Is it strange to give a BJ before the first date?

  • LoveAndPeace

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    Dec 12, 2013 6:27 PM GMT
    So I met this guy at this gay club about 3 weeks ago.He saw me from afar and wanted to dance with me so I made the initiative and went up to him.I invited him over to my house so we could chill out and just talk.We then made out and we were dry humping and then I *clears throat* gave him head lol.Then he had to leave (because I kinda still live with my parents).Am I going about this the wrong way because I like him and he likes me but we got a tad carried away lol.He is 23 (just turned) and im gnna turn 20 in 4 weeks..and he is black. And we have been texting none stop..is it weird to give a bj before the first date?
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    Dec 12, 2013 6:38 PM GMT
    I thought this was standard practice.

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    Dec 12, 2013 6:54 PM GMT
    I've got head on the first date b4 lol
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    Dec 12, 2013 6:55 PM GMT
    I saw this exact same question in Gardener's World magazine. Weird eh?

    Anyway, some people will say yes but a surprising number will say no. So the real answer is: not necessarily icon_smile.gif
  • rnch

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    Dec 12, 2013 7:39 PM GMT
    Whatever feels "right" for you and him.



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    Dec 12, 2013 11:30 PM GMT
    Count that as the first date. Problem solved.

    You're welcome.
  • Apparition

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    Dec 13, 2013 10:38 AM GMT
    how is bringing a guy home from a club, and making out "not a date?"
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    Dec 13, 2013 8:22 PM GMT
    It's called casual sex, or tricking.
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    Dec 13, 2013 9:30 PM GMT
    HikerSkier saidIt's called casual sex, or tricking.

    This, and there's nothing wrong with it.
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    Dec 14, 2013 3:49 AM GMT
    What's a date? icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2013 4:23 AM GMT
    The best first dates BEGIN with a blow job. I usually invite guys to get "something to eat" and then "go do something". What they get to eat is my dick. Usually within the first 15 minutes or so. THEN, we go out and get food. Good head is a great ice breaker. The conversation after that is usually authentic.
















    Unless they give bad head. Then, the date is over.
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    Dec 18, 2013 12:04 AM GMT
    uhh I've gotten head right on the dance floor :/

    No date...icon_eek.gif