Meeting other people. Especially with my size.

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    Dec 28, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    So I was interested in know other ways to meet guys besides using dating sites. I am still in the process of coming out but I am trying to find other outlets. Not to mention I am trying to find guys who are bigger than me and it is hard to find people who like the smaller framed people (don't worry I am working out to get bigger but still) … it could just be in my head but still gotta see other peoples opinion.
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    Dec 28, 2013 7:45 PM GMT
    It's in your head. I used to feel pretty insecure for being small and thought I'd never have a chance with hot guys. I've since learned that a lot of bigger guys LOVE smaller guys.
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    Dec 28, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    IRFire66 saidIt's in your head. I used to feel pretty insecure for being small and thought I'd never have a chance with hot guys. I've since learned that a lot of bigger guys LOVE smaller guys.


    Sweet! Now all I have to do is get myself out there…which all I need is a starting place haha

  • Dec 28, 2013 8:05 PM GMT
    I'm a pretty small guy myself, but it isn't something I feel bad about; I love it actually.

    I've had guys both big and small be flirty with me and all that.
  • BryUSC88

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    Dec 28, 2013 9:29 PM GMT
    I love smaller guys. Nothing to be insecure about.
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    Dec 28, 2013 10:35 PM GMT
    I guess OP also wanted to know what are the other ways to meet guys other than using dating sites.

    I would say just follow cliches such as volunteer, make gay friends, go on events that LGBT groups hold on your campus (you are in college right?) etc.
    Be open minded, not all people are into muscled and big guys.
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    Dec 28, 2013 11:31 PM GMT
    i'm 1m90 (6,2 feet) and would definitely date smaller guys if we get along well and match. Height doesn't matter for me.
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    Dec 29, 2013 1:37 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidAm 5'4". All of my exes and current partner are about 6 feet. You won't attract everyone just the right ones.

    +1
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    Dec 30, 2013 4:35 AM GMT
    collegelife1 said
    IRFire66 saidIt's in your head. I used to feel pretty insecure for being small and thought I'd never have a chance with hot guys. I've since learned that a lot of bigger guys LOVE smaller guys.


    Sweet! Now all I have to do is get myself out there…which all I need is a starting place haha


    Your profile says you live in Atlanta. So... Blake's. In Midtown. Go find some other hot Atlanta boys and go to town.
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    Dec 30, 2013 9:49 AM GMT
    The OP is talking about his frame and not his height.
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    Dec 30, 2013 1:47 PM GMT
    lgg5819 said
    collegelife1 said
    IRFire66 saidIt's in your head. I used to feel pretty insecure for being small and thought I'd never have a chance with hot guys. I've since learned that a lot of bigger guys LOVE smaller guys.


    Sweet! Now all I have to do is get myself out there…which all I need is a starting place haha


    Your profile says you live in Atlanta. So... Blake's. In Midtown. Go find some other hot Atlanta boys and go to town.


    Haha ok haha

    And yes I did mean my frame not my height.
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    Dec 30, 2013 2:37 PM GMT
    Sorry, no love for the poor skinny ecto--Royal Dragon buffet everyday?
    Must suck having to eat carbs all day, every day--want a cooky? Sorry, I haven't had one in two years.
    As for meeting people: http://socialnetwork.meetup.com/cities/us/ga/atlanta/
    seriously Atlanta??? and you need help.
    Comming out?
    Baby-steps...start with a face pic here, Mr. Livelikeyourdieing.

    Hugs.
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    Dec 31, 2013 6:44 PM GMT
    Ummm thanks for being so blunt?

    There are still people I don't want to know for my own safety so I don't put in face shots to the public. Those pics are found in my private photos.

    Also there is a reason why I chose that phrase as my status and it is not for YOLO or anything of the sort its more personal than that….but I guess I understand why you would harp on it.

    Either way point taken thanks for the advice.
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    Dec 31, 2013 7:03 PM GMT
    5'10" and 155 is HWP. Hell at 19 I was 135!

    Coming out should be fun....you'll remember it all your life, do it your way.
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    Jan 02, 2014 4:41 AM GMT
    We are the exact same height and weight, though I may be a few lbs more. I came out when I was 12 so I have had my share of experience with the gay world, though options in Oklahoma are .. limited. I have met many 'bigger' guys (as in, beefy/muscular) who liked my frame. I'm working to get bigger as you are, but it's not like we're malnourished. 5'10 and 155-160lbs is normal, I'd say.