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    Dec 26, 2013 3:15 AM GMT
    Mine was nothing special. Half the family were no-shows. Good to see the ones who did. I'd give it a 10. I hope everyone on RJ had a very special Christmas and Happy New Year to all you guys. I may have issues with a few but I enjoy reading the forums. Lets keep em going in 14. icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 26, 2013 3:19 AM GMT
    I'm very eager to see 2014.
    2013 was kind of an awkward number.
    (I'm not a trixadecaphobe!)
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    Dec 26, 2013 3:26 AM GMT
    Went to my best friends house that I've known for 14 yrs.
    She wanted me to meet her new boyfriend and she was nervous because they are in an interracial relationship and is wary of racism.

    But Racism might be the least of her problems.
    This guy flirted with me several times today, then he ended up letting us know he was actually bi, he complimented my "hot" body and even winked at me at another point in the day... He also reminds me of my ex bf which is not a good thing. I am afraid for my friend, I dont think she realizes what she's dealing with, but i'm not going to hang out with them together too much for fear of what pass he might try to make at me. This isnt the first time one of her bfs tried to make a pass at me, one of her ex bfs tried to get me to move in with him last summer, he's hot as FUCK and my type, but i would NEVER do that to my friend.
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    Dec 26, 2013 3:26 AM GMT
    Eh, just another day for Jews.
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    Dec 26, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    I took a bunch of muscle relaxers and jerked off 3 times.
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    Dec 26, 2013 6:26 AM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidI'm very eager to see 2014.
    2013 was kind of an awkward number.
    (I'm not a trixadecaphobe!)

    2013 = 3 x 11 x 61
    What's awkward about that?
    Also, that's "triskaidekaphobia", from the Greek "tris (3) kai (and) deka (ten)"
  • killercliche

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    Dec 26, 2013 6:36 AM GMT
    CopperDevil said one of her ex bfs tried to get me to move in with him last summer, he's hot as FUCK and my type, but i would NEVER do that to my friend.



    Assuming he is a good guy and they broke up for compatibility reasons, it would be silly to deny yourself potential happiness and selfish of your friend to expect such of you. If he was a douche bag, well that's something else.
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    Dec 26, 2013 2:18 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidWent to my best friends house that I've known for 14 yrs.
    She wanted me to meet her new boyfriend and she was nervous because they are in an interracial relationship and is wary of racism.

    But Racism might be the least of her problems.
    This guy flirted with me several times today, then he ended up letting us know he was actually bi, he complimented my "hot" body and even winked at me at another point in the day... He also reminds me of my ex bf which is not a good thing. I am afraid for my friend, I dont think she realizes what she's dealing with, but i'm not going to hang out with them together too much for fear of what pass he might try to make at me. This isnt the first time one of her bfs tried to make a pass at me, one of her ex bfs tried to get me to move in with him last summer, he's hot as FUCK and my type, but i would NEVER do that to my friend.


    Try not to avoid her because of him..
    Next time he is in proximity..Tell him..

    "You make me uncomfortable"
    "Flirting with me is unacceptable"
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    Dec 26, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    Anocxu said
    CopperDevil saidWent to my best friends house that I've known for 14 yrs.
    She wanted me to meet her new boyfriend and she was nervous because they are in an interracial relationship and is wary of racism.

    But Racism might be the least of her problems.
    This guy flirted with me several times today, then he ended up letting us know he was actually bi, he complimented my "hot" body and even winked at me at another point in the day... He also reminds me of my ex bf which is not a good thing. I am afraid for my friend, I dont think she realizes what she's dealing with, but i'm not going to hang out with them together too much for fear of what pass he might try to make at me. This isnt the first time one of her bfs tried to make a pass at me, one of her ex bfs tried to get me to move in with him last summer, he's hot as FUCK and my type, but i would NEVER do that to my friend.


    Try not to avoid her because of him..
    Next time he is in proximity..Tell him..

    "You make me uncomfortable"
    "Flirting with me is unacceptable"


    That's what I'd do, too.
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    Dec 26, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    Matiz saidI took a bunch of muscle relaxers and jerked off 3 times.


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    Dec 26, 2013 2:50 PM GMT
    ChesterMinaj saidSucked five black dicks and ate some turkey


    How did you have room for turkey?
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    Dec 26, 2013 3:28 PM GMT
    I feel completly ashamed of myself. I had sex not once, but twice on Jesus' birthday. icon_sad.gificon_cry.gif

    Forgive me father for I have sinned.
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    Dec 26, 2013 3:33 PM GMT
    I think I slept all day. And then I chatted with Norm MacDonald about Jesus on Twitter.
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    Dec 26, 2013 3:40 PM GMT


    Let's see...

    Just Bill and I and the dogs. Bowed out of all family parties. There will be other Christmases for us, but this may be the last for our ancient doggie Rupert, so we kept him company, made a turkey, and visited door to door with neighbours on our street. Great bunch of people.

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    Dec 26, 2013 4:03 PM GMT
    killercliche said
    CopperDevil said one of her ex bfs tried to get me to move in with him last summer, he's hot as FUCK and my type, but i would NEVER do that to my friend.



    Assuming he is a good guy and they broke up for compatibility reasons, it would be silly to deny yourself potential happiness and selfish of your friend to expect such of you. If he was a douche bag, well that's something else.


    It depends on what you consider a douchebag lol
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    Dec 26, 2013 4:04 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Anocxu said
    CopperDevil saidWent to my best friends house that I've known for 14 yrs.
    She wanted me to meet her new boyfriend and she was nervous because they are in an interracial relationship and is wary of racism.

    But Racism might be the least of her problems.
    This guy flirted with me several times today, then he ended up letting us know he was actually bi, he complimented my "hot" body and even winked at me at another point in the day... He also reminds me of my ex bf which is not a good thing. I am afraid for my friend, I dont think she realizes what she's dealing with, but i'm not going to hang out with them together too much for fear of what pass he might try to make at me. This isnt the first time one of her bfs tried to make a pass at me, one of her ex bfs tried to get me to move in with him last summer, he's hot as FUCK and my type, but i would NEVER do that to my friend.


    Try not to avoid her because of him..
    Next time he is in proximity..Tell him..

    "You make me uncomfortable"
    "Flirting with me is unacceptable"


    That's what I'd do, too.


    Oh I'm not going to stop hanging out with her because of that, I'm just not going to be around him. he was trying to connect with me and wanted me to ad him on FB and stuff... among other things
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    Dec 26, 2013 4:05 PM GMT
    After packing away a large Christmas dinner, my paunchy, middle aged brother announced he thinks he has stomach cancer because he can't eat as much as he used to. To which my younger brother quipped that the cancer must be eating the food rather than eating him because he sure didn't look like he was wasting away. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    All in all it wasn't a very good Christmas. I mean no one got drunk and fell into the Christmas tree. icon_sad.gif
  • Sakura

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    Dec 26, 2013 4:33 PM GMT
    I've been trying to find the right moment to come out to my brother, today is our last day together for the holiday and we won't see each other in person again for some time. At the beginning of the holiday his wife made two disparaging comments towards gays and kind of took the wind out of my sails. I thought my mom (I told my parents in June, mom was very accepting) was gonna slap her but thankfully she contained herself and voiced her acceptance. I didn't expect telling him would be hard, but I'm finding it harder than my parents. icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 26, 2013 5:13 PM GMT
    Taka13 saidI've been trying to find the right moment to come out to my brother, today is our last day together for the holiday and we won't see each other in person again for some time. At the beginning of the holiday his wife made two disparaging comments towards gays and kind of took the wind out of my sails. I thought my mom (I told my parents in June, mom was very accepting) was gonna slap her but thankfully she contained herself and voiced her acceptance. I didn't expect telling him would be hard, but I'm finding it harder than my parents. icon_neutral.gif


    Why do you need to tell him anything? Why do you need/want his approval? Since you don't see him very often, I suggest you just live your life on your own terms and let him come to his own conclusions on his own. Since your parents know, you should feel free to bring boyfriends/dates around the family. After a few family get togethers he'll get the picture or at least get up the nerve to ask you. This gives him time. To many times we will tell people before they are ready and erroneously expect a more pleasant outcome than we actually get. Time is on your side.

    P.S. When your sister-in-law made disparaging remarks towards gays was the perfect time for you to slowly come out of the closet by actually defending "your kind."
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    Dec 26, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
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    Taka13 saidI've been trying to find the right moment to come out to my brother, today is our last day together for the holiday and we won't see each other in person again for some time. At the beginning of the holiday his wife made two disparaging comments towards gays and kind of took the wind out of my sails. I thought my mom (I told my parents in June, mom was very accepting) was gonna slap her but thankfully she contained herself and voiced her acceptance. I didn't expect telling him would be hard, but I'm finding it harder than my parents. icon_neutral.gif


    Why do you need to tell him anything? Why do you need/want his approval? Since you don't see him very often, I suggest you just live your life on your own terms and let him come to his own conclusions on his own. Since your parents know, you should feel free to bring boyfriends/dates around the family. After a few family get togethers he'll get the picture or at least get up the nerve to ask you. This gives him time. To many times we will tell people before they are ready and erroneously expect a more pleasant outcome than we actually get. Time is on your side.

    P.S. When your sister-in-law made disparaging remarks towards gays was the perfect time for you to slowly come out of the closet by actually defending "your kind."

    Ya, I think I foreshadowed my coming out by being a very vocal defender of gays whenever someone made a stupid comment. I didn't actually describe them as "my kind" but I made it clear I wasn't "tolerant" but approving as there wasn't nothing warranting toleration. But I think you probably should just go on and do it. Tell your brother. If your parents know, just bite the bullet and get it over with. Life will improve immeasurably for you. And you'll be standing up and saying "This is me. You cannot tell me how to live my life." It feels so liberating. Good luck, man.
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 26, 2013 5:48 PM GMT
    My Christmas was the most quiet in years. My partner went home to Arizona to watch his brother graduate college and I chose to not go because of his big Chinese family gatherings with only about half knowing about him much less me. So rather than make the ones who know me uncomfortable, I decided to stay away. Missed my guy, though. My kids were spending the holiday with their mom for the first time in years so decided to not horn in on that. And spent Thanksgiving with my brother's family so didn't war to do that again. All alone. lol Actually it was kind of nice. Cooked myself an elaborate dinner that took all day (beef Wellington) and watched basketball and any other thing on TV that was interesting. Had a big tree up and poinsettias and the table stuff. Felt festive and Chistmas-y. Talked with everyone and texted a lot. Totally pleasant. If fattening. My partner and his brother and one of my sons and his girlfriend are meeting me in Montreal on Saturday for New Year's and skiing.
  • Borski1992

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    Dec 26, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    Watched movies alone, and had a fight with my ex. Great Christmas.
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    Dec 26, 2013 6:07 PM GMT
    Went for a sail. Did some farm chores. Had a few friends over for drinks & cookies.
  • Sakura

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    Dec 26, 2013 6:16 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan said
    Taka13 saidI've been trying to find the right moment to come out to my brother, today is our last day together for the holiday and we won't see each other in person again for some time. At the beginning of the holiday his wife made two disparaging comments towards gays and kind of took the wind out of my sails. I thought my mom (I told my parents in June, mom was very accepting) was gonna slap her but thankfully she contained herself and voiced her acceptance. I didn't expect telling him would be hard, but I'm finding it harder than my parents. icon_neutral.gif


    Why do you need to tell him anything? Why do you need/want his approval? Since you don't see him very often, I suggest you just live your life on your own terms and let him come to his own conclusions on his own. Since your parents know, you should feel free to bring boyfriends/dates around the family. After a few family get togethers he'll get the picture or at least get up the nerve to ask you. This gives him time. To many times we will tell people before they are ready and erroneously expect a more pleasant outcome than we actually get. Time is on your side.

    P.S. When your sister-in-law made disparaging remarks towards gays was the perfect time for you to slowly come out of the closet by actually defending "your kind."


    Firstly, I don't need my brother's approval. I love him and and our relationship isn't so callus that I'd leave this tidbit for him to discover on his own and I certainly wouldn't throw a guy under the bus by bringing him around my brother without a proper, accurate description of what he meant to me. I understand time is on my side and that today isn't the only day I have to tell him, but honestly waiting won't make a difference in my opinion. Finally, my sister in law is fully aware of my accepting stance on gays as I do actively defend "my kind", I really think she'll change her tune when she finds out.
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    Dec 26, 2013 7:47 PM GMT
    Arrived in Sydney, AUS, and although it was raining- had a blast exploring the city, Opera House and Harboricon_smile.gif Some hot guys were out and abouticon_biggrin.gif I will post photos later when I get home. Today, and yesterday it was Sunny and exploring more of the city - went to the gay district and had fun (Oxford Street).