How To Find A Husband In 2 And A Half Months

  • Dec 17, 2013 1:43 AM GMT
    Okay ... now I’m posting this inquiry for my ex-boyfriend, not for myself. Im bi-sexual, technically speaking, but married to a woman some time ago. Im expecting a baby boy now and don’t really want to have anything to do with the gay community. My ex-bf is Asian; his father has been fighting with cancer and is now on the final stage. Doctor said he has about 2 and a half months to live. He has been disapproving of my ex’s gay identity for all his life but now has finally come to terms with the fact. He told my ex
    last week that his final wish before dying is to see his youngest son (i.e. my ex) to get married and settle down with a good man. Then he’ll die with no regrets.

    When I was dating my ex, I was actually seeing him as a fling . To me, men are just something on the side. What I want is a conventional marriage with wife and kids. But I couldn’t help falling for him. He’s in middle age, but
    man, when I first saw him on the bus, there’s no way you could tell and I almost had a hard-on right then right there, fantasizing on him. If you’re a top, you will love him. (He’s definitely no fem, however) When we walked
    on the street, people were looking at him, not me, and I was 29 back then. And he’s well-educated, nice and all that. I eventually hit the brakes before getting him further involved. That was about 2 years ago. So I guess
    I’m doing this for him ‘cause to him I’ve always felt very guilty.

    My ex email me the other day, telling me about his father and his father’s final wish of seeing him married. He actually really wants to get married, to a man of course. He once thought I was that man. But he is the kind of
    guy that does not like to get into the gay scenes. He lifts weights and exercise on his own. He is an ESL teacher so sometimes he travels to Asia, sometimes he is in the USA or Canada. And he is NOT good at making new
    contacts. When we were together, he can be kind of outgoing and talked more, but when he’s alone, he’s not very actively social unless other people starts
    talking to him first. He doesn’t like to bother others but he’s a very nice, kind and gentle man. But I think because of his looks, sometimes shyness can be mistaken for attitude, or at least deters lots of guys from
    having the guts to approach him.

    He is now feeling very sad ‘cause he has no idea how he can find the right guy to marry in two and a half months. And he wants to marry for love, a real marriage. Knowing him, when reading his email the other day , I could
    sense he was crying. He really doesn’t want his father to die with a regret and that regret is him.

    He’s asking me for ideas and I thought about personal ad, but like I said, he’s never comfortable with that kind of thing. Last night I stumbled into Realjock forum and thought maybe just maybe I can get some good ideas from
    this forum.

    Mind that he does not know I’m posting this here for him, and I have to respect his wish totally. But I really think he’s been hiding himself. for way too long. Being his ex, I almost think it is a crime for him to be single. The photo here is his actual body shot that he sent me just a month ago. He’s now in California, but I am not.

    So if you have any good ideas on how to find a husband in 2 and a half months, please help. It would be the best Holiday present for his father, and sadly, probably the final one. Thank you.
  • Fable

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    Dec 17, 2013 1:46 AM GMT
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    Dec 17, 2013 1:47 AM GMT
    Your long ID has totally screwed up my page formating.
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    Dec 17, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    Bogus story. This one has been floating around the internet for years. It was just reworded for a gay audience.
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    Dec 17, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    Just find a guy and give a show to his father. I guess nobody is willing to marry a guy who only knew for less than three months.icon_eek.gif
  • MikeW

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    Dec 17, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    Is he hung?
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    Dec 17, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    We need character limits on usernames too. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 17, 2013 2:25 AM GMT
    What a ridiculous post, so many issues even if it WERE true, which I don't believe it is. Anyone posting like this is in unbelievable denial. As for the ex, you don't meet a husband in a limited amount of time, unless it's some prearranged relationship. What a joke and a waste of forum space.
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    Dec 17, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
    It's impossible to find The Right Man and gets married in just 2 and a half month.

    Arrange something, like a fake marriage.