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    Dec 19, 2013 7:10 PM GMT
    I have this problem where I attract very beautiful men..but I have a hard time letting them down cause I don't wanna hurt any feelings..how can I let them know I think they're hot but I'm unavailable for any kind of relationship besides friendship without being mean ?
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    Dec 19, 2013 7:46 PM GMT
    Just tell them exactly what you just wrote. icon_wink.gif

    If they throw a fit, then that's their problem.
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:30 PM GMT
    xrichx saidJust tell them exactly what you just wrote. icon_wink.gif

    If they throw a fit, then that's their problem.


    Exactly. And it must be TERRIBLE to have handsome men after you all the time. icon_wink.gif But letting any one down easy is the same, handsome or not. Just smile and say thank you, but no thank you.
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:45 PM GMT
    I usually don't let it get as far as gettin to know these guys.. usually just meet at a club , drink,dance and part ways ..that's the best way..then I never gotta see them again lol
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:47 PM GMT
    I don't think he's being serious.
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:50 PM GMT
    Behemothboi saidusually just meet at a club, drink, dance and part ways


    All the more reason that "Thanks, no thanks" will work perfectly! I don't know many guys who would be all that sad about a situation like that.
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:50 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidI don't think he's being serious.
    I am icon_sad.gif
  • PR_GMR

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    Dec 19, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    I see what you're doing. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    Behemothboi said
    JohnSpotter saidI don't think he's being serious.
    I am icon_sad.gif


    Nope. But keep doing it.
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    Yeah, no way this is a serious post. Not that many hot men are also blind.
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    Dec 19, 2013 8:52 PM GMT
    Bunjamon said
    Behemothboi saidusually just meet at a club, drink, dance and part ways


    All the more reason that "Thanks, no thanks" will work perfectly! I don't know many guys who would be all that sad about a situation like that.
    well in this situation we hung out a few Times after we met.. then he start saying how much he likes me and all that stuff.. but I told him we can be friends and he said that's ok so I guess its all good
  • PR_GMR

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    Dec 19, 2013 8:59 PM GMT
    Why won't you date these beautiful men?
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    Dec 19, 2013 9:06 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidYeah, no way this is a serious post. Not that many hot men are also blind.
    geez what did I ever do to you..
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    Dec 19, 2013 9:14 PM GMT
    Behemothboi said
    smartmoney saidYeah, no way this is a serious post. Not that many hot men are also blind.
    geez what did I ever do to you..

    Nothing. And nothing to me. I think you're neat-o.
    But people who write self praise, even thinly disguise self praise like this, open themselves up to mockery.
    Could you answer PR's question, please?
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    Dec 19, 2013 9:21 PM GMT
    I have answered his question we've been talking in pm
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    Dec 19, 2013 9:45 PM GMT
    I axed you not to put our personal bizness out there.icon_mad.gif
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    Dec 19, 2013 9:48 PM GMT
    I think its kinda jacked up how people just assume I'm not serious.. =
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    Dec 19, 2013 9:52 PM GMT
    Sometimes, there is no way to avoid hurting someone's feelings. All you can do is be honest.
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    Dec 19, 2013 11:12 PM GMT
    Behemothboi said
    smartmoney saidYeah, no way this is a serious post. Not that many hot men are also blind.
    geez what did I ever do to you..

    You never did nothing to be honey baby. I really figured you must be kidding. If too many hot dudes are hitting on you, accept the blow jobs, thank them and get back to work. This technique works for me.
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    Dec 19, 2013 11:20 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI axed you not to put our personal bizness out there.icon_mad.gif



    You just jealous cause he's trolling better than you. icon_surprised.gif
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    Dec 19, 2013 11:37 PM GMT
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    437 underwear selfies in profile. Says he's not looking. icon_confused.gif