should let him back in or not?

  • RainBow_Drago...

    Posts: 338

    Dec 23, 2013 7:22 PM GMT
    So My Ex best friend and I drifted apart sometime ago because of his new girlfriend and our busy schedule. plus,he moved to live on the outskirts of the city without telling me.

    Now, before the "fall-out", we were like brothers....Well, until he got a girlfriend and started ignore me. We also ignored each other on whatsapp, and facebook .However recently he's been trying to contact me, posting songs to my facebook and stuff.

    Even though I do miss him really bad, I haven't been answering commenting on the posts he makes on my wall, or replied to his text messages, Because I feel sold-out and immensely hurt.

    I'm not sure if I want him back in my life. There were certain things about our friendship that I never thought we would trade for nothing in the world.

    we told each other everything, and shared everything together.. that said. He liked to think that, I couldn't do without him, that somehow my life would crumble if he leaves.

    I know this makes me seem like the bitter and unforgiving one, but when we were friends we meant everything to each other.

    I just don't know if I should let him back in or not?

    Please advice...

  • jo2hotbod

    Posts: 3606

    Dec 23, 2013 7:30 PM GMT
    You're not the first to get dis'd for a chick and won't be the last. Reconnect and get a good friend back in your life. Good friends are hard to come by, we all make mistakes, live and let live
  • RainBow_Drago...

    Posts: 338

    Dec 23, 2013 8:02 PM GMT
    thank you for this, very good advice, it hurts so much even though I miss the old times must admit I kinda had a change of heart about the whole thing! Perhaps I need to grow thicker skin next time.<3
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    Dec 23, 2013 8:34 PM GMT
    Yes you should make friends with him again. But, it is usually unhealthy for a gay guy to have just one really good straight friend. Something to think about.