guys who hate you online for no good reason

  • dommyinlosang...

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    Dec 30, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    you guys have any experiences like this?

    so i was on a gay website (one geared towards gay nudists as this one is for gay athletes) and was chatting away with a nice guy i've chatted with a few times before. nothing special... general pleasant conversation

    i dont normally meet guys on this site... more chatting and pics and stories... it's nice... though i am not against a meet up, hook up, hang out

    well this guy who lives in west hollywood like me just tells me to come over... right then... we were not leading into that... he just said come over...

    i couldn't at the time as i was making food for a farewell dinner, going to gym soon after, a bunch of things... but i totally wanted to another time, or later that night to hang as he seemed kind of cool

    well i get a nasty reply saying how "you can go online looking for sex all day (something i wasnt doing) but not come over" and that he knew the kind of person i was...

    i was like whaaaa? was not leading him on at all... i had that icky feeling of someone hates me and it's a total mistake so i tried clearing it up...

    so i write him back and said i was disappointed at what he said about me and that it wasnt true... i was really busy and explained what i had to do and that i thought he was nice... this got him angrier... he wrote me back brushing me off

    i wrote again apologizing for any misunderstanding and this enraged him even more lol

    yes i finally stopped but i found it freaking hysterical he was getting more and more mad at me for responding politely all because i couldnt go over the exact moment he wanted me to... which is ironic because i would have another time...

    was funny and scary how someone can be like that



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    Dec 30, 2013 12:36 AM GMT
    Looks like you dodged a bullet there.
  • dommyinlosang...

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    Dec 30, 2013 12:38 AM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidLooks like you dodged a bullet there.


    ha ha... yeah... i was thinking that too
  • MikeW

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    Dec 30, 2013 12:38 AM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidLooks like you dodged a bullet there.

    No shit. icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 30, 2013 12:42 AM GMT
    Too many guys confuse friendliness with attraction/lust when it comes to online interaction.
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    Dec 30, 2013 12:45 AM GMT
    Watch your step here on RJ; it takes a lot less to get some people pissed at you.
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    Dec 30, 2013 12:48 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidWatch your step here on RJ; it takes a lot less to get some people pissed at you.

    Are you talking about *me*?
    How DAAAAAARE you?
    (har)
  • MikeW

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    Dec 30, 2013 12:49 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidWatch your step here on RJ; it takes a lot less to get some people pissed at you.

    Fuck, here on RJ some people are just pissed (period).
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    Dec 30, 2013 12:53 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidRJ has haters and lovers.

    Aw, how about neutrals like me icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 30, 2013 12:55 AM GMT
    I heard this guy is really grumpy:

    His profile
  • MikeW

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    Dec 30, 2013 12:56 AM GMT
    Ohno saidI heard this guy is really grumpy:

    His profile

    Not clicking. Know *that* trick. icon_razz.gif
  • dommyinlosang...

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    Dec 30, 2013 12:56 AM GMT
    Ohno saidI heard this guy is really grumpy:

    His profile


    lol... i knew it when i clicked on it... now i'm really mad
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    Dec 30, 2013 12:57 AM GMT
    MikeW said
    Ohno saidI heard this guy is really grumpy:

    His profile

    Not clicking. Know *that* trick. icon_razz.gif

    But it's still funny as hell.
  • Fable

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    Dec 30, 2013 12:57 AM GMT
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    Dec 30, 2013 12:59 AM GMT
    It worked great last time. Maybe because I didn't have people ruining it?

    I think a couple of the people from before still think I was talking about them.
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    Dec 30, 2013 1:00 AM GMT
    Ohno saidIt worked great last time. Maybe because I didn't have people ruining it?

    I think a couple of the people from before still think I was talking about them.

    Time for your yearly spanking. For your year's worth of pranks.
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    Dec 30, 2013 1:20 AM GMT
    crazy how one moment they want to drain your balls, the next they're going to cut them off.

    This:
    xrichx saidToo many guys confuse friendliness with attraction/lust when it comes to online interaction.
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    Dec 30, 2013 11:23 PM GMT
    Ohno saidI heard this guy is really grumpy:

    His profile


    huh??? why do you have my profile there? when have i ever been grumpy??? icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 30, 2013 11:28 PM GMT
    Yes I've still got it icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 30, 2013 11:37 PM GMT
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    Dec 30, 2013 11:38 PM GMT
    "WEHO" - Nuff said. There's some fucked up queens there!
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    Dec 30, 2013 11:39 PM GMT
    I stole it from today's Man of the Day, except he originally used it to be nice (which is why he is Man of the Day).
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    Dec 30, 2013 11:48 PM GMT
    fable said....

    Some people want their koochie now, and don't like to be told no.
    His loss...
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 30, 2013 11:53 PM GMT
    Too many guys are jaded based on their perceptions of their previous poor experiences. If you are going to be on sites like that, expect it, but try and be reasonable and grounded. In this case, don't take it personally and just move on.
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    Dec 30, 2013 11:57 PM GMT
    Never understood online drama with people you've never met. It's easily avoidable.