That was cute.
My first LTR was with a woman (we were both in our 20s). I was out so it wasn't like I was closeted and she just found out by mistake. But sometimes when we'd go out she'd drag me to the Castro and try to get me to hook up with guys (which I wasn't into at all). This, of course, was back in the 70s, pre HIV and all that. I kept telling her, "Look, this relationship is complicated enough, I'm not going there as long as we're together," which she appreciated. And I didn't, either. After we broke up, however, different story. We remain best friends to this day, though.