Sexual Racism: When does your preference become racist?

  • WhoDey

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    Dec 17, 2013 3:08 AM GMT
    http://www.gmfa.org.uk/Sites/fsmagazine/pages/fs133-sexual-racism
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    Dec 17, 2013 3:31 AM GMT
    Very interesting article. Well worth the read. Thank you for posting.
  • WhoDey

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    Dec 17, 2013 3:55 AM GMT
    bhp91126 saidVery interesting article. Well worth the read. Thank you for posting.


    Welcome. Any other opinions?
  • TannerMasseur

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    Dec 17, 2013 4:05 AM GMT
    After reading the article u posted above, here's my response:

    It's a major flaw of whites who put "no Blacks, no Asians" on their profiles. In their narrow mindset, other whites are all they see & can relate to.

    If the shoe was on the other foot, they'd be the first to bitch.

    If ur white, imagine if u were Black or Asian, and a white guy said to u "no Blacks, no Asians." How would u feel?.....
  • BlackZR1

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    Dec 17, 2013 4:29 AM GMT
    It's a very interesting article.
    Yet I don't know if it touched on say, a person of a minority rejecting the minority in favor of the majority. I'll admit that I as a black person I don't find black men attractive and I honest to god don't know why. I'm probably the least bigoted member in my family, yet I can't seem to be attracted to a black man. And I kinda feel ashamed of it.

    Should I be?
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    Dec 17, 2013 4:33 AM GMT
    Tanner saidIt's a major flaw of whites who put "no Blacks, no Asians" on their profiles. In their narrow mindset, other whites are all they see & can relate to.

    If the shoe was on the other foot, they'd be the first to bitch.

    If ur white, imagine if u were Black or Asian, and a white guy said to u "no Blacks, no Asians." How would u feel?.....


    -Why are you judging white people and trying to make them feel bad -- how do you know what they'd say?

    -Have a lot of white guys turned you down or something? If someone prefers vanilla icecream over chocolate what's the big deal?

    -Should all gay men sleep with a lady just to make sure they're gay?


    -I've found guys from every race sexually attractive, but I don't hook up like that.
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    Dec 17, 2013 5:01 AM GMT
    I personally don't care what race a guy is as long as he is muscular.
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    Dec 17, 2013 5:02 AM GMT
    AnOriginal said
    Tanner saidIt's a major flaw of whites who put "no Blacks, no Asians" on their profiles. In their narrow mindset, other whites are all they see & can relate to.

    If the shoe was on the other foot, they'd be the first to bitch.

    If ur white, imagine if u were Black or Asian, and a white guy said to u "no Blacks, no Asians." How would u feel?.....


    -Why are you judging white people and trying to make them feel bad -- how do you know what they'd say?

    -Have a lot of white guys turned you down or something? If someone prefers vanilla icecream over chocolate what's the big deal?

    -Should all gay men sleep with a woman just to make sure they're gay?


    -I've found guys from every race sexually attractive, even Indian, but I don't hook up like that.


    I'm responding to the OP's article he posted. Did u read it thru?.....
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    Dec 17, 2013 5:30 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidAlthough it has been framed by some as racism but I think it is an innate desire to diversify the gene pool to strengthen the birthed progenies albeit irrelevant here since men can't birth.


    White guys prefer white guys. Black guys prefer white guys. Asian guys prefer white guys. Clearly the evolutionary bullshit doesn't apply.
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    Dec 17, 2013 6:07 AM GMT
    What is this this, some kind of plague of race topics?

    I know a guy that loves dark hair and eyes. Others can kindly fuck off, and that includes any friendships. So there you go. I know another that will show you the door if you're not a ginger, and another if you're not of Chinese or Japanese descent. Some demand the same demographic as themselves, others demand difference. Horrible stuff, as it's prejudice.

    Then there's the other set, that says hey, they really like (whatever they really like). Notice the lack of limitations in possibility, and/or outright rejection of every personality in a physical demographic.

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    Dec 17, 2013 6:09 AM GMT
    hentailover said
    woodsmen saidAlthough it has been framed by some as racism but I think it is an innate desire to diversify the gene pool to strengthen the birthed progenies albeit irrelevant here since men can't birth.


    White guys prefer white guys. Black guys prefer white guys. Asian guys prefer white guys. Clearly the evolutionary bullshit doesn't apply.


    SPEAK FOR YOURSELF! There are plenty of ugly white guys just like any other race. According to your theory an ugly bald 89 year old white guy would view an attractive Black or Asian guy as his wet dream (if he wanted someone younger). Not all us adhere to your standards, a beautiful face/soul is a beautiful face/soul -- you don't get extra points in my book because of your skin color or lack of skin color.
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    Dec 17, 2013 6:14 AM GMT
    AnOriginal said
    hentailover said
    woodsmen saidAlthough it has been framed by some as racism but I think it is an innate desire to diversify the gene pool to strengthen the birthed progenies albeit irrelevant here since men can't birth.


    White guys prefer white guys. Black guys prefer white guys. Asian guys prefer white guys. Clearly the evolutionary bullshit doesn't apply.


    SPEAK FOR YOURSELF!


    He's full of shit AnOriginal.

    Here's why, a little story: suppose 90% of all gay guys had a green star on their bellybutton? What would the statistics be of managing to meet and fall in love with someone without one? What would the chances be that you would likely end up with one with a green star on his belly?
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    Dec 17, 2013 6:27 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    AnOriginal said
    hentailover said
    woodsmen saidAlthough it has been framed by some as racism but I think it is an innate desire to diversify the gene pool to strengthen the birthed progenies albeit irrelevant here since men can't birth.


    White guys prefer white guys. Black guys prefer white guys. Asian guys prefer white guys. Clearly the evolutionary bullshit doesn't apply.


    SPEAK FOR YOURSELF!


    He's full of shit AnOriginal.

    Here's why, a little story: suppose 90% of all gay guys had a green star on their bellybutton? What would the statistics be of managing to meet and fall in love with someone without one? What would the chances be that you would likely end up with one with a green star on his belly?


    Only 70% of America is white. What percentage of MOTD are white? 99.99%? The math is not on your side, who are you trying to fool? What are you trying to disprove?
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    Dec 17, 2013 6:32 AM GMT
    hentailover said
    meninlove said
    AnOriginal said
    hentailover said
    woodsmen saidAlthough it has been framed by some as racism but I think it is an innate desire to diversify the gene pool to strengthen the birthed progenies albeit irrelevant here since men can't birth.


    White guys prefer white guys. Black guys prefer white guys. Asian guys prefer white guys. Clearly the evolutionary bullshit doesn't apply.


    SPEAK FOR YOURSELF!


    He's full of shit AnOriginal.

    Here's why, a little story: suppose 90% of all gay guys had a green star on their bellybutton? What would the statistics be of managing to meet and fall in love with someone without one? What would the chances be that you would likely end up with one with a green star on his belly?


    Only 70% of America is white. What percentage of MOTD are white? 99.99%? The math is not on your side, who are you trying to fool? Why are you trying to disprove?


    Yawns. I just need to find a guy and knock him on the head with a caveman club; then I'll drag him to an island where we live off the land and make love every night icon_wink.gif KIDDING I think I recently became asexual or very celibate. By nature I don't really like men -- unless they are sensitive.
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    Dec 17, 2013 6:47 AM GMT
    Dear hidden profile, what you think means nothing to me, what you said I commented on. If the majority of gay men were green, many of us would have green partners. I don't excuse racism at all, but sometimes it's not racism but simple demographics and compatibility between people regardless of skin colour.

    If you had ten blondes and 100 brunettes the chances of you finding a compatible mate would be less among the blondes.

    And YES for the hundred goddamn time, racism exists, but not always.
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    Dec 17, 2013 6:56 AM GMT
    There's no reason for you to bring up the numbers game other than to attempt to "explain" away the obvious, which is that minorities and whites all PREFER whites, (not just "end up" with one). Except even your own hypothetical numbers only show how skewed preferences are in real life relative to population... so why bring it up, except to mislead? And of course you would do that, because well, who doesn't want to keep their own kind on top?

    Just because a AnOriginal is an exception (good for him) doesn't mean that many other minorities aren't willing to settle for less just to be with a white guy.

    It's not racism. That word has been completely misused in every race thread. It's simply gays being conditioned to prefer white guys.
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    Dec 17, 2013 8:42 AM GMT
    hentailover saidThere's no reason for you to bring up the numbers game other than to attempt to "explain" away the obvious, which is that minorities and whites all PREFER whites, (not just "end up" with one). Except even your own hypothetical numbers only show how skewed preferences are in real life relative to population... so why bring it up, except to mislead? And of course you would do that, because well, who doesn't want to keep their own kind on top?

    Just because a AnOriginal is an exception (good for him) doesn't mean that many other minorities aren't willing to settle for less just to be with a white guy.

    It's not racism. That word has been completely misused in every race thread. It's simply gays being conditioned to prefer white guys.


    "It's a white world afterall".....

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    Tanner said
    hentailover saidThere's no reason for you to bring up the numbers game other than to attempt to "explain" away the obvious, which is that minorities and whites all PREFER whites, (not just "end up" with one). Except even your own hypothetical numbers only show how skewed preferences are in real life relative to population... so why bring it up, except to mislead? And of course you would do that, because well, who doesn't want to keep their own kind on top?

    Just because a AnOriginal is an exception (good for him) doesn't mean that many other minorities aren't willing to settle for less just to be with a white guy.

    It's not racism. That word has been completely misused in every race thread. It's simply gays being conditioned to prefer white guys.


    "It's a white world afterall".....

    Spread the love icon_smile.gif .....


    Is Tanner playing a Southbeach on us -- are you the hidden profile, silly?
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    Dec 17, 2013 8:57 AM GMT
    AnOriginal said
    Tanner said
    hentailover saidThere's no reason for you to bring up the numbers game other than to attempt to "explain" away the obvious, which is that minorities and whites all PREFER whites, (not just "end up" with one). Except even your own hypothetical numbers only show how skewed preferences are in real life relative to population... so why bring it up, except to mislead? And of course you would do that, because well, who doesn't want to keep their own kind on top?

    Just because a AnOriginal is an exception (good for him) doesn't mean that many other minorities aren't willing to settle for less just to be with a white guy.

    It's not racism. That word has been completely misused in every race thread. It's simply gays being conditioned to prefer white guys.


    "It's a white world afterall".....

    Spread the love icon_smile.gif .....


    Is Tanner playing a Southbeach on us -- are you the hidden profile, silly?


    Just being sardonic icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 17, 2013 9:02 AM GMT
    AnOriginal said
    hentailover said
    meninlove said
    AnOriginal said
    hentailover said
    woodsmen saidAlthough it has been framed by some as racism but I think it is an innate desire to diversify the gene pool to strengthen the birthed progenies albeit irrelevant here since men can't birth.


    White guys prefer white guys. Black guys prefer white guys. Asian guys prefer white guys. Clearly the evolutionary bullshit doesn't apply.


    SPEAK FOR YOURSELF!


    He's full of shit AnOriginal.

    Here's why, a little story: suppose 90% of all gay guys had a green star on their bellybutton? What would the statistics be of managing to meet and fall in love with someone without one? What would the chances be that you would likely end up with one with a green star on his belly?


    Only 70% of America is white. What percentage of MOTD are white? 99.99%? The math is not on your side, who are you trying to fool? Why are you trying to disprove?


    Yawns. I just need to find a guy and knock him on the head with a caveman club; then I'll drag him to an island where we live off the land and make love every night icon_wink.gif KIDDING I think I recently became asexual or very celibate. By nature I don't really like men -- unless they are sensitive.


    Me too. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 17, 2013 9:27 AM GMT
    AnOriginal said

    -Why are you judging white people and trying to make them feel bad -- how do you know what they'd say?

    Because a large percentage of such thing is seen on a white guy's profile.

    -Have a lot of white guys turned you down or something? If someone prefers vanilla icecream over chocolate what's the big deal?

    Do you think racism is like preferring one type of ice cream over another? If so, that's why such issues are still alive in the society.

    -Should all gay men sleep with a lady just to make sure they're gay?


    Where did you infer that? The article is talking about discrimination which exists among gays.


    -I've found guys from every race sexually attractive, even Indian, but I don't hook up like that.

    Indians must be feeling privileged after reading this line
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    Dec 17, 2013 3:35 PM GMT
    Tanner said
    hentailover saidThere's no reason for you to bring up the numbers game other than to attempt to "explain" away the obvious, which is that minorities and whites all PREFER whites, (not just "end up" with one). Except even your own hypothetical numbers only show how skewed preferences are in real life relative to population... so why bring it up, except to mislead? And of course you would do that, because well, who doesn't want to keep their own kind on top?

    Just because a AnOriginal is an exception (good for him) doesn't mean that many other minorities aren't willing to settle for less just to be with a white guy.

    It's not racism. That word has been completely misused in every race thread. It's simply gays being conditioned to prefer white guys.


    "It's a white world afterall".....

    Spread the love icon_smile.gif .....


    You're both being rather stupid. The numbers are the numbers. Perhaps a course in stats and probability would help you both. And dear hidden profile, my background is heavily mixed. Go piss up a rope. icon_lol.gif I notice that you both carefully sidestepped the green star belly analogy. Now why am I bothering with two trolls, eh?
  • christastic

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    Dec 17, 2013 4:32 PM GMT
    Lol meninlove I think you've been living in a cave, if u think that racial preferences simply correlate to population. It's not exactly a well kept secret in the gay community
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    christastic saidLol meninlove I think you've been living in a cave, if u think that racial preferences simply correlate to population. It's not exactly a well kept secret in the gay community


    No, I don't. Racism is quite alive and well, thanks, but NOT ALWAYS.

    This is what I've observed. If a white guy and non white are dating, a whole bunch of crap comes out from others. The non white feels in inferior so is going out with the white. Or the white guy is a fetishist and doesn't really love the non white.

    Then there's the carping that ensues when two non whites date. Oh, they hate whites and are dating each other because of that.
    Then there's the carping that goes on when two whites date.

    While sometimes the above examples are true, often they are not.

    I think many would benefit from reading this story:
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    Dec 17, 2013 4:44 PM GMT

    You know being mixed race, I've had to endure racism from both sides. Not black enough or not white enough. Quite frankly I hope for the day when there are no more races and all are mixed.

    Then all can fight over eye colour.