Jan 01, 2014 4:48 PM GMT
Just went to my first gay club, and all I can say it was a overwhelming experience. I told a friend of mine to take me, and he took me to this leather bar. It was very dark and there a lot of older guys there. I felt weird because almost every guy there kept on starring at me. Some of them even kept on walking past me a couple a times which I thought was even weirder. There were also a few men who were basically naked, and were wearing leather stuff on. I got really taken back when I saw a couple making out, but they were basically nude, one of them was taking the other guys shorts off and looking at their dicks, which i was in shock. After we went to another place but it was also a older crowd. Again almost every single guy starred at me, and I was still nervous. There was this older guy who came up to me with his friend and started talking to me. I knew it didn't take long for them to realize that I was new because one of them tried kissing me on the cheek, but I immediately pulled back. Then I tried dancing, and I did a little since my friend told me to loosen up. Then my friend went to the bathroom, and I was still dancing a bit, but then one of the guys got really close and started touching me which made me really uncomfortable. Then I started backing away, so he could stop. Then afterwords, this stripper came out and started dancing and one of the guys told me to tip the stripper, I was so shy I didn't want to do it. He then slowly started pushing me towards the stripper and handed me a dollar to put in his jockstrap. I put it in quickly, but then the guy took my hand and placed it on the strippers body, which i felt so uncomfortable since it was my first time touching a guy. I think at that moment everyone in the place knew i was new at the moment because i was very hesitant. Overall I thought it was a good experience, but also a overwhelming. next time I go back to the city i hope to stop in places where there are people more my age. Was it weird for you during your first time at a club?