Who Should Propose To Whom?

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    Dec 11, 2013 11:31 PM GMT
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    I Fuckin LOVE WIll & RJ.. Haven't caught up on their vids in a while but I did manage to just see this

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    They were both really shy, happy, nervous, and anxious about the entire thing obviously but the fact Will proposed to RJ took me as a shock.. RJ is the more masculine one. I understand gender roles do not fit in homosexual relationships which is great on many levels but RJ was Clearly a little upset he didn't get to make the move first. He is Bi and likely wanted to be the one to do it sense he says "he was planning one too" and says "sure why not?" to the proposal haha

    I'm sure they are both Super happy and who proposed is not a big problem at all BUT Do you feel that one specific person in the relationship should be expected to propose?

    If so, should it be the top or bot? The masc one or more fem (if there is one of each)?

    Or do you believe it should be whoever makes it to the jump first like these 2 did

    I'm not sure if it should go by masculinity levels but I do think it would have been nice for the two to have discussed who proposes to who a while before it actually happened to avoid any confusion

    Also what would you like to happen to you? I.. would actually prefer to be proposed to for many reasons and factors

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    Dec 11, 2013 11:35 PM GMT
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    Dec 11, 2013 11:37 PM GMT
    Interesting Q. I will say the one who earns the most money in the capitalist society. Or in the socialist environment I would say the taller of the two because he has to bend down. If both are of equal height I would say it doesn't really matter... It doesn't matter to be frankly honest...
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    Dec 11, 2013 11:37 PM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews saidfuck these attention whoring ass vloggers documenting every aspect of their lives on a camera like everybody's supposed to give a shit, straight up. talk about self centered and obsessed with one's self. did they really engaged because they want to do it or are they doing it for more views and attention to their little vlogging thing since it's basically a tv show.


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    Dec 11, 2013 11:42 PM GMT
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    Just because your country "invented English" doesn't mean you have to police it!!!icon_mad.gif
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    Dec 11, 2013 11:46 PM GMT
    the illuminati member should propose
    i want diamonds bought with souls
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    Dec 11, 2013 11:49 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
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    Just because your country "invented English" doesn't mean you have to police it!!!icon_mad.gif


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    Dec 11, 2013 11:49 PM GMT
    Neight saidthe illuminati member should propose
    i want diamonds bought with souls


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    Dec 11, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    HottJoe said
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    Just because your country "invented English" doesn't mean you have to police it!!!icon_mad.gif


    You were supposed to say I would be speaking German if it wasn't for you
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    Dec 12, 2013 12:00 AM GMT
    Ohno said
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    Just because your country "invented English" doesn't mean you have to police it!!!icon_mad.gif


    You were supposed to say I would be speaking German if it wasn't for you

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    Dec 12, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Ohno said
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    Just because your country "invented English" doesn't mean you have to police it!!!icon_mad.gif


    You were supposed to say I would be speaking German if it wasn't for you

    That reminds me, did you get our super secret spy notes on the German chancellor?icon_razz.gif


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    Dec 12, 2013 12:06 AM GMT
    Omg I just found out there was a Part 2! AND! RJ Grew a Very masculine hairy beard lol and COUNTER PROPOSED! icon_eek.gif

    It DEF Took Him By Shock! lol
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    Dec 12, 2013 12:13 AM GMT
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    Dec 12, 2013 12:15 AM GMT
    ReeBad19 saidOmg I just found out there was a Part 2! AND! RJ Grew a Very masculine hairy beard lol and COUNTER PROPOSED! icon_eek.gif

    It DEF Took Him By Shock! lol
    wow rude
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    Dec 12, 2013 12:20 AM GMT
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    ReeBad19 saidOmg I just found out there was a Part 2! AND! RJ Grew a Very masculine hairy beard lol and COUNTER PROPOSED! icon_eek.gif

    It DEF Took Him By Shock! lol
    wow rude


    Lol I kind of thought the same thing at first.. but No one else thought it haha so it was nice

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    Dec 12, 2013 1:42 AM GMT
    Whoever wants to.
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    Dec 12, 2013 1:43 AM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews saidfuck these attention whoring ass vloggers documenting every aspect of their lives on a camera like everybody's supposed to give a shit, straight up. talk about self centered and obsessed with one's self. did they really get engaged because they want to do it or are they doing it for more views and attention to their little vlogging thing since it's basically a tv show.

    and no offense but your question is kind of dumb about how some masculine guy should propose to the effeminate one. wtf??


    the first thing before all the proposal, marriage talk and etc is to basically give things time first. one thing's for sure, i damn sure wouldn't be letting the whole world know about it or document that shit on youtube on my vlog for attention like these two attention whores.


    yup!
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    Dec 12, 2013 2:02 AM GMT
    I actually watch their videos so I saw this too. I know it may sound odd, but even before this video, I had hoped that when I found the one I loved, I would propose to him and he would propose back to me. The order doesn't matter to me, but to me, this act shows how mutual it is.

    If only one person proposes then it seems like it's a bit one sided. But if both people propose then it shows how much both people want it. But that's just me. icon_smile.gif

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    Dec 12, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    WaytoJorDawn saidI actually watch their videos so I saw this too. I know it may sound odd, but even before this video, I had hoped that when I found the one I loved, I would propose to him and he would propose back to me. The order doesn't matter to me, but to me, this act shows how mutual it is.

    If only one person proposes then it seems like it's a bit one sided. But if both people propose then it shows how much both people want it. But that's just me. icon_smile.gif



    I watched both vids as well and I actually kind of liked the double proposal.. never thought of it before.. neither did they, it seemed more like RJ fulfilling his need to be the one to propose...but once again I liked it.

    Doubt I would do it though... seeing as saying "Yes" makes you an equal part of the proposal.... OR saying "No"