Name the last couple (3-4) guys You've been with, hung out or even dated! And tell us what happened! :)

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    Dec 21, 2013 12:41 AM GMT
    Hm, I guess one of my goal for next year is to date more and pick a wiser partner! Name the last 3-4 guys you hang out with, dated or even hooked up! And tell us why it didn't work out and the lesson you learned from it. (Of course, you can share from one guy to whatever you want). I'll start.

    Tommy - 29, military/Navy guy, lives about 3 hrs away! did not want a serious bf, he just wants a fb, commitment issue.

    Brad - 37, lives in San Diego, broke up with his **straight bf*, does not want to get serious until a year later 2014. He seems to like straight men!! icon_rolleyes.gif

    Keith - 33, lives in Santa Monica, going through job-changes, wants to go Taiwan/Hong Kong for work for an *undisclosed amount of time.

    Antonio (Tony) - 35, cute guy, nurse, nice dude! We didn't have enough heat/chemistry on our dates. We remain friends.

    Jesse - 20, UCLA sophomore guy, still live at the dorm! undecided major, no idea what he want to do with his life! We're friends, I visited him for his bday! We hung out at the arcade/Santa Monica! Too young for me though!

    **out of these guys, I probably still like Tommy the most! Grr, what is wrong with me liking guys with commitment issues !!! icon_redface.gificon_eek.gif

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    Dec 21, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    S: 19, he was one of those rare and smart people I met in my life. His personality made me think I was so simple. I loved his body, especially neck and bubble butt... We started as a hook-up, then it became sorta friendship. But overall things did not work out. He said I was a great and nice guy, but not good enough for him.

    E: 22. I guess I started seeing him because I felt lonely and needed someone at that moment... It did not work out. He wanted to date/have relationship with white guys that a bit older than me.


    R: 19, i still love him... though our relationship lasted just one year, I still think that no one will take his place in my heart.
    It was my fault that he left me. My freaking insecurity and personality...

    Overall, I think I gained a lot of experience during the last few years. I grew up...

    For now, I think because of them, I do not want to meet anyone though.
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    Dec 21, 2013 6:05 AM GMT
    Ben: physician, I broke up with him because he became too needy.

    Chris: the Wall Street banker, played with my emotions. I still care for him to this day.

    Mark: the ginger, I wasn't into him. He taught me never to mislead anyone and their feelings.

    Brian: my 1st boyfriend - the Disney cast member. We had a lot of fun! Broke up due to a long distance relationship.

    Andy: the bodybuilder / loan officer - he had commitment issues.
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    Dec 21, 2013 7:56 PM GMT
    ChingChang - boring, had to leave him at a large department store.
    WingWang - tried to steal a painting, had him deported.
    LuWuPingPang - not sure what happened, I think he may have gone on an adventure with an unsure outcome.
    ChuChuDingDang- Way too stupid and young, even for me, but so amazingly agile and hot. I know where he is, just in case.
    LingLang - here forever.
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    Dec 21, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    A. Was an online thing so idk if that even counts

    D. Started out perfect but we were seriously lacking in the sex department so 9 months later we called it quits

    K. Great loving guy, never could say a bad thing about him..just our lives took us in different directions ( he's in los Angeles now )

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    Dec 22, 2013 7:19 AM GMT
    Behemothboi saidA. Was an online thing so idk if that even counts

    D. Started out perfect but we were seriously lacking in the sex department so 9 months later we called it quits

    K. Great loving guy, never could say a bad thing about him..just our lives took us in different directions ( he's in los Angeles now )

    i cant believe you said that icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 22, 2013 10:26 PM GMT
    Hmm.

    M - Went on 4 dates (as in, bought each other dinner then PG-13 action) before he told me "I'm not ready to date, but you make me feel good and I want to keep hanging out." Translation: I'd like you as an emotional crutch.

    V - Sexually incompatible basically. Better know up front that you're on the same page.

    M(2) - Flirted with me, cuddled on me, asked me out, then ditched me for a different guy. Twice haha.

    B - Went on a few dates before I discovered he had utter contempt for fat people, then I stopped seeing him.
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    Dec 23, 2013 4:44 AM GMT
    Jon: current boy 9 months monogamous, multiple testings.

    Jay: my first fuck 20 years ago, back in country for a while, comfort blowjobs for a few weeks while both single. Moved across the world yet again.

    Luka: one hookup jerked him off. Didnt get back to me for months, now asks once in a while if im available, not.

    Xu: hook up, failed to fit it in, never heard back from him

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    Dec 24, 2013 2:12 AM GMT
    Larkin said
    B - Went on a few dates before I discovered he had utter contempt for fat people, then I stopped seeing him.


    Sorry I had to LOL at that one! it's all good !! icon_cool.gif
  • lgg5819

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    Dec 25, 2013 4:57 AM GMT
    J: army officer, 27. hooked up a few times and it was great but we lived a few hours apart. basically would hook up whenever i went to visit my family. eventually he moved. my only regret is i never got to bang him in his brand new mercedes.

    M: student, 23. GREAT sex but he was just too young for me. he had an awesome ass and dick and sex went on for hours. but i was at a point in my life where i was finishing up law school and about to move on to adult life, whatever that is, and so he was always just meant to be a hot fuck buddy for me.

    E: software engineer, 31. pretty good sex, he wanted a relationship and i did not. he lived in my apartment complex which made things awkward when i wanted to call it off. luckily he moved like a week later. nice guy, just no spark other than physically.

    M: current bf, 33. we fell in love hard and moved too fast on some things. unfortunately now, a year later, we are having some serious growing pains. i still love him and am deeply in love with him, but im a little scared about whether it's going to work as a forever thing. he's deeply insecure about a lot of things which has taken a toll on our relationship. hopeful that it will work but realistic about the fact that it may not, as much as that sucks.