Awkward Fantasties!

  • Philip101

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    Dec 15, 2013 3:05 PM GMT
    Does anyone have any burning fantasies which you want your partner to do for you, but you feel too awkward/embarrassed to ask him? icon_redface.gif

    I feel this way at times.

    Interested to hear.
  • MikeW

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    Dec 15, 2013 3:08 PM GMT
    Of course it begs the question, what kind of fantasies are you embarrassed to share with your partner? Or, at least, why are you embarrassed by them?

    From life experience, if he's at all playful and likes to spice things up, sharing them can be a lot of fun. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 15, 2013 3:58 PM GMT
    I don't think there should be any embarrassment in sharing your fantasies with your partner. I never had such problem with my ex and he didn't have it either. Part of being in a relationship is about sharing whatever you desire, judgement isn't what makes a relationship healthy.
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    Dec 15, 2013 4:26 PM GMT
    Well, let's hear your fantasy. I'd have to love a guy a lot before I'd play "glass bottom boat" with him.
    Then again, if he wanted me to dress up like the Queen of Sheba, I'd be uncomfortable but I'd do it for him.
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    Dec 15, 2013 4:54 PM GMT
    Interesting question. I think most guys might be concerned if their fantasy was way outside of the accepted norm and if so, would want to ensure their partner was OK with something unorthodox. You should have a good feeling on your partner and open communications with him so you can discuss things like this without judgement. You also must be ready and willing to accept his response without judgement and then figure whether that fantasy is really worth pursuing in some way.