my crush is gonna be on a new year party

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    Dec 27, 2013 4:45 PM GMT
    I have a crush on one guy, my acquaintance. This acquaintance is gonna be on a New Year party I am going to. It is not a party per se, it is just a dinner/gathering where I will have an opportunity to small-talk to him.

    I know him for about two years, but I never actually got closer enough to him to say that I know him well.

    The thing is, I want to talk to him and get a bit closer. I am wondering whether I should prepare myself and get a “plan/shortcuts” for our conversations? Or will it be creepy?

    By shortcuts I meant some small-talk questions regarding his school, career, life and such.

    Appreciate any advice icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 27, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    Also I have never prepared small-talk questions beforehand and never tried that.

    Whenever I know I will talk to someone, I just go there and come up with topics/ice breakers there.
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    Dec 27, 2013 4:58 PM GMT
    DateRape_20090323_BM0002.jpg

    Get closer you say? You know what to do.
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    Dec 27, 2013 5:24 PM GMT
    New year's resolutions
    Holiday plans for next year
    How the food and drink at the party compares to what he usually eats/drinks and why he likes it
    Is he sick of turkey yet?
    Bad cracker jokes (then add one of your own like the interrupting cow joke)

    Also, learn to recognise if/when the conversation is flagging so you have an opportunity and excuse to talk to someone else before he starts to get bored (with luck, this will not happen but best to plan for the worst). That way he will remember the conversation as having been great.
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    Dec 27, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    First..Is the guy gay?
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    Dec 27, 2013 5:32 PM GMT
    KardioKing saidDateRape_20090323_BM0002.jpg

    Get closer you say? You know what to do.


    Haha, where do I buy this powder?


    mybud saidFirst..Is the guy gay?


    Yes, everyone who attends that party is gay.

    Ohno saidNew year's resolutions
    Holiday plans for next year
    How the food and drink at the party compares to what he usually eats/drinks and why he likes it
    Is he sick of turkey yet?
    Bad cracker jokes (then add one of your own like the interrupting cow joke)

    Also, learn to recognise if/when the conversation is flagging so you have an opportunity and excuse to talk to someone else before he starts to get bored (with luck, this will not happen but best to plan for the worst). That way he will remember the conversation as having been great.


    That's a greaat advice !!! Thanks. Luv you :3
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    Dec 28, 2013 1:49 AM GMT
    Hey look, actual "unique" questions

    Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed?
    Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotel?
    Do you sleep with your sheets tucked in or out?
    Have you ever stolen a street sign before?
    Do you like to use post-it notes?
    Do you cut out coupons but then never use them?
    Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of a bees?
    Do you have freckles?
    Do you always smile for pictures?
    What is your biggest pet peeve?
    Do you ever count your steps when you walk?
    Have you ever peed in the woods?
    What about pooped in the woods?
    Do you ever dance even if there's no music playing?
    Do you chew your pens and pencils?
    How many people have you slept with this week?
    What size is your bed?
    What is your Song of the week?
    Is it okay for guys to wear pink?
    Do you still watch cartoons?
    Whats your least favorite movie?
    Where would you bury hidden treasure if you had some?
    If you're a girl, bra size? If you're a guy, pants size?
    What do you dip a chicken nugget in?
    What is your favorite food?
  • What_May

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    Dec 28, 2013 7:44 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidHey look, actual "unique" questions

    Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed?
    Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotel?
    Do you sleep with your sheets tucked in or out?
    Have you ever stolen a street sign before?
    Do you like to use post-it notes?
    Do you cut out coupons but then never use them?
    Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of a bees?
    Do you have freckles?
    Do you always smile for pictures?
    What is your biggest pet peeve?
    Do you ever count your steps when you walk?
    Have you ever peed in the woods?
    What about pooped in the woods?
    Do you ever dance even if there's no music playing?
    Do you chew your pens and pencils?
    How many people have you slept with this week?
    What size is your bed?
    What is your Song of the week?
    Is it okay for guys to wear pink?
    Do you still watch cartoons?
    Whats your least favorite movie?
    Where would you bury hidden treasure if you had some?
    If you're a girl, bra size? If you're a guy, pants size?
    What do you dip a chicken nugget in?
    What is your favorite food?



    Hit nail on head lol. This. All of it.