

    your judged by the color of your skin which is so very rude,even though you are educated,smart etc etc.

    anybody having the same experience?

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    Dec 10, 2013 11:27 AM GMT
    Do you mean other people in India, or people living thousands of miles away that you contact on a website, with a view to dating them?
  • orash

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    Dec 10, 2013 11:56 AM GMT
    I mean fellow indians and yes guys abroad too,I travel quite often.
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    Dec 10, 2013 11:59 AM GMT
    Hey Orash!
    Judgmental people are everywhere, not just in India.

    When you say 'racist', do you mean'cast feeling' cause that's very much prevalent in our country.
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    Dec 10, 2013 2:56 PM GMT
    India's caste system still exist though.......
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    Dec 10, 2013 4:01 PM GMT
    orash saidHey Guys,am an Indian and its kinda rude to say that people are still Racist or that what it seems.

    your judged by the color of your skin which is so very rude,even though you are educated,smart etc etc.

    anybody having the same experience?


    Isn't it apart of Indian culture to judge other people by their skin color ?
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    Dec 10, 2013 4:44 PM GMT
    Why is the subject line yelling?
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    Dec 10, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    orash saidI mean fellow indians and yes guys abroad too,I travel quite often.


    i have an indian friend who i wouldn't call racist, but she does have hangups about dating indian guys. she doesn't even give them a chance because she thinks that they are going to be controlling, close-minded, etc. sad, but she's expressed a lot of concern over colorism within the indian community. she is darker and has always felt snubbed by the men in the indian community.
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    Dec 10, 2013 5:12 PM GMT
    Last week, at the gym, I was doing an exercise and a cute Indian guy (turban and all) came over and asked to work in with me. We flirted a little and then he said he was done.
    I didn't want to lose him so I asked him if he would spot me in the next exercise. He said he would and asked what I was doing next. I pointed to some other équipement. He went over and waited there.
    When I got done and went over to him, he asked, "Is this the equipment you want a spot on?"
    I said yes.
    He then said, "Well, I've gotta go now. It was nice meeting you" and we exchanged names.
    He didn't wait to spot me. He just left.
    Pretty strange right?
    Who cares?
    He was cute.
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    Dec 10, 2013 5:17 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidLast week, at the gym, I was doing an exercise and a cute Indian guy (turban and all) came over and asked to work in with me. We flirted a little and then he said he was done.
    I didn't want to lose him so I asked him if he would spot me in the next exercise. He said he would and asked what I was doing next. I pointed to some other équipement. He went over and waited there.
    When I got done and went over to him, he asked, "Is this the equipment you want a spot on?"
    I said yes.
    He then said, "Well, I've gotta go now. It was nice meeting you" and we exchanged names.
    He didn't wait to spot me. He just left.
    Pretty strange right?
    Who cares?
    He was cute.


    lol. your stories are always funny.
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    Dec 10, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    OK, am I the only one confused by the OPs statement? Are you saying that people ARE racist or are you saying that it's rude to say they are because you feel that ARE NOT?

    Give us some examples of what you've experienced that would make you feel someone is racist. Ignoring you, declining offers you make, not participating in a conversation with you are NOT signs of racism but instead, a lack of interest in you. Saying they're not interested in you because you're Indian would be racist.

    Help me out here by further explaining yourself.
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    Dec 10, 2013 5:51 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidOK, am I the only one confused by the OPs statement? Are you saying that people ARE racist or are you saying that it's rude to say they are because you feel that ARE NOT?

    Give us some examples of what you've experienced that would make you feel someone is racist. Ignoring you, declining offers you make, not participating in a conversation with you are NOT signs of racism but instead, a lack of interest in you. Saying they're not interested in you because you're Indian would be racist.

    Help me out here by further explaining yourself.


    how does that work?
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    Dec 10, 2013 7:59 PM GMT
    its not being indian, its the indian body type. Im indian and have no issues finding guys, this is because I fight hard against what the indian gods gave me to work with. We are generally skinny fat. ie, skinny arms and legs and huge bellies. Gay guys don't like other gay guys with this body type.

    Indian guys, come with me to the gym!! yay!!
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    Dec 10, 2013 8:22 PM GMT
    This guy is not from India (or Pakistan for that matter) but he is very attractive to me:


    Amir-Khan_10.jpg
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    Dec 10, 2013 11:50 PM GMT
    My best friend is Indian and he's an attractive bloke. However, depending on where you are or live, it varies. Just like with every other race.
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    Dec 11, 2013 3:35 AM GMT
    Indians are HOT!

    One at my college right now I got my eye on but bet he's straight.. hmf lol

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    Dec 11, 2013 3:50 AM GMT
    Ohno saidThis guy is not from India (or Pakistan for that matter) but he is very attractive to me:


    Amir-Khan_10.jpg

    Indeed.
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    Dec 12, 2013 11:02 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Ohno saidThis guy is not from India (or Pakistan for that matter) but he is very attractive to me:


    Amir-Khan_10.jpg

    Indeed.



    without question!
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    Dec 12, 2013 12:18 PM GMT
    My boss is Indian. He's a jerk. But I have worked with cool patient helpful Indian teammates.
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    Dec 12, 2013 12:56 PM GMT
    sorry but Indians tend to be insufferable pains in the ass, just saying, but everybody knows what I mean
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    Dec 12, 2013 4:03 PM GMT
    somersault saidsorry but Indians tend to be insufferable pains in the ass, just saying, but everybody knows what I mean


    thank you for your insensitive and idiotic comment. it must bring great meaning to your life to insult others.
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    Dec 12, 2013 4:35 PM GMT
    divvy198509 saidits not being indian, its the indian body type. Im indian and have no issues finding guys, this is because I fight hard against what the indian gods gave me to work with. We are generally skinny fat. ie, skinny arms and legs and huge bellies. Gay guys don't like other gay guys with this body type.

    Indian guys, come with me to the gym!! yay!!

    What? Come again. Just because you may have belly or whatever, you are generalizing it to 1.2 billion people.
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    Dec 12, 2013 4:43 PM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    orash saidHey Guys,am an Indian and its kinda rude to say that people are still Racist or that what it seems.

    your judged by the color of your skin which is so very rude,even though you are educated,smart etc etc.

    anybody having the same experience?


    Isn't it apart of Indian culture to judge other people by their skin color ?

    Same way isn't it your responsibility to at least learn your native language correctly?
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    Dec 12, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    morphic said
    CopperDevil said
    orash saidHey Guys,am an Indian and its kinda rude to say that people are still Racist or that what it seems.

    your judged by the color of your skin which is so very rude,even though you are educated,smart etc etc.

    anybody having the same experience?


    Isn't it apart of Indian culture to judge other people by their skin color ?

    Same way isn't it your responsibility to at least learn your native language correctly?


    and which native tongue ?... I'm not just one race, I'm already speaking one of them now. whats that have to do with India color shade caste system ?
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    Dec 12, 2013 6:23 PM GMT
    Uh, no.
    Indian guys can be fucking hot.