Nude pics?

  • BloodFlame

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    Dec 21, 2013 4:09 AM GMT
    I'm just curious to hear if nude photos when it comes to online is really a big deal? I've noticed that when I talk to guys online or a guy contacts me, everything goes okay until they ask me for a nude picture and I respectfully decline, then never hear from them again.

    I know it just means they were looking for a quick hookup but I can't help wondering if nude photos are that much of a deal breaker. I don't berate or judge those who take and show them but for me, it'd be so untrue to myself to do that so I never take them. I already expect that kind of stuff on sites like A4A but I even got that question on OkCupid and back when I tried PlentyofFish.

    So my question to you is when it comes to online dating, do you expect to see nude photos and if the person you contact doesn't have or give you one, it's a deal breaker?
  • Fable

    Posts: 3866

    Dec 21, 2013 4:59 AM GMT
    I'm much like you,

    don't take dont send bla bla bla

    its more fun unwrapping a present than sneak peeking.
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    Dec 21, 2013 5:52 AM GMT
    "... it'd be so untrue to myself to do that so I never take them."


    I think regardless of how others feel about it, your statement above is more important. But since you asked.....no, it doesn't make me less interested in the least.
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    Dec 21, 2013 8:15 AM GMT
    nude photos are mostly for hookup! No, it's not a deal breaker if the guy doesn't have naked photo! Depends on if you like him enough to send him XXX photos of yourself.
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    Dec 21, 2013 5:23 PM GMT
    Not at all! And if someone asks for my nude pics - that is a deal-breaker (in most cases, but it depends tbh :3 )
  • Apparition

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    Dec 21, 2013 11:45 PM GMT
    If you are hooking up we should be compatible. I didnt ask a couple times and regretted it.
  • BloodFlame

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    Dec 23, 2013 12:05 AM GMT
    Interesting answers. Yeah, I feel that having some sort of mystery is exciting.
  • dustinj4mes

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    Jan 03, 2014 5:27 AM GMT
    Yeah, It's not my personal taste, but I don't judge or anything for people that do. I like the mystery!

  • Jan 04, 2014 6:16 PM GMT
    Okajuurou saidNot at all! And if someone asks for my nude pics - that is a deal-breaker (in most cases, but it depends tbh :3 )


    This pretty much.

    I'm not interested in hooking up, so a guy I hardly know asking for nudes probably annoys me just as much as it does them when they find out that I have no interest in taking/sending them.