Limerick18 saidAlso is there anything we could do to ease entry? Hea already told me hes nearly 8 inches big!
Go out with him on a date and tell him that you're not having sex just to have sex. Enjoy him, get to know him. You're feeling like you have to 'join' the gay community by getting plowed, you don't. If you date this guy for a while, then consider it and have the memories of your first fuck that you can always look back on and smile, not look back on and say…why did I ever do that? There's nothing wrong with NOT having sex on a date. This is a hookup, turn it into a date. If he's not willing then he's not worth having his dick up your ass!
Eb925 guy is right on. Take this under consideration.
1. Just because you are going to lose your virginity, doesn't mean you have to be fucked on your first time. There are lots of other things to do in bed that don't require fucking. I say this, because your first time getting fucked will probably not be a pleasurable experience, unless you have spent quite a bit of time practicing with a dildo or vibrator first. It definitely gets better with experience.
2. Like fable said, take a dump first, use a condom, and plenty of lube. Also, try douching your ass first. You don't need gallons of water - 1-1/2 to 2 oz at a time, multiple times, until it comes out clear. Nothing like getting that brown stuff all over, to ruin the atmosphere.
3. If he is willing, get him to rim you first - to get you all excited, like 18 year old Charlie Hunnam experienced in the first episode of Queer as Folk
. (See below - first minute.)
4. There have been lots
of posts on here on "bottoming: Do a search, and read them. Read what Gamrican has had to say on the subject.
5. It might hurt, it might not. If it does, don't hesitate to call a halt and go back to doing something else.
6. Best Position - Since he is good sized, you might try both of you lying on your sides, with him behind you. You will have most control of the operation, how slowly he enters you, and how deep he goes in, if you are sitting on top of him.
Hope you have a great time - sex or not.